It’s either really deliberate how differently she speaks about my girl and the boy online, in which case why? Or it is subconscious but either way she definitely has a favourite. My girl gets a gushing post because she commented on her earrings and the boy ends up with 100,000 strangers knowing about his foot warts. If it is coming across in her highlight reel where she picks and chooses what she shares, how is it manifesting in this little boy’s everyday life? I have 2 little ones who are so very different but are loved, celebrated and appreciated in equal measures. Is it because she looks at Erin like a little mini me and it is just a sign of her raging narcissism? It’s so messed up.