Autistic Interpretations #19 Schizophrenia disguised as Autism with a side of Munchausen by proxy

[Gramma of 4]

Especially the same ones over and over!!!!
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This mornings video is the last day at Disney! Hopefully the last stupid video too. And once again Jess "wants to go" to all the stage plays. No Val you do....same ones each time your are there

Especially the same ones over and over!!!!
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This mornings video is the last day at Disney! Hopefully the last stupid video too. And once again Jess "wants to go" to all the stage plays. No Val you do....same ones each time your are there! Jess can't see them.
And "Mommy I love you bunches" was probably said 50 times while they were there because she pissed her mother off!!! She had to get right up to her face but didn't kiss her!
And I couldn't get a good picture of it but Val is carrying a tray with food and drinks and I am sure the beer was hers because we very rarely see Campbell drink! So sad that at the happiest place on earth Val you have to drink your way through it! Sad woman..
And there is Jessica on her phone as her father pushed her sorry ass through the park. And again Jess said what they would see, how long her nap would be and what the hell is with that hair??? Get it cut and I don't care that she likes to shake it all around in her schizophrenia fits! She looks like a witch!
Val Jess should not rule the roost because she does not have a clue about anything. Just what she makes up in her head. No clue on money, moving to Florida, driving her own car, living with Keely and the list goes on! Stop telling her she can do it all!!
And Val the only time you took Jess to Disney "independently" was when HH was in Norway with porn boy and you were very sick of her early on! You get what you deserve!!!!

Val looks like she aged 10 years in that 5 day "vacation".

 

[FairlyCertain]

I just don’t understand why Val would not have wanted a correct diagnosis for Jessica 30+ years ago when she argued for, and finally got, the autism dx that she demanded (which she talks about on the AI website). I know that everyone has an opinion on here about why, but I can’t imagine not wanting a correct dx which would lead to the best plan of action to give Jessica the best life possible. She has a few autism traits, but she is clearly DD, and has the intellect and emotional maturity of a three to five year old. It just is what it is, and Val has literally turned everyone’s life upside down to cater to Jessica. As unlikeable as they ALL are, I actually feel sorry for HH and Dr Porn! Just my periodic two cents worth.

 

[rbooth61]

I just don’t understand why Val would not have wanted a correct diagnosis for Jessica 30+ years ago when she argued for, and finally got, the autism dx that she demanded (which she talks about on the AI website). I know that everyone has an opinion on here about why, but I can’t imagine not wanting a correct dx which would lead to the best plan of action to give Jessica the best life possible. She has a few autism traits, but she is clearly DD, and has the intellect and emotional maturity of a three to five year old. It just is what it is, and Val has literally turned everyone’s life upside down to cater to Jessica. As unlikeable as they ALL are, I actually feel sorry for HH and Dr Porn! Just my periodic two cents worth.

It’s like she wanted a diagnosis that didn’t have the title of mental illness attached. But my goodness look at Jessica it’s not hard to figure that out just by seeing her demeanor. All is true because look where it got her and how Jessica was robbed of what could have been.
I get feeling bad for her children but as adults they should have wanted better. So many children are traumatized but chose better path as adults. Madison was on the right track until he met his wife and Hannah was also doing well on her own. But for some reason they both got sucked back into mommy dearest spell. Look at Madison moving back into his childhood home to shoot porn. Hopefully someday they both leave the grips of her manipulation.

 

[Susan830]

I just don’t understand why Val would not have wanted a correct diagnosis for Jessica 30+ years ago when she argued for, and finally got, the autism dx that she demanded (which she talks about on the AI website). I know that everyone has an opinion on here about why, but I can’t imagine not wanting a correct dx which would lead to the best plan of action to give Jessica the best life possible. She has a few autism traits, but she is clearly DD, and has the intellect and emotional maturity of a three to five year old. It just is what it is, and Val has literally turned everyone’s life upside down to cater to Jessica. As unlikeable as they ALL are, I actually feel sorry for HH and Dr Porn! Just my periodic two cents worth.

