Chelsea Ferguson

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The questions she answers are all the same.

Will you go on a date with me.
Should I buy designer
How did you lose weight
Would you strip again


Are these people really that boring asking the same questions or does she answer ones that make her look successful and admired?

All her answers are boastful tbh I dont bother with her stories anymore I just want house updates .
She probs writes them herself 😂
 
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Yeah it’s easy to say if you want it stop making excuses when you have childcare, weekends away from kids, cleaner, don’t work and have a kid that is happy being in his pram or Walker 85% of his day plus have the money to have endless personal trainer sessions.
She has moved so far away from being relatable and think she’s pissing a lot of people off now!
I have actually unfollowed her because she has started impacting on my self esteem. I try to do what I can but have kids, work full time and can’t afford a cleaner or personal trainer sessions. I’m with someone but he works full time and doesn’t get in until 8pm most nights so if I wanted to get out walking or doing whatever I’d never see him and be walking in the dark on my own. Think she’s losing the ‘normal’ people who follow her now
please don’t let her or anyone affect yourself esteem. Social media is not real life. Well done for unfollowing hopefully more ‘normal’ people start doing the same to all these ‘influencers’ x
 
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She is so far removed from the real world it’s unbelievable…
Not one bit relatable any more…
 
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She probs writes them herself 😂
You forgot
What do you look for in a man!
please don’t let her or anyone affect yourself esteem. Social media is not real life. Well done for unfollowing hopefully more ‘normal’ people start doing the same to all these ‘influencers’ x
that’s why I had too, I found myself getting really bothered by her and had to question why I was letting her get to me. She posts a lot about looking after her mental health and says she’s not going to make other people make her feel bad because she’s worked hard, but her and all the other influencers need to realise when they have the sort of following they do, they do impact on people and that can be in a negative way. Instagram is a dangerous place and I worry about the impact it all has on teenagers today who aspire to live up to this group of people.
 
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I hate commenting on children but his legs look very bowed stood up against the sofa.

I know a few have mentioned it here before in his walker but especially the left one just now. Neither of mine ever looked like that.
 
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I know she doesn't show his face but she always seem to be sitting behind him whilst he is in a walker / highchair watching the TV 😟 why not next to him
 
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I understand the meal preps for busy people but she’s constantly boasting about how much help she has on hand so why not make her own meals that would be better than that DIRE piece of dry chicken and broccoli.
She also said in a q&a she just wings it with meals so what does the kid eat?!
 
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Why is H always watching cartoons?! Her crawling story to his ipad in his cot with cartoons on 🙄🙄 does he do anything else all day??
 
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Aw, I think she looks really nice in that video. Not many people can look pretty with that make-up style - but she pulls it off. 😊
 
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It's easy for her to say. She had 3 jobs and no children.

How do you expect someone with a child to do it especially if they aren't lucky enough to have family around to help with childcare. It's like going to the gym shes got her Dad to watch him and the baby dad has him Fri-Sun/Mon. Some people literally have no one to help with childcare.

I've always liked her but I agree with you all, she has changed now and isn't relatable at all now, then when she makes comments like this it angers me.

It's so easy for her to say. When I lived at home I used to to have 2 jobs and the second job tax was so much that I barely come out with anything extra after tax, so I had to drop it as I was doing a 12 hour night shift at my main job (as a nurse) then coming home having 4 hours sleep and going to my second job. It was making me ill living on 4 hours sleep. It was unsafe.

I didn't have children at the time and I was living at home with my parents after my partner left me with nothing, he took off with our savings and he took my car that my Dad had bought me a few years previous, he moved miles away with a girl he had met on the Internet so I had to save to get a new one to even be able to get to work until the police tried to sort getting it back for me. Then save for a house and furniture etc etc I had to start from scratch.

I picked up extra shifts on days off at work and then I would do a few hours on the side helping at my Dad's friend's pub/resteraunt and he would do cash in hand for me but alot of places don't do this now (this was over 10 years ago) because everyone is so quick to report things like that because it's easier to do so with the internet and because I feel people are just so much more in each others business now.

The point of the post is that minimum wage needs to be increased or bills cost of living reduced but not according to Chelsea. She doesn't agree. As that's basically what she's disagreeing with on this post.

The post is saying people are working long hours for barely anything but Chelsea thinks that's fine, just work more hours if you really want out of poverty you can do it. It's like saying you've no excuse to be depressed because of money if you're that bothered you would work more hours.

I can see why she doesn't run the business and her cousin does, if this is the way her mind works. It's very shallow one tracked thinking. She seems to see things black and white doesn't think more than that.or try to see a bigger picture.
 

