Beckiejbrown #4 Whether she’s bi or whether she’s straight, fake ADHD means love has to wait
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The egg on top of the bags of fertiliser and potting mix 
I think her parents set it up for the 3 (adult) kids. Beckie is totally infantalised.
I was ready to cringe at the egg hunt but tbf if it makes them happy and lifts the family spirits it's not that bad? Hearing them laugh is heaps better than a vomit sloshing instagram story
I like how Greg? (I think thats his name) was like oh duck off light heartedly when Beckie sniped all the eggs from the garden. Lol I always like greg I loved that video where beckie had him in her art room.
He always seemed a lot more chill than Beckie.
beckie just referred to her flat as "the flat of broken dreams".... ffs get a grip
And own over 50% of it so probably bordering on £8/90K(?) to use as equity towards another home when she moves on, and she's only 31.can i have the flat instead? i’d love to get out of my penetrating damp and cold home that my landlord won’t fixhonestly becky you have no idea how privileged you are to own!!!
I'm not surprised, have you seen her decor.
She really isn't good at playing the piano is she. I am not even close to knowing anything about music but she misses notes and stumbles every clip she shares, but still complains everything is too easy. But if it was shouldn't she play it perfectly??
I want to shake her sometimes.
her latest post.. she can’t move on until the NHS recognise her as ADHD? I want to ask her and then what would you do with it? Because a label doesn’t fix things. You can’t stop life waiting around for that. Also, if it’s that important suck it up and go private. I feel like she is just in a permanent state of feeling sorry for herself. Imagine her in a war zone, simply wouldn’t cope.
Is she even working at the moment? Sorry but any normal bloke would run a mile. She is just so high maintenance I can’t deal.
her latest post.. she can’t move on until the NHS recognise her as ADHD? I want to ask her and then what would you do with it? Because a label doesn’t fix things. You can’t stop life waiting around for that. Also, if it’s that important suck it up and go private. I feel like she is just in a permanent state of feeling sorry for herself. Imagine her in a war zone, simply wouldn’t cope.
Is she even working at the moment? Sorry but any normal bloke would run a mile. She is just so high maintenance I can’t deal.
I honestly do feel some pity for her with how sorry that she feels for herself. That in turn, is not helping her isolation and she is holding herself back. I never not quite understand what it means that she does not feel happiness and that she is bored with life, she must have some positive feelings in her life or some happiness, or if Beckie is being dramatic. I don't know if she has convinced herself that she doesn't feel any happiness or she can't do it. I think that she has prevented herself from feeling happiness as she has decided that she can only feel it if she has the ADHD diagnosis and she is 'accepted,' by the NHS, or if she has a partner, though they don't need
I do honestly feel that one of the best things for her to do is try and find a support group for adults with autism or try and find some ND people to speak with it and socialise if she can't feel accepted in the world. I don't know if she would find herself rejected from them though or see herself as the victim. I do wonder what she means with her 'skill regression'. I am mostly putting it on here as she reads and she can explain it. I do wonder if this will be her doing about moving in with her mum as she can't function on her own all of a sudden. I know it is a real thing but I know that Beckie would be having it worse than anyone else.
I do honestly feel that one of the best things for her to do is try and find a support group for adults with autism or try and find some ND people to speak with it and socialise if she can't feel accepted in the world. I don't know if she would find herself rejected from them though or see herself as the victim. I do wonder what she means with her 'skill regression'. I am mostly putting it on here as she reads and she can explain it. I do wonder if this will be her doing about moving in with her mum as she can't function on her own all of a sudden. I know it is a real thing but I know that Beckie would be having it worse than anyone else.
Putting her life on hold until she’s diagnosed is just her current excuse for not having to change or do anything hard. As soon as she’s diagnosed (if she even gets diagnosed), the new excuse will be that she has ADHD so she can’t do things. Then it will be they haven’t gotten her medication right. Then it will be some other disorder she’s decided she wants to have and she has to wait for that diagnosis.
Wallowing in self pity is easier than trying.
People don’t like her and she wants to blame that on something out of her control. If people didn’t like her because she’s autistic, that means it’s not her fault! She can’t accept that her behavior (that is fully within her control) is the problem. That’s why she’s after another diagnosis. She thought being diagnosed autistic would mean everyone would give her a pass.
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She already has migraines and "I know people with cancer" lined up in case the ADHD diagnosis comes too soon.
She wants a bleeping apology. For what? Being born and raised a white cis women in the UK, receiving public health care, loving parents, family, owned flat, car, expensive hobbies? Yes I think we should all apologize how crappy her life is. She is the person doing all of this to herself.
Oh boy, I fear Rebecca is in for one hell of a rude awakening if she ever realises how her life as she plans it won't work out even with whatever diagnoses she's after and that to a significant degree it'll be of her own doing. Her own perspective (can't move on, hates people, love being the only thing she's after), her own inaction (always waiting), her entitlement (apology? duck off), her ingratitude ("flat of broken dreams"). Let's hope the awakening happens sooner than later, better before she's 35 than sitting around as a 40 / 50 / 60 year old realising she wasted some good years chasing a pipe dream. If she thinks she has it bad now,... Although, maybe she stays ignorant forever... let's wait and see.....
But what is her dream? I don’t understand what she is trying to say that she wants. She constantly contradicts herself, away from people but wants to be married and have kids? What is her dream? What does she want?
I don't know who Beckie is wanting an apology from. Is she wanting a personal apology form the NHs for not getting the diagnosis that she wanted right away? That she has been misdiagnosed? or that she has to wait several years for an ADHD diagnosis?
What is she going to moan about once she gets the diagnosis? I think that she will be finding something else to get a moan about. I do wonder if a great source of Beckie's purpose in life is getting diagnoses and 'fighting,' the NHS for them as it gets her sympathy and gives her something to have a moan about. I do believe that her mum encourages this behavior and she was definitely the one who mentioned that Beckie should be on benefits and not working when Beckie was moaning the other day on her stories.
I do almost wonder if Beckie thinks that if she has so many diagnoses, a partner will have to stay with her in a way. Like they could never leave her as she has X, Y, and Z, and she is unable to function. I don't think that she is wanting a husband or whatever, she is very much wanting a caretaker with no needs of their own and fits into her criteria. Once she has this shell of a person, she is going to be happy.
What is she going to moan about once she gets the diagnosis? I think that she will be finding something else to get a moan about. I do wonder if a great source of Beckie's purpose in life is getting diagnoses and 'fighting,' the NHS for them as it gets her sympathy and gives her something to have a moan about. I do believe that her mum encourages this behavior and she was definitely the one who mentioned that Beckie should be on benefits and not working when Beckie was moaning the other day on her stories.
I do almost wonder if Beckie thinks that if she has so many diagnoses, a partner will have to stay with her in a way. Like they could never leave her as she has X, Y, and Z, and she is unable to function. I don't think that she is wanting a husband or whatever, she is very much wanting a caretaker with no needs of their own and fits into her criteria. Once she has this shell of a person, she is going to be happy.
She’s always chasing a diagnosis that explains why her life isn’t the way she wanted soon as she’s got that she moves onto the next. How many different things have we seen over the years physical and mental that just disappear when she realises they don’t get her the attention and validation she craves
I should never had written here that she isn't good at piano, now that's all we get 