One thing she does that is gross is when she is shoveling in those chicken strips or nuggets and with the other hand she is feeling her French fries. And never once do you see her wash her hands before she eats! And after all the scratch and sniff she does...ewww!!! They have never taught her manners when eating but I am sure Val could do a Q & A on that with excuses just like the thank you, discipline and the many other things they let her get away with!
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Val has said she gets annoyed if she’s constantly reminded to slow down and take smaller bites. Sometimes she chews her food so little you can see her struggling to get it down her throat, so Val takes the chance that she could choke rather than upset her by insisting she slow down. One day she did choke, way before the school withheld food, so there goes that excuse as to why she takes big bites and is obsessed with food. The school must have withheld water too, considering the way she gulps it down without taking a breath, her aversion to cold is non existent. I’ve cream seems to bother her at times, yet she wolfs it down by shovelful.
You are so right! She has severe mental issues that go far beyond Autism. I think the Autism is the least of her problems. I would love to know if she goes and steals food when no one is looking. And totally blind my ass...she can pick up the smallest crumb off her plate when she finishes her meal! Another lie by her mother!
Yes her vision issues arent as severe as Val likes us all to believe they are. I do believe Jessica has quite a few mental health issues,but Val knows this. She just wont admit it. I have always said that Val has a form of Munchausen by Proxy syndrome. She constantly invents new issues and illnesses for Jessica and the way she keeps asking her "are you anxious today,do you feel your anxiety is bad today etc".I also feel Val left her job before they sacked her due to the excessive and unnecessary use of her cell phone when she was meant to be caring for sick patients. The other nurses disliked her,and I can understand why. I don't understand why no one in authority has picked up on Jessica and having no outside input whatsoever. No physio or occupational therapy etc. There must be someone that can be contacted regarding this.especially when they have a paid caregiver (Marlow).
And I find it so so creepy when she just stands in the doorway. Just standing.listening. that makes me feel uneasy.
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From what I understand from one video Val did she only worked in nursing for maybe 5 years. So that was a waste of a good education. She considers herself retired. But she knows to much and it makes her dangerous with the Munchausen by Proxy! And you are so right on the anxiety questions. She puts tit in Jess's head then has to try and put out the fire. She sucks in all those crispies to think she is so wonderful!
When she swallows and has hardly chewed it looks so painful. Why has Val not put a stop to the eating like a pig at a trough. And yes even drinking water she gets it down as fast as she can. Its just so bloody wrong. And no way was she ever withheld food.no chance. Shes just greedy and has a massive obsession with food.
She is more than capable get her own drink of water and at least bring her dishes to the sink . Rather see less cooking videos and see Jessica helping with cleaning up after meals and loading a dishwasher. But everything is about eating !! They know to get her to participate food has to be used as a bribe. I think less videos because Jessica clearly is sick of all of it and maybe with less gifts coming she’s less cooperative.
Another lie that Val tells
I think Val has mental issues as well and her controlling everyone and making up medical issues for each keeps the attention and sympathy coming in. It would be so helpful if someone in authority would take over and get help for Jess, whether Val gets help or not, Jess should be given help
Lots of thing she could of been taught to do, but then if you notice how the house looks, NONE of them are doing house work or even basic chores, just sitting in that room
Yes, I agree, Val has just enjoyed ugh knowledge to be dangerous, plus she is the one who comes up with the diagnosis for herself, for Jess and for Hannah…… they all need mental health care
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Yes! Jess looks like she has had it with videos. She seems annoyed a lot and is probably bribed with food to continue.
I tried to look back to the video about Mama Jo on Facebook. It appears to be taken down. This video, along the revelation about Madison in the one You Tube live, is when a real sea change seemed to take place in the postings. They were less informative and free wheeling. Also, I never see anyone ask about Madison in the comments. Maybe people do know about the disgraced porn star son and don’t want to bring him up. So little was mentioned about him or asked about him lately. It’s like he doesn’t exist.
The video I am referencing with Mama Jo is the one where they were laughing at her. Marlowe seemed to disappear for awhile after that too.
I think they delete any comment mentioning Madison
This annoys me so bad. She literally shows up to the table right as her food is about to be put in front of her, never gets her own drink even though she’s capable of doing it and as soon as she’s done eating gets up and walks away. Has to get back to her stupid card flipping and can’t be bothered to clean up her own mess.
Campbell’s Q&A boring but he did divulge a secret never said by Val. Madison ALWAYS lived with him. I think we always knew his relationship with Val was not a good one and he resented how Jess was more important than him and Hannah. He travels with Campbell but rarely even visits Val, at least in the old house. At least he had the good sense to get far away, but seems not before her negative parenting resulted in bad decision making now. Seems she screwed up all her kids lives
Wow so when she was trying to get sympathy for saying she was a single mother of 3,she actually only had Jessica and Hannah in her house as Madison stayed with his dad when they split up? That should have been the wake up call she needed to realise she needed to stop putting Jessica first,but alas, no. I wonder where he will stay now when he comes to visit,unless he stops visiting and Campbell goes to visit him.my god Val I'm speechless at the blatant favouritism and cannot understand why you went on to have 2 more kids after the wonderful Jessica was born.
So sad that she was never taught basic manners and to do basic chores. Like I said earlier, all of them have an entitled attitude and it’s horrible
And now Campbell is in the middle of it all again and has taken away the safe place for Madison to stay if he comes for a visit. It’s all imploding and Val continues to do her fake nonsense and lies
It seems to show how mentally warped Val is and how desperately she needs therapy and all the rest need to get as far away as from her as possible if they want any semblance of a healthy life going forward
Haha, I can't stand that neither! And the way val feeds her cake!
Has to see how much food is on her plate and if it’s not a massive amount the instead of saying thank you she will say “that’s not enough”
I think recently Madison came for a visit and not sure where he stayed. Probably with other family or a hotel. On past videos when he came of course he stayed at his dads but also all family meals were done when Jessica was doing her overnight at her grandparents. He couldn’t stand her eating etiquette and making all those inhaling food sounds. Jessica lack of manners isn’t because of her disability it’s poor parenting.
He wanted no part of Jessica on his visits. To still hold that kind of resentment is odd. Jessica I don’t think she cares for Hannah either and it’s mutual. But maybe he needs to direct it at at Val because she’s the one who failed him and created the mess Jessica is today. .. What’s weird is why he majored in Neurology when it’s clearly a field based on brain disorders. It’s not like he loved his sister so much he did it to make her life better. He clearly doesn’t care much for her and considering he’s in the medical field where’s his compassion?
Wonder if he wanted to prove some of the mental issues that Val won’t allow to be mentioned.
Mmmmm… interesting thought.