And this is where her focusing on making friends instead of only seeking romance would help her, because if she knew more people at a more intimate level who are her age, she’d see how most people don’t have everything they want. I know people who are getting married, desperate to get married but aren’t engaged, having to restart their life at almost 30 because their relationship ended, haven’t been in a relationship in years, have never been in a long term relationship, some are in brand new relationships, some are in relationships that kind of suck. I know people with very few friends, no best friends, people who throw themselves into every activity to meet people, some who are more recluse. People with sick parents, dead parents, dying parents, a good relationship with them, a terrible relationship with them, broken families, massive families, no siblings. People who are sick themselves mentally or physically, who want to lose weight, get fitter, recovering from an injury, have an eating disorder, have anxiety, ADHD, OCD. People who are broke and struggle to stay in work. People who are rich. People who are career climbers and hitting all their goals, people in jobs they hate, jobs they love that don’t pay enough, people who are winging it and just doing whatever work they come across. And obviously, of all these “different” people I listed, many of them are actually the same person! With multiple good and bad parts of their life! No not “everyone” has love and life and everything they want. She doesn’t view anyone as having as complex a life and mind as she does and that’s part of what winds her up so much. And because she shares it all on social media she seems to think that if people don’t share these things on social media then it must not be happening to them.
