killtheold
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i've been feeling a bit bored with reading at the moment - just checked my goodreads and i haven't read a single 5 star book this year! really need to get stuck into something mindblowing
Oh, did someone say Sally Rooney who wrote Normal People, the TV adaptation of which stars Paul Mescal???I know writers write what they know Sally Rooney and her brown haired plain tortured literary girlies. However it doesnt always work. It does for Sal though.
This is exactly where I get to. If I cant do it to 100% perfection I wont do it all. It really has hindered me so much in my life. I have very few hobbies because if I cant run a 25 min 5k inside a few days why would I want to. If I cant crochet a whole cardigan within days of picking up hooks then whats the point etc etc and on and on I go.Resting and self care are as important a part of life as any other. If you never fill your cup then how can you keep pouring? I have a constant to-list in my head but rarely the motivation to do the doing! And actually, for me, reading felt like the only way to pass time that was worthwhile. Allowing myself to Netflix this year has been a revelation. We are so prone to black and white thinking. If I don’t do it all, I’m a failure, etc. @Caffeine Fiend i love your approach because it’s breaking life down into manageable bite size chunks. As someone who can find a day overwhelmingly long, I really appreciate the value in tackling it one task at a time. And being compassionate and pragmatic about what can wait! I’m actually considering seeking assessment for neurodivergence. There’s a high cooccurrence between autism/adhd and eating disorders. Many boxes ticked! Knowledge is power, right?
i truly don’t know! i guess i don’t open books ALL the way or ever put them face down, and i kinda stop at regular intervals to close the book and smooth the spine (i have many weird reading quirks )I is she and she is me
How do you not crack the spine? I’m intrigued
i loved that book. it’s a beautiful discussion of friendship but i thought it really came into its own when it actually became a book about grief and sudden loss. the whole stardew valley chapter (i can’t remember the game in the book!) is maybe one of the most beautiful pieces of writing i read last year.Reading the last few chapters of Tomorrow x 3 but I keep stopping because I'm trying not to cry!
I’m also married to a gamer!A reading partner always finds a gaming one, Im sure of it.
Mine is a gaming golden retriever and I am a blanket hag who hisses if anyone interrupts her reading. He fetches me drinks and snacks.
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Timers for the win I also read when I should be doing house bits. Oh well
Just quoting last night me to say I’ve already bought two 99p books but in my defence they were both on my wish list and one was a John Marrs which I’m never going to say no to.Wait a minute, some people don’t buy 99p reads immediately?
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Haha in all seriousness though, that’s a really good idea. I’m going to give it a go too.