Ashley James

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Moans about breastfeeding being sexualised >> poses in Ann Summers lingerie for an AD whilst breastfeeding with all on show AGAIN🥴🥴🥴 The only person sexualising breastfeeding is her own self🤣
 
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Moans about breastfeeding being sexualised >> poses in Ann Summers lingerie for an AD whilst breastfeeding with all on show AGAIN🥴🥴🥴 The only person sexualising breastfeeding is her own self🤣
Haha I came on to say the exact same thing. It's ok for her to sexualise it when she is earning money from it!
 
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Haha I came on to say the exact same thing. It's ok for her to sexualise it when she is earning money from it!
Literally! Ann summers is all about sex/being provocative! I read that blog and talking about orgasms and breastfeeding and childbirth just don’t sit right with me 🤮
 
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She’s going on about people sexualising the photo, no it’s not the photo that is sexual but the caption talking about orgasms and it’s a literal advert for Ann Summers, a sex shop! 🤯
 
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While I totally get pleasure and sex is important for women. I also feel there’s massive pressure on women to get back to having sex after birth, to be sexy, to get ‘back’ to how they were. Giving birth and carrying a baby for nine months alongside sleep deprivation and medical complications is a huge thing, for the mind and the body. While it’s shouldn’t be taboo, I think adding pressure is painful.
 
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Why is any woman who disagrees with Ashley, a woman hater or a troll? Why is her opinion the ONLY opinion? Even when people express entirely valid, articulate opinions, they are just dismissed.
She has just called out someone because they felt uncomfortable with her Ann Summers image that include her baby in which she talks about sexual pleasure. .. and now she’s on an inarticulate rant, that doesn’t even make sense

“ because, like, men, like go topless,like and women don’t see it as sexual, like”

Jesus. Someone PLEASE take the internet off this woman!


Maybe people just don’t like her relentless attention seeking behaviour and struggle to see where it fits in the world or maybe some women, who have jobs, and careers, and families, go on line for an hour when the kids are in bed, and happen upon Ashley’s self obsessed diatribe, see her pictures of her wandering around start bollock naked, or at the very least with her “ definitely non sexual breasts” out again, and just wonder WHY?
Why aren’t we allowed to question that?


Also, given her struggles with accepting the opinions of others ( informed or otherwise) positioning herself on a social media platform where she’s subject to the opinions of others DAILY, might not be the right move for her?

Maybe just stick to “DJ’ing” eh?
 
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Why is any woman who disagrees with Ashley, a woman hater or a troll? Why is her opinion the ONLY opinion? Even when people express entirely valid, articulate opinions, they are just dismissed.
She has just called out someone because they felt uncomfortable with her Ann Summers image that include her baby in which she talks about sexual pleasure. .. and now she’s on an inarticulate rant, that doesn’t even make sense

“ because, like, men, like go topless,like and women don’t see it as sexual, like”

Jesus. Someone PLEASE take the internet off this woman!


Maybe people just don’t like her relentless attention seeking behaviour and struggle to see where it fits in the world or maybe some women, who have jobs, and careers, and families, go on line for an hour when the kids are in bed, and happen upon Ashley’s self obsessed diatribe, see her pictures of her wandering around start bollock naked, or at the very least with her “ definitely non sexual breasts” out again, and just wonder WHY?
Why aren’t we allowed to question that?


Also, given her struggles with accepting the opinions of others ( informed or otherwise) positioning herself on a social media platform where she’s subject to the opinions of others DAILY, might not be the right move for her?

Maybe just stick to “DJ’ing” eh?
Summed up perfectly. She’s always pontificating about tits, sexual pleasure, breastfeeding etc. Just give it a rest, mate.
 
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I wonder what her partner’s parents make of her. I bet she sits with her tits out in front of his dad.
 
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She doesn’t seem to realise most people couldn’t give a hoot about what she’s saying and a significant number seem to not agree with her so she’s not educating anybody and certainly not the ‘creeps’ as she calls them. If some men have genuinely messaged her creepy messages involving her child, does she really think this drivel is ‘educating’ them? Or her persevering posting in Ann summers and then having rants about not being sexualised, is really going to make them stop? Or question themselves? Of course it’s not. I’m not saying it’s okay, it’s horrific, but she is genuinely deluded and I think her approach is so weird?
I do agree most women have had unsolicited sexualisation but if a man posted a fully nude pic he can’t get cross then when people comment on his junk?
 
