Sooo... just like everyone else is? She has such a strange understanding of what being in a relationship means, I reckon it could be the reason she's not in a relationship right now. Just because I have a partner doesn't mean we're attached at the hip and do everything while holding hands. If you're unhappy being on your own, you'll be unhappy with someone else too. A partner (contrary to what Beckie believes) doesn't cure illnesses, doesn't solve money problems, isn't someone you can trauma dump on, expect attention from 24/7 etc. I'd say something really poetic now on what a relationship really is but can't think of anything lmao, just trying to say that a relationship doesn't make life perfect so you should learn to cope with shit on your own first and foremost and not expect applause for doing so