I think a lot of us can agree that if Brooklyn was even slightly upfront about not following strict mormon rules with Dakota that most of us would be supportive and let the girl live her life. I have tons of Mormon family so I understand the pressure and 100% support those who want to leave the church, but it can be confusing and damaging for viewers when they pick and choose when to be honest or choose when things are shameful or not. It’s harmful and can really blur the lines for (especially young) viewers