I like honesty Princess, and feel free to be nosy. I have said A, so I will say B...just a bit amused at the moment that someone has called me "passive aggressive" here today, in the real world nobody would ever call me that. I am surprised that I come across as that virtually. So, your question ; I tend to be very careful about who I have sex with, and I try to make sure that they are married most of the time. I have slept with single ladies, but I stay away from sweet romantic girls looking for love. I am never trying to fool anyone, I am quite open about what I can give. I have always been a ladies man, and broke a few hearts as a young man, but now I pull away from girls/women that I think could get hurt by me. No matter how tempting they are, plenty of fish in the sea. I like people with empathy and feelings, I don't want to use them. I prefer a different type for my fun. Where do I meet them? At work, at private clubs, at parties, buying a car (
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only once) on my weekends away to the sea with the lads, in shops...well, anywhere. But not the internet, I never hook up online. Tatyana situation would never happen to me. I don't waste time, and I want to see who I am talking to straight in the eyes. Their agenda must be hot sex (I prefer slightly sexually submissive women), and a bit of greed does not deterr me either. I don't mind being a bit generous if I get good stuff in return. And no, not only one night/day stands, I have a lady friend I have known for...more than 20 years! If this shocks anyone, well... The fact is that sex is older than you and stronger than you. It does happen, I am not the least bit unique in having sex with other people than my wife. To many it is wrong, and that is fine by me.