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Imagine being a bloke in a relationship with her tho. When she utters the words, ‘we need to talk’ he’d do a Forrest Gump run 🏃‍♂️
 
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Imagine being a bloke in a relationship with her tho. When she utters the words, ‘we need to talk’ he’d do a Forrest Gump run 🏃‍♂️
I can't imagine even being within earshot of her. Just her face makes me roll my eyes so hard I see my brain!
 
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Her saying ‘what mothers can’t be sexy?’ Is stupid. Of course they can if they want to. There’s a difference between wearing some nice clothes/ doing hair/makeup and doing a full on glamour shot for a sex shop with your whole boob out breastfeeding your baby. I agree with the first comment that she should protect her baby by not doing it in the first place. She’s being irresponsible again to get attention. Also she’s says about how she just does all this stuff to make her feel good about herself why does she care so much about perceptions and what others think?
 
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When she said she had worked with the animal shelter she sent lady to, I googled ‘Ashley James pet shelter’ to try and find it to see what it said about the cat! Anyway this hilarious article came up about her when she was in big brother. It was her dad saying he didn’t know where her posh accent had come from, because he’d never heard it before and she was from a tiny town up north! It really made me laugh! I get the impression she tries to be someone she isn’t.
 
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“ I’m not inviting attention”

Okay Ashley. Okay.

Her life and experiences and behaviour on social media aren’t the norm.

I wouldn’t parade around my office with my tits out feeding my child to prove the theory that if any woman stares or questions it, she’s a woman hater, or if any man stares, he’s a creepy pervert!

The underlying sentiment if a male or female did it, would be that they’re unhinged!
 
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She just doesn't get it and takes offence at every single thing anyone comments. I understand where the commentator is coming from. To me the issue is it is an advert for Ann summers and about sexual pleasure but to have your baby in the photo just give me all kinds of ick. She should have not had the baby in the photo but of course for Ashley it's something to go on a massive rant about!
 
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Who is it that Ashley is arguing with that mothers aren’t seen as being sexual beings? She does live in 2021 not 1870 right?

I honestly don’t know what type of company Ashley keeps or why she allows the very small amount (in relative terms) of trolling private messages or the daily mail message board to believe that she needs to be on this one women crusade to shatter patriarchy by taking pictures of herself in underwear.

It’s not revolutionary or earth shattering that mums do ‘look’ sexy. It’s been 30 years since pregnant Demi Moore posed naked on the VF cover. The vast majority of the celebrities that I think of as ‘sexy’ are mums. It hasn’t seemed to hinder many celebrities as being seen as sexy after children. JLo is a mother of twins and in her fifties and yet was offered the starring role of a female stripper in Hustlers. All bar one of the Kardashians are mums and two of them have (allegedly) become billionaires after becoming a mums so it hasn’t dampened their careers. Most of the successful female rap stars are mothers too. There’s rap songs by male artists saying how sexy it is to date a mother as they are strong minded, independent and take no bullshit. My Instagram feed is awash with yummy mummies all still seemingly attractive / showing their sexiness like they did prior to having children.

Ashley’s definition of what it means to be sexy is very limited to appearance - advising her followers to buy underwear, spend a lot of time putting on make up (as she was so happy to do so today), spend money on a totally pointless sex toy that won’t give you sexual pleasure nor do anything to improve your pelvic floor as any physiotherapist would testify. And then pose on a bed (Blurgh!) wearing cheap underwired (Blurgh!) black and red underwear (double Blurgh!) made by the seedy Ann Summers just does not sit with my definition of sexy. It’s so dated and reminiscent of 90s page 3 glamour models. Yeah Ann Summers has a female chief exec but a company for female sexual freedom, empowerment and expression it ain’t!

The only person who seems to have a problem with associating sexiness with motherhood is Ashley herself otherwise she would not have this fixation to ‘prove’ how sexy she is on social media. It screams insecurity problems and really is something I hope she is having intensive therapy sessions to help with.

Moving on from this point - but in similar vein to why the heck do you do this to - Posing in underwear that you have said makes you sexy with her breast dangling out in full display bar the nipple with your son sucking on your breast is very well... concerning for the welfare of your son frankly. It’s actually a pervert with a mummy fetish’ wet dream and the constant images and videos that you show using your son as a prop to titillate your audience to validate your need to be seen as sexy is so worrying. There are men, woman and transsexuals who dress up in nappies, create role play that mummy is feeding them, write fan fiction, act it out and make porn videos around this. Ashley is actually creating content for these people to masturbate to whilst she breastfeeds her son.
Yes I agree with you Ashley, you should be free to breastfeed without being sexualised but unfortunately many people do sexualise this- particularly if your are creating content that showcases how ‘sexy’ you are.