I think Nonnie had something to do with the Autism diagnosis. Schizophrenia and DD sound terrible to them and they have their (Nonnies) images to keep up! And how far could she get begging for $$$ for a schizophrenic diagnosis! It's something Val did to herself during pregnancy....drinking or drugs. And autism sounds better.
Can you imagine if they would have treated Jess with the right meds and kept her in programs what a different person she could be and she could be leading a productive life!!!
But nope Val screwed her and her other 2 kids up big time!

 

[HartofTexas]

I just don’t understand why Val would not have wanted a correct diagnosis for Jessica 30+ years ago when she argued for, and finally got, the autism dx that she demanded (which she talks about on the AI website). I know that everyone has an opinion on here about why, but I can’t imagine not wanting a correct dx which would lead to the best plan of action to give Jessica the best life possible. She has a few autism traits, but she is clearly DD, and has the intellect and emotional maturity of a three to five year old. It just is what it is, and Val has literally turned everyone’s life upside down to cater to Jessica. As unlikeable as they ALL are, I actually feel sorry for HH and Dr Porn! Just my periodic two cents worth.

It shows just how selfish and greedy Val is. . . Perhaps Nonnie has ideas to hide the real diagnosis and now Val has reinforced it for so many years and tells the lies

 

[rbooth61]

I think Nonnie had something to do with the Autism diagnosis. Schizophrenia and DD sound terrible to them and they have their (Nonnies) images to keep up! And how far could she get begging for $$$ for a schizophrenic diagnosis! It's something Val did to herself during pregnancy....drinking or drugs. And autism sounds better.
Can you imagine if they would have treated Jess with the right meds and kept her in programs what a different person she could be and she could be leading a productive life!!!
But nope Val screwed her and her other 2 kids up big time!

That’s why I think we will see so many changes when Nonnie passes. I think we are seeing glimmers of it now from Val in the way she’s complaining more about Jessica and being a caregiver is to much for because of her health. Maybe it’s more openly done because even Nonnie’s come to the realization that they made a mistake keeping Jessica at home after she aged out of school. Everyone is tired and just wants to pass the monster they created onto someone else.

 

[FairlyCertain]

Hopefully someday they both leave the grips of her manipulation.

Co-dependency is a powerful thing.

 

[Susan830]

DSGP apparently is to much for HH to keep up so Val is posting BORING things on it. It's a snooze fest listening to her tell all about the transportation options at the park. Val you do not work for Disney and most people could care less how you get around! In the background we see Campbell pushing Jess in her wheelchair wrapped in that stupid hooded blanket! Yes Val you do the parks independently with Jess! NO YOU DON'T you have your work horse!
So if anyone wants to be bored watch it. I lasted 2 minutes....

 

[pokermom]

A dinner video again. First let me say I would just about rather eat dog food as canned chicken. . And they are right back to the casseroles. Broccoli rice chicken. Stirring that up it looked horrible. So with the rice they had what looked like a baked sweet potato. Jess also had beans and was wanting more. Jess also talked to the voices in her head through the whole thing.

 

[Gramma of 4]

A dinner video again. First let me say I would just about rather eat dog food as canned chicken. . And they are right back to the casseroles. Broccoli rice chicken. Stirring that up it looked horrible. So with the rice they had what looked like a baked sweet potato. Jess also had beans and was wanting more. Jess also talked to the voices in her head through the whole thing.

I saw that canned chicken go in and...

 

[Susan830]

A dinner video again. First let me say I would just about rather eat dog food as canned chicken. . And they are right back to the casseroles. Broccoli rice chicken. Stirring that up it looked horrible. So with the rice they had what looked like a baked sweet potato. Jess also had beans and was wanting more. Jess also talked to the voices in her head through the whole thing.

We can guess who wanted chicken and rice! Don't those people ever get sick of the same crap over and over every week???

 

[rbooth61]

Co-dependency is a powerful thing.

I get it but I also am a believer if an addiction is causing you harm physically or emotionally you as an adult owe yourself to seek professional help. So many grow up in dysfunctional homes but we can choose to repeat the behaviors or do better as adults. I know as a child my parents believed in the belt as a form of discipline but I chose never to discipline my children physically. To me it’s more effective to ground them then teach them that violence is an except able form of punishment. Sure would I tap their fingers if they were to reach for a hot stove or step out in traffic absolutely. So let’s just hope the kids choose counseling to break away from mommy dearest. Yes it’s sad Fairycertain but I pray they choose to love themselves enough to set the past free.

