I don't care if he paints his nails or loves mermaids or whatever but for the love of God can they do something with the kids hair? If he's growing it, fine, but pull it back or trim it...anything....its not doing the poor child any favours.Did you see pretty in pink boy getting his toe nails done?
I was the biggest tomboy as a kid, flanno shirts, jeans, the lot. Grew up to be a beauty therapist that couldn't be more girly when it comes to makeup, hair, nails etc etc.My eldest is not a girly girl at all. Chooses most of her clothes from the boys section, hates pink, glitter, dresses etc but it's not something I need to post about daily (or ever). It's not groundbreaking that a girl likes blue or a boy likes pink. Let it go and stop making it a thing. The more she harps on about it, the more likely it is that the kids will think its a thing and become insecure about it.
If he's gay or trans, so be it, making an issue of it is exactly what we shouldn't be doing to normalise gay or trans behaviours. I hope my kids can just be them, gay, trans or whatever without their choices being documented. Just let the kid be if they're so comfortable with it.
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