I’d argue that she looks a damn sight better than most 96 year olds.
For 96, she’s doing amazing.
Re: Camilla. I think she has put in the work, done the time, never complained, so I think she has proven herself in the past couple of decades. Do I condone cheating? No. But the whole Diana as wife scenario seemed like a contract, a weird Royal decision thing and I can see all the participants getting dragged into it etc.
Given the choice of Camilla, who knows how to work the charitable events, how to show interest in community groups etc, or, say, Meghan if she came back who just loves to wear expensive cloths for a photo op, it’s Camilla I would choose every time. It’s a job that she has proven she could do. Also, Catherine may be boring to some, but she’s playing it right for when William’s time comes. Like her or not she’s elegant, appears measured (not hot headed like Harry and Meghan), and would be a calm representative. She’s been training for this for years and I think her kids will be raised to be sensible and caring.
That said, I do think monarchy has had its day, there’s not really the justification of the whole birthright to rule a land any more, we have governments. If we got rid of the monarchy now I don’t think we would topple, we could still have the royal tourist traps, etc.