Caroline Flack

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But why would she have turned a table over in the police station hours later?

Surely that would only really happen if she was still in a really agitated state? (like having to be physically restrained by police on the ground)
I don’t know, I wasn’t there.

There are a lot of ‘why’ questions about the whole thing that none of us know the answers to. That’s my point.
 
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It is really hard to find the right drug to help depression/anxiety etc. I was on lexapro which didn’t do much and then seroquel which made me like a zombie with muscle twitches and nightmares. Coming off them I felt like I was dying the pain was horrible. They never mention the withdrawals you get. I hope you find something that helps. Please stay safe.
 
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Here, here!
Very well said.
 
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I appreciate that there may be children who are ‘just naughty’ but equally there are many children with autism / ADHD who are struggling to behave appropriately through no fault of their own - it is not that they are just ‘being naughty’. And they really do get almost no help whatsoever even with a diagnosis so they aren’t exactly taking resources away from others, because there are no resources (and their diagnosis relates to their disability - again, not a mental health issue).

Sorry to derail.
 
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I started doing yoga, meditation and then discovered I have an auto immune condition which I now believe the inflammation that comes with it was responsible for my mental health issues. I don’t even believe in drug therapy for most depression/anxiety related issues now. They do more harm than good. But thank you so much for your message
 
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I don’t know, I wasn’t there.

There are a lot of ‘why’ questions about the whole thing that none of us know the answers to. That’s my point.
From what I read it sounded like she flipped a table in her own house and had to be restrained.
I'm not sure where the thinking that it was at the police station. I'm fairly certain she would have been cuffed at the station. Would be impressive if she managed to flip a table in cuffs.
 
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Aw the end of love island really made me sad. Ian’s voice always sounds so enthusiastic but (obviously) he sounded so heartbroken and sad And the picture of her with the years. Idk it just made my heart break
 
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But why would she have turned a table over in the police station hours later?

Surely that would only really happen if she was still in a really agitated state? (like having to be physically restrained by police on the ground)
It’s not possible to turn over a table or chair in the police station they’re all fixed to the floor! (Never beef arrested... work in crime!)
 
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I just read on Twitter something about how ian literally carries the show, and how it sounded so flat and how ian didn’t make any jokes because he’s not in the right headspace. However good on him for carrying on
 
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Never once did I claim it was self defence nor condone the violence. But if you are willing to engage in violent acts you are opening yourself up to being hurt. Both have said it was a very toxic relationship on both sides. I’m taller and heavier that Bruce Lee. I wouldn’t last a second. I work with people with challenging behaviour, size means nothing. My most violent offenders have been small and slight. Every action has a reaction I’m afraid, whether that reaction is justifiable or not.
 
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It was from here....

"Ms Weiss told the court Flack was disruptive while in police custody. She said: 'Her behaviour gets worse, she flips over a table and then has to be restrained on the ground.'"


But I can now see police custody could be as soon as she was arrested not just at the police station. In my defence, I was thinking about 24 Hours in Police Custody and them being at the station.

It’s not possible to turn over a table or chair in the police station they’re all fixed to the floor! (Never beef arrested... work in crime!)
See above.
 
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I started doing the same yoga and meditation. Meditation is hard for me. I actually start to panic and think bad thoughts. So weird. My doctors says I am healthy (blood tests etc) How do you know you have an auto immune condition. My whole body feels inflamed and my legs ache and hurt all the time. Plus started getting pelvic pain. I think mentally yoga was helping but my body has never hurt so much and I use to run 10km a day with no problems. Do you have any body pain doing yoga?
 
Please educate yourself. Autism is not a mental health issue like depression or anxiety it is actually a neurodisability and it physically affects how autistics interact with the world.
Or it's a state of being that doesn't fit with the way the world is currently set up.
 
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I took sertraline of which apparently CF took, it hit me so hard. I felt sick constantly and I just wanted to ram my car into the nearest wall. I told this to my husband I felt so alone. They changed me to citalopram same thing. Also experienced very low mood on certain contraceptive pills, certainly have an imbalance for sure. Perhaps Caroline had bipolar disorder? I have a friend with this who’s a frequent cocaine user... She really takes a-lot and drinks wine along with her bpd meds and Crohn’s disease. It’s just such a cocktail I believe it’s her survival mechanism as she was abused when she was young. We don’t know anyone’s story and I’m not making excuses for Caroline but to me she just always looked sad and needy. I mean that in an understanding way. Maybe she took it out on her partner/partners almost as an outlet, her frustration? Again not condoning her actions just trying to understand the make up of her. We all make bad decisions no one is perfect.
 
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Imagine needing the smas and getting to a auto and then not being placed on hold but it hanging up....
 
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