I’ve never actually googled stickler syndrome but after seeing Charl say the boys are nothing like her and daisy, it made me curious. My god, the children on the images literally look like Daisy and Stan. As a parent we’re racked with guilt at the best of times (except for Charl with the privacy of her kids) but she needs to put this aside, she’ll feel more guilt in years to come when she knew she could have supported him much sooner. Essentially, Stan was checked for a cleft palate along with the facial features of Pierre Robin Sequence (that she’s mentioned she has due to sticklers), there’s no way in hell she’s had him genetically tested or she would have had an amniocentesis (and would have been used for content) or it would have been done at birth. Her ‘confirmation’ that he doesn’t have it is in her birth video when she asks and they say no at the time. Sorry but that’s really wound me up, it’s so neglectful!