im sure it goes on more than we think but I don’t think the majority of people seek out stuff like this or similar ! I know people will give out to me now for being so old fashioned but I think it’s gross !
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Same!im sure it goes on more than we think but I don’t think the majority of people seek out stuff like this or similar ! I know people will give out to me now for being so old fashioned but I think it’s gross !
I think gross is a bit extreme, it's just not for you.im sure it goes on more than we think but I don’t think the majority of people seek out stuff like this or similar ! I know people will give out to me now for being so old fashioned but I think it’s gross !
People out there thinking they are happy and possibly cocky in monogamous relationships when chances are one of them are cheating, which is actually gross.
I think whatever consenting adults do with each other is absolutely fine and normal and no one is ever in a position to judge.
no, I do feel more strongly than just ‘not for me’ . I feel in today’s society you aren’t allowed have strong opinions on things like this. I personally would not be ok with my sister (for example) if she was in a throuple. Doesn’t mean I wouldn’t love her and I’d be nice to anyone no matter how they live.
But I wouldn’t just be like “cool , happy for you” .
But for all you know she could in a throuple or she could of trying out a threesome last year and she's just keeping it private.
What about it do you find gross? I'm not being argumentative, just interested in your reasoning ?
My own opinion is as long as someone's happy and no one is getting harmed (emotionally, physically, cheating or otherwise) live and let live.
People's needs aren't as black and white as conventional society believes. I wouldn't give two fiddlers if a friend/sibling had such an arrangement and I'd defend them to the hilt to any gossipers *providing no one is being harmed. What consenting adults do amongst themselves is their own business.
In this case it's slightly different, I think Una went about it the wrong way completely. Nothing wrong with what she is doing but the publicity created could be very harmful to her children at such a precious age. People in Thurles will certainly gossip about this.
Yeah & I think you and many others are obviously just more accepting and more chilled than me. I’m not saying how I feel about it is right , I’m saying I can’t change my way of thinking. It does not sit right with me . Like I don’t agree with people raising kids as gender neutral but another person could say “why do you care it’s none of your business” . Just how I feel but like I said I’m clearly not as chilled as others
Agree with you completely. I’m the same. I’m so aware that I can’t be open about my views on the gender issue though. That’s for sure. Like in work etc.Yeah & I think you and many others are obviously just more accepting and more chilled than me. I’m not saying how I feel about it is right , I’m saying I can’t change my way of thinking. It does not sit right with me . Like I don’t agree with people raising kids as gender neutral but another person could say “why do you care it’s none of your business” . Just how I feel but like I said I’m clearly not as chilled as others
Ah to be fair it's entirely different. Anyone who raises their kids as gender neutral needs to be sent to an asylum in my opinion.
I have very strong views against that. Throuples and things that happen amongst consenting fully developed intellectually adults, my views are live and let live!
I have very strong views against that. Throuples and things that happen amongst consenting fully developed intellectually adults, my views are live and let live!
well if anyone finds me in a throuple in a few years it would only be through a mental breakdown
so I would actually want my family / friends to intervene!It’s more common now because people talk about it! Sure we have all heard of the stories of the ballroom of romances from our parents and grandparents, they weren’t virgins or as innocent as we all think but it was kept quiet because of the catholic church. Threesomes and orgies go way back, sure the Roman’s and Greeks were sex mad!! ! Look at how fucked up Ireland was with a view of sex, unmarried mothers and out of wedlock babies until the mid 1990s. I only learnt recently that the 7 day gap in the pill was thought up by medical professionals to get approval by the Vatican!!! We had a sheltered life until The rise of social media and everyone airing their business has increased our knowledge of anything sexual. People got popular because of sex tapes - kim Kardashian! Porn has never been more accessible and only fans seem to be a must have side income earner. To be honest I couldn’t give a fiddlers what anyone does in their relationship! Like I said previously anyone who boasts about it clearly lacks some sort of self value and self respect in themselves that they need validation from others for their own relationship. It will be interesting to see next time she’s on the late late if Ryan asks her about it. We’d know then if it was truth or gossip.
Oh God, her answering questions about it on the Late Late Show gives me the absolute ick 
Between being in a thruple and starring in the horror M3gan I don’t know where she gets the time
when was this?Oh God, her answering questions about it on the Late Late Show gives me the absolute ick
She wasn't on the Late Late. The poster was being hypothetical?
In all seriousness though, I had never heard the word "trouple" before this. "threesomes" yes, and that was more in the context of behind closed doors, no-strings stuff between three people. I remember reading an article on swingers clubs in Ireland, but again, it's all hush hush. To borrow a term of phrase from the movie "Fight Club"...."The first rule about swingers club is:you do not talk about swingers club.
Now onto the 'trouple" -a committed relationship between three people". As in, sharing all the trials and tribulations of being in a relationship: managing finances, the weekly shop, sharing the chores, home improvements, in sickness and in health etc etc and that's before we get to the number one thing in this case: the fact there are young kids involved. I call absolute bull on this. As we speak, DH is swanning around some fancy exotic resort with his girlfriend and Una is posting her usual boring home gym selfies in Thurles. This is purely a publicity stunt . I think she is just desperate to get back in the public eye and the cryptic posts from Morocco were to get people talking about her or get back at her ex. Really? Is this worth it?
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oh sorry I didn't read the comment above lol.
Tubridy isn't really known for the hard hitting questions so I'd say she'd be safe enough
You are allowed have strong opinions on whatever you want. People asking you to elaborate on what you mean by gross isn’t trying to censor you
I literally don’t know what you expect me to say without going into explicit detailYou are allowed have strong opinions on whatever you want. People asking you to elaborate on what you mean by gross isn’t trying to censor you
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