Agree with a lot of these points but she could still be a not very nice person deep down, selfish and subconsciously neglectful but still have some sort of mental health issue. Where it stems from exactly I don’t know because I don’t know her past but I really do think there’s an issue. She’s sort of removed from reality which isn’t healthy for anyone.But the reality is she is 'coping'. It's just a very selective, self-indulgent type coping. She is able to very effectively look after hers and Marks needs, for example. They eat plentiful meals. They have new clothes and nice things. She dolls herself up most days. She's functioning optimally (home management for example, i.e. cleaning and taking care of the garden). She's "working". They go on dates. She functions really well. She is 'coping' when it's required i.e. for her and Mark. There's absolutely nothing wrong with how she's getting by day-by-day, she's just got a sinister side deep within her which results in her neglecting her kids and dog.
She strikes me as someone who won't admit fault. Can't see her shortcomings. Won't accept criticism. She's probably an absolute nightmare within the family unit, hence no-one dares challenge her. She's not a nice women. She's not someone you want to be around or know.
That's what bothers me so incredibly so when people say this is a mental illness because many, many people who suffer aren't hideous people like Charlotte. Her pitiful attempts at blaming this on depression, PTSD or hormones is just another attempt at garnering sympathy.
She drinks, not because she's an alcoholic, but because she's so selfish and so detached from the kids. Her needs matter more. She's asserting her authority here. My evenings are MY time. I'm not giving up MY time. Those kids won't dictate what I do. She's a very neglectful wome (the kids, not herself).
Agreed! A so called “influencer” posting this shite makes as much sense as cutting shit laden grass in your bare feet!!Yes Charl, but you’re not supposed to be a neglectful alcoholic excuse of a mother who exploits their kids and lies about their body size!
Me, me, me, me. Your kids go back to school next week Charlotte, can't you even spend the last couple of days with them? She's the most selfish women in the world.Omg the fucking 'me' time at Costas 'cos Frank's off to the football for the AFTERNOON!!!
Description of a narcissist to a T !But the reality is she is 'coping'. It's just a very selective, self-indulgent type coping. She is able to very effectively look after hers and Marks needs, for example. They eat plentiful meals. They have new clothes and nice things. She dolls herself up most days. She's functioning optimally (home management for example, i.e. cleaning and taking care of the garden). She's "working". They go on dates. She functions really well. She is 'coping' when it's required i.e. for her and Mark. There's absolutely nothing wrong with how she's getting by day-by-day, she's just got a sinister side deep within her which results in her neglecting her kids and dog.
She strikes me as someone who won't admit fault. Can't see her shortcomings. Won't accept criticism. She's probably an absolute nightmare within the family unit, hence no-one dares challenge her. She's not a nice women. She's not someone you want to be around or know.
That's what bothers me so incredibly so when people say this is a mental illness because many, many people who suffer aren't hideous people like Charlotte. Her pitiful attempts at blaming this on depression, PTSD or hormones is just another attempt at garnering sympathy.
She drinks, not because she's an alcoholic, but because she's so selfish and so detached from the kids. Her needs matter more. She's asserting her authority here. My evenings are MY time. I'm not giving up MY time. Those kids won't dictate what I do. She's a very neglectful wome (the kids, not herself).
I saw your comment and you put it so nicely much nicer than I would have done.I know a mum like this too!
I'm still put out that she bloody blocked me. I was using my own account and I was very tactful in my wording. She could have just replied like a normal person instead of blocking me.
Those kids need keeping an eye on. Daisy especially is very under weight
What did the comment say?I saw your comment and you put it so nicely much nicer than I would have done.
I told her that her daughter looked rather underweight and to pad it out in the hopes of not being blocked, i asked if she had a medical condition (that's causing the weight issue) and i also said i didn't mean to cause any offence.What did the comment say?
She will have blocked you because she is a regular tattle reader and she will know Daisy’s weight has been discussed on here recently. She will just block anybody who mentions it or Stans sticklers because she assumes they are on tattle.I know a mum like this too!
I'm still put out that she bloody blocked me. I was using my own account and I was very tactful in my wording. She could have just replied like a normal person instead of blocking me.
Those kids need keeping an eye on. Daisy especially is very under weight
Go to her YouTube account > about > click on her Instagram page through thereI told her that her daughter looked rather underweight and to pad it out in the hopes of not being blocked, i asked if she had a medical condition (that's causing the weight issue) and i also said i didn't mean to cause any offence.
Which I don't, I am genuinely concerned about her malnourished kids and didn't want to be blocked.
I heard Charlotte is not a nice person and is rather different in real life to what she tries to present online and now I know that is 100% correct.
What I really should have said since I got blocked anyway is that she needs to stop eating all the food herself and feed her kids better. Stop being so selfish looking after herself and Frank and put her kids first!
Is she though? She can't read here. She keeps repeating the behaviours we're discussing and not making any changes. I really don't think she reads here at all.She will have blocked you because she is a regular tattle reader and she will know Daisy’s weight has been discussed on here recently. She will just block anybody who mentions it or Stans sticklers because she assumes they are on tattle.
But is that not a sign of a narcissistic person? They can admit no fault do no wrong even if its been pointed out multiple times its everyone else's fault every one else gets the blame for their behaviours?Go to her YouTube account > about > click on her Instagram page through there
Worth giving it a go - somehow it worked for me when she'd blocked me. Not sure why it did.
Is she though? She can't read here. She keeps repeating the behaviours we're discussing and not making any changes. I really don't think she reads here at all.
Go to her YouTube account > about > click on her Instagram page through there
Worth giving it a go - somehow it worked for me when she'd blocked me. Not sure why it did.
Is she though? She can't read here. She keeps repeating the behaviours we're discussing and not making any changes. I really don't think she reads here at all.
Kayley participates in this thread you meanI 100% think she reads here - regularly! She did post on here on one of the very early threads.
She will often make little comments aimed at tattle like when she bought the pork scratchings the other day and then said “I’m sure these will divide opinion” because last time she had them it was discussed on here. Same with the wedding cake topper which one was discussed on here then she showed it on a YouTube wedding update video she couldn’t look at the camera and just mentioned it quickly then moved on.
I think she reads this thread, her mum reads this thread and her BFF Kayley reads this thread.
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?