I don't give a flying f*** what Wendy would eat on death row. Here are some questions I'd like her to answer:
At what point would you stop enabling and encouraging her behaviour, particularly her weight gain? Are you waiting for a particular event to happen?
Is the way she runs around after the clearly not-interested JP - fawning over him, buying him gifts, and flying over like some kind of pump-and-dump - are these the values that you brought Becky up with? Are you proud of how she begs for a man's attention?
You showed pictures of yourself around Becky's age. Do you worry about the direction her life is heading, compared to yours?