Ok... So we all know Disney is for Val, and Val alone...and she uses Jessica basking in her munchausen by proxy.... Taking full advantage of the attention, the PERKS..using the wheelchair for sympathy as well as it's easier to drag their meal ticket around all drugged up.
I know I've been away a while...but I have noticed a huge difference in Jessica since I've been back ...simply put...she's MISERABLE!!
Her voices, her mania, the obsessivness over everything, the constant combatative conversations...arguing everything Val says... the lurking ,eavesdropping ....she even looks like she's aged a few more years.
She's not happy ...she's in fewer videos, clearly drugged up .
It's clear Val has tried to adjust and change up her format to compensate for Jessica being too much to handle.
The reality is she brought this on herself and has no one to blame but herself.
Jessica is going on 37... Soon she will be premenopausal and that effects autistic women ...hard.
She may even be in the early stages, ( perimenopausal), regardless her untreated schizophrenia and severe obsessive compulsive disorder is getting worse.
Also untreated Schizophrenia shortens the life span...it's a strain on the heart, not to mention poor diet and no exercise .
This Disney trip was even harder than the last, Val is clearly struggling with Jessica and it's obvious Jessica only has ONE interest...ONE thing that gives her any contentment ....
It's OBSESSING.... that's it.
Whether it's over food , cards, death, dogs, her phone, her routine ....she's only happy obsessing over her routines...Disney is not her routine no matter how desperately Val wants it to be.
In fact.. All it does is cause her distress... Val has to hype her up, bribe her with sausage balls and food, then use her tone/ anger with Jessica so she frets...then drugs her up.
Jessica is only interested in obsessing over the sausage balls on the ride up, mommy making enough sausage biscuits, obsessing over HER slinky dog ride, obsessing over being told she owns rides, she works for Disney ...and obsessing over her phone calls.
Bottom line... Jessica will only continue to get worse because Val refused to actually help her to cope, refused professional help, refused proper medication ... and now...Jessica is heading into middle age...and Val...old age.
There is no long term plan in place for Jessica and her future.... There's so much information online about preparing our autistic /DD, adult children for their futures without us ...most friends and family members are not lining up to give up the rest of their lives to be caregivers to someone else's adult child.
But..Val just keeps planning her Disney vacays!!
Good luck with that Val....
Sorry for the long post.
I know I've been away a while...but I have noticed a huge difference in Jessica since I've been back ...simply put...she's MISERABLE!!
Her voices, her mania, the obsessivness over everything, the constant combatative conversations...arguing everything Val says... the lurking ,eavesdropping ....she even looks like she's aged a few more years.
She's not happy ...she's in fewer videos, clearly drugged up .
It's clear Val has tried to adjust and change up her format to compensate for Jessica being too much to handle.
The reality is she brought this on herself and has no one to blame but herself.
Jessica is going on 37... Soon she will be premenopausal and that effects autistic women ...hard.
She may even be in the early stages, ( perimenopausal), regardless her untreated schizophrenia and severe obsessive compulsive disorder is getting worse.
Also untreated Schizophrenia shortens the life span...it's a strain on the heart, not to mention poor diet and no exercise .
This Disney trip was even harder than the last, Val is clearly struggling with Jessica and it's obvious Jessica only has ONE interest...ONE thing that gives her any contentment ....
It's OBSESSING.... that's it.
Whether it's over food , cards, death, dogs, her phone, her routine ....she's only happy obsessing over her routines...Disney is not her routine no matter how desperately Val wants it to be.
In fact.. All it does is cause her distress... Val has to hype her up, bribe her with sausage balls and food, then use her tone/ anger with Jessica so she frets...then drugs her up.
Jessica is only interested in obsessing over the sausage balls on the ride up, mommy making enough sausage biscuits, obsessing over HER slinky dog ride, obsessing over being told she owns rides, she works for Disney ...and obsessing over her phone calls.
Bottom line... Jessica will only continue to get worse because Val refused to actually help her to cope, refused professional help, refused proper medication ... and now...Jessica is heading into middle age...and Val...old age.
There is no long term plan in place for Jessica and her future.... There's so much information online about preparing our autistic /DD, adult children for their futures without us ...most friends and family members are not lining up to give up the rest of their lives to be caregivers to someone else's adult child.
But..Val just keeps planning her Disney vacays!!
Good luck with that Val....
Sorry for the long post.