Ouch! If someone proposed to me because he wanted to do something nice for me and a holiday wasn't enough I'd be gutted. I want a man to propose to me because he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and for me to be his wife.I think she said something along the lines of; he said he wanted to take me on holiday to do something nice for me, and he felt it wasn’t enough, and proposal seemed the natural option.
I have to admit I’m really surprised she’s not after having a big grand wedding. I thought it was in the nature of every YouTuber to be a massive ‘look at me!’ show-off. I wonder if *that’s* the compromise. He said I’ll marry you, but it has to be a small thing. And of course she’s going along with ‘oh,WE only want a low key wedding’ Hmmm... Charl, you eye-duck yourself on camera constantly and the past six months has been ALL centred around showing off your extension. Dress it up as ‘sharing what we’ve worked so hard for’ all you want - the bottom line is, ALL insta and YT is about bragging/showing off/self centred ness. That’s just what it is. So yeah, my bet is she’d LOVE a massive showy wedding but if she wants to marry HIM, he’s told her to keep it small. He seems the total opposite of her and I do feel sorry for the bloke.
Not because it was a nice thing to do.
His heart isn't in it.
I have the same issue reg marriage. My OH is absolutely against marriage. We won't ever marry. I'm over that dream, if he was to propose, I'd know he was only doing it because its what I want. Not because he wants to, and I couldn't say yes.