 

[WallFly]

Val is crackin' she's really showing her frustration with Jessica.

Jessica is getting worse and worse ...the constant obsessing is out of control...watching Jessica constantly interrupt Val, argue with her, whine, repeats herself over and over obsessing .everything must be her way... She won't help, won't listen ....just obsessed over everything ...She refused to accept it was broccoli and rice ...not HER chicken and rice casserole .....and Val.mom of the year was snippy, rolling her eyes, and showing her true colours.

Schizophrenia doesn't just go away ... Obsessive behaviours don't just stop.... Jessica will.continue to be more demanding more unreasonable more obsessive and more out of control....talking in voices. ( that's getting worse too)

Vals going to snap.... She can't cope ..... It's karma and she's in for a ride.

 

[Susan830]

Jess did not want to help she just wanted to make sure that it was chicken rice casserole. And when she did help it was half assed like pouring the cracker crumbs in the middle even after Val told her to sprinkle them on. Jess told her no she does it this way. Plus they could have made a drinking game out of it with the amount of times Jess said chicken rice casserole!!!
And what was with that sweet potato and beans on Jessica’s plate??? Or the sweet potato for any of them. They needed all that starch in the rice and potatoes apparently! Plus the mayo, cheese, and crackers on top! Gluttony in its finest!

 

[rbooth61]

Co-dependency is a powerful thing.

Another case of a Gypsy Rose

 

[WallFly]

Another case of a Gypsy Rose

Pretty much....one of them will snap one day.

What's Val going to when Jessica becomes too much to handle... When the voices in her head really take over..... We know she has violent tendencies.

This is why we as parents put all the work in, battle the obsessing, seem and work with professionals ... And don't let our children run the house.

Enjoy the miserable monster you created.

 

[rbooth61]

Jess did not want to help she just wanted to make sure that it was chicken rice casserole. And when she did help it was half assed like pouring the cracker crumbs in the middle even after Val told her to sprinkle them on. Jess told her no she does it this way. Plus they could have made a drinking game out of it with the amount of times Jess said chicken rice casserole!!!
And what was with that sweet potato and beans on Jessica’s plate??? Or the sweet potato for any of them. They needed all that starch in the rice and potatoes apparently! Plus the mayo, cheese, and crackers on top! Gluttony in its finest!

I heard Jessica actually say sorry after she slapped/pats Vals face but instead of Val reinforcing that Jessica understood it hurts she says but I love the pats . WTH
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Another case of a Gypsy Rose

I referred to that tragedy because Val’s abuse and Munchausen by proxy behaviors. Just like Gypsy Rose it went onto far into adulthood and she snapped. Children who are mentally beaten down will at some point retaliate either by standing up for themselves or mentally breaking to the point of violence on the abuser.

 

[Gramma of 4]

Pretty much....one of them will snap one day.

What's Val going to when Jessica becomes too much to handle... When the voices in her head really take over..... We know she has violent tendencies.

This is why we as parents put all the work in, battle the obsessing, seem and work with professionals ... And don't let our children run the house.

Enjoy the miserable monster you created.

Val knows how Jessica is and can be. The voices, how she gets violent, yet she still pushes her off on her elderly parents. I believe there was an incident not long ago where Jessica had a melt down at the grand parent's house because she was obsessing over something and she flipped out on her granddad. One of these times she's going to flip out on those elderly people and they won't be able to control her. Like I always say, Val is a pos

 

[winnie woo]

How is it? Good! it’s only one serving, Right?

 

[rbooth61]

The Autism Spectrum Has Become A Playground For Exploitation And Abuse

Parents who falsely brand their children as Aspergians are not the only ones who exploit and even abuse their children. However, abusive parents who suffer from Asperger's by proxy are likely the most dangerous among all parents within that same realm. It's the dark side of the autism spectrum.

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Interesting article on exploitation of autistic children for profit and Munchausen by proxy relation .