A woman I used to work with would bring her kid on works dos. Baby showers, christmas nights out, birthday gatherings, leaving dos. She always brought her kid (he was around 7-10 when I worked there). I felt quite bad cause her family all lived in Africa where she was from and I don't think dad was in the picture so it was bring him or not come. She already had to pay for a babysitter to work if she was on evenings so I'd imagine it was expensive for a night out as well. He was a quiet kid tbf to him but it was annoying as we'd got to the local town but we could only go to certain places as he was U18. So we couldn't have food at a bar or a pub before the night out (which they obvs didn't come to). It'd have to be a chain restaurant where he was allowed in.Nope! She wanted to know if a particular buffet restaurant that I forget the name of was suitable for her toddler because she planned to take the toddler on a work night out rather than leave the toddler with the dad because the dad 'deserves a childfree night' but her mums said jot to take the toddler so she wanted to know if it was OK because she'd been there before and seen loads of families with kids so she thought it'd be fine... loads of people said the resferaunt is fine for kids but the event isn't and she said most of them are parents as well so she thought it would be OK and loads of people said they'd hate it if they went to the effort to find childcare for a night out and then had to put up with someone else's kid.
I lived in a pub as a kid (no play area) and you are absolutely correct. They've got a games machine and a pool table in some pubs but that's it for kids really. Bit different if there's a restaurant I suppose but if there isn't then it's baffling you'd want to take your child there. I grew up with a girl who's family were in the pub almost every evening cause they were friends with the owner. She was friends with the other kids who's parents did the same so I suppose they all played together away from adults which is fine but I wouldn't have done that personallyFrom the child's perspective, a pub is such a boring place to be. I can speak from experience - as a child I was dragged to the pub most days (my mum is a publican not an alcoholic btw)
I think the pubs with *shudder* play areas are okay for kids but 90% of pubs don't have them and it's unreasonable to expect a young child to sit quietly for that amount of time. I think there should be specific family pubs for kids and the rest should be strictly child-free. Just my opinion though - I'm sure many parents would string me up for saying it!