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It's easy for her to say. She had 3 jobs and no children.

How do you expect someone with a child to do it especially if they aren't lucky enough to have family around to help with childcare. It's like going to the gym shes got her Dad to watch him and the baby dad has him Fri-Sun/Mon. Some people literally have no one to help with childcare.

I've always liked her but I agree with you all, she has changed now and isn't relatable at all now, then when she makes comments like this it angers me.

It's so easy for her to say. When I lived at home I used to to have 2 jobs and the second job tax was so much that I barely come out with anything extra after tax, so I had to drop it as I was doing a 12 hour night shift at my main job (as a nurse) then coming home having 4 hours sleep and going to my second job. It was making me ill living on 4 hours sleep. It was unsafe.

I didn't have children at the time and I was living at home with my parents after my partner left me with nothing, he took off with our savings and he took my car that my Dad had bought me a few years previous, he moved miles away with a girl he had met on the Internet so I had to save to get a new one to even be able to get to work until the police tried to sort getting it back for me. Then save for a house and furniture etc etc I had to start from scratch.

I picked up extra shifts on days off at work and then I would do a few hours on the side helping at my Dad's friend's pub/resteraunt and he would do cash in hand for me but alot of places don't do this now (this was over 10 years ago) because everyone is so quick to report things like that because it's easier to do so with the internet and because I feel people are just so much more in each others business now.

The point of the post is that minimum wage needs to be increased or bills cost of living reduced but not according to Chelsea. She doesn't agree. As that's basically what she's disagreeing with on this post.

The post is saying people are working long hours for barely anything but Chelsea thinks that's fine, just work more hours if you really want out of poverty you can do it. It's like saying you've no excuse to be depressed because of money if you're that bothered you would work more hours.

I can see why she doesn't run the business and her cousin does, if this is the way her mind works. It's very shallow one tracked thinking. She seems to see things black and white doesn't think more than that.or try to see a bigger picture.
I understand what you mean but I am going to judge her by her intentions here. I think she means to give other people hope with her own story and is trying to encourage people, it’s not her being mean/boastful in my estimation.

Maybe if you wrote this under Chelsea’s post she may understand your POV better. I do get where you’re coming from btw, not everyone can have a side hustle, let alone one as successful as hers. But I don’t think she’s an idiot, and she will listen to others opinions from what I’ve seen of her online presence.
 
Get a side hustle "aka" pay no tax 🥴 I really doubt she declared much of her stripper earnings ... Whereas online cam stuff can be tracked.

(Not shaming sex work btw .. just saying I imagine a lot goes undeclared)
 
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I understand what you mean but I am going to judge her by her intentions here. I think she means to give other people hope with her own story and is trying to encourage people, it’s not her being mean/boastful in my estimation.

Maybe if you wrote this under Chelsea’s post she may understand your POV better. I do get where you’re coming from btw, not everyone can have a side hustle, let alone one as successful as hers. But I don’t think she’s an idiot, and she will listen to others opinions from what I’ve seen of her online presence.

Nope I used to think this but the last few weeks she's made her point clear now. Few pages back there's another example where she had said similar. Someone else put it on its a screenshot of a long Facebook post she put on. Very similar tone. Then there was the cat insurance / go fund me thing which was shocking. Like someone said on here yes £15 a month might not be much to her but could mean the difference between gas and electric and none for a week, or food in their child's tummy or not.

Then she made a similar point about people wanting to loose weight "there's no excuses" she said.

Well it's ok when you have the money for a peloton, money for a babysitter (pays her dad) while you, again pay, for a personal trainer and pays for pre cooked healthy meals to be delivered to her door.

I'm really happy for her and have always been a fan but lately, as I've said above, she's become un relatable.

A single parent replied saying she would love to loose weight but by the times she finished her full time job, picks her little one up from the childcare, gets home makes tea, baths child and puts to bed she has an hour before she has to go to bed ready for work the next day. Weekends she has no childcare and does go for walks.

Chelseas reply was so cold.

I've unfollowed her now on everything. My opinion is she has definitely changed and I noticed it more since she split up with the BD.
 
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Good forbid she’d take her son to a mother and toddler group! Stick him in nursery to socialise instead 🤦‍♀️
 
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Good forbid she’d take her son to a mother and toddler group! Stick him in nursery to socialise instead 🤦‍♀️
Totally. He'll be in nursery in the mornings, her dad having him in the afternoons, dad on the weekend. But she's a relatable single mum 🙄
 
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