But I couldn’t bare the thought of my child being used as material in some sick perverted weirdo fantasies and as such I wouldn’t put out that type of content on social media. I feel sorry for your son that you feel the need to do so and are happy to exploit him for profit (to pay for your fancy new house in Essex...).
 
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When she said she had worked with the animal shelter she sent lady to, I googled ‘Ashley James pet shelter’ to try and find it to see what it said about the cat! Anyway this hilarious article came up about her when she was in big brother. It was her dad saying he didn’t know where her posh accent had come from, because he’d never heard it before and she was from a tiny town up north! It really made me laugh! I get the impression she tries to be someone she isn’t.
Well a northern accent would hardly fit her brand would it. No one takes a northern accent seriously.

How cringe to totally change your voice 🤣

I say that as a northerner btw!
 
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Well a northern accent would hardly fit her brand would it. No one takes a northern accent seriously.

How cringe to totally change your voice 🤣

I say that as a northerner btw!
To me she sounds like another posh twit towie/b lister 😂
 
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Who is it that Ashley is arguing with that mothers aren’t seen as being sexual beings? She does live in 2021 not 1870 right?

I honestly don’t know what type of company Ashley keeps or why she allows the very small amount (in relative terms) of trolling private messages or the daily mail message board to believe that she needs to be on this one women crusade to shatter patriarchy by taking pictures of herself in underwear.

It’s not revolutionary or earth shattering that mums do ‘look’ sexy. It’s been 30 years since pregnant Demi Moore posed naked on the VF cover. The vast majority of the celebrities that I think of as ‘sexy’ are mums. It hasn’t seemed to hinder many celebrities as being seen as sexy after children. JLo is a mother of twins and in her fifties and yet was offered the starring role of a female stripper in Hustlers. All bar one of the Kardashians are mums and two of them have (allegedly) become billionaires after becoming a mums so it hasn’t dampened their careers. Most of the successful female rap stars are mothers too. There’s rap songs by male artists saying how sexy it is to date a mother as they are strong minded, independent and take no bullshit. My Instagram feed is awash with yummy mummies all still seemingly attractive / showing their sexiness like they did prior to having children.

Ashley’s definition of what it means to be sexy is very limited to appearance - advising her followers to buy underwear, spend a lot of time putting on make up (as she was so happy to do so today), spend money on a totally pointless sex toy that won’t give you sexual pleasure nor do anything to improve your pelvic floor as any physiotherapist would testify. And then pose on a bed (Blurgh!) wearing cheap underwired (Blurgh!) black and red underwear (double Blurgh!) made by the seedy Ann Summers just does not sit with my definition of sexy. It’s so dated and reminiscent of 90s page 3 glamour models. Yeah Ann Summers has a female chief exec but a company for female sexual freedom, empowerment and expression it ain’t!

The only person who seems to have a problem with associating sexiness with motherhood is Ashley herself otherwise she would not have this fixation to ‘prove’ how sexy she is on social media. It screams insecurity problems and really is something I hope she is having intensive therapy sessions to help with.

Moving on from this point - but in similar vein to why the heck do you do this to - Posing in underwear that you have said makes you sexy with her breast dangling out in full display bar the nipple with your son sucking on your breast is very well... concerning for the welfare of your son frankly. It’s actually a pervert with a mummy fetish’ wet dream and the constant images and videos that you show using your son as a prop to titillate your audience to validate your need to be seen as sexy is so worrying. There are men, woman and transsexuals who dress up in nappies, create role play that mummy is feeding them, write fan fiction, act it out and make porn videos around this. Ashley is actually creating content for these people to masturbate to whilst she breastfeeds her son.
Yes I agree with you Ashley, you should be free to breastfeed without being sexualised but unfortunately many people do sexualise this- particularly if your are creating content that showcases how ‘sexy’ you are.

But I couldn’t bare the thought of my child being used as material in some sick perverted weirdo fantasies and as such I wouldn’t put out that type of content on social media. I feel sorry for your son that you feel the need to do so and are happy to exploit him for profit (to pay for your fancy new house in Essex...).
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She’s not too bright, is she? Her main job is to protect her son. Instead she’s offering him up for fetish websites / dark web content and all in the name of what? Money, I guess. It’s pathetic really - be a mother, be sexy, breastfeed, do all of that and more. But to use your baby as a prop to shill lingerie in order to position yourself as some sort of sex goddess mother know it all zeitgeist for women? duck off.

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