Poor kid looks shattered. Never mind, tho- as long as TNB ate in peace.
Ashley James #46 Tommy the house Elf - Prisoner of Ash-kaban
- Start date
-
- Tags
- Ashley James Threads Wiki
- Status
New to Tattle Life? Click "Order Thread by Most Liked Posts" button below to get an idea of what the site is about:
And yet just six hours ago she said thisOh here we go, her usual hilarious comparison of the morning after/the night before. How many times is she going to make that joke
View attachment 2933629
Her sister seems the complete opposite of her and dare I say it, normal. I wonder if she thinks she's a complete knob.
āA bad of honourā oh my bleeping life.
Attachments
Itās interesting where her mind goes. Iāve never known anyone suggest it to be a
FOR THE LAST TIME, ASHLEY.
You were not stitched up incorrectly.
You had sodding vaginismus, which was explained to you was psychological.
Youāve told us this.
Stop rewriting history.
You were not stitched up incorrectly.
You had sodding vaginismus, which was explained to you was psychological.
Youāve told us this.
Stop rewriting history.
New face, who dis?
Ashleys bafturbating aside, I was listening to the Luanna podcast and they mentioned her, how people like her are probably only on a couple Ā£100 for TM and they wouldnāt get out of bed for that 
Alfie is way too big for that cozy toes. Why is he even in it, it was boiling on Sunday!! I canāt believe he even happily sits in it, my three year old would tell me off and say heās not a baby.
I genuinely cannot believe how many posts she has done talking about how great she looked last night. I saw the latest and literally said out loud oh my god what a bleeping narc.
I genuinely cannot believe how many posts she has done talking about how great she looked last night. I saw the latest and literally said out loud oh my god what a bleeping narc.
āSuch a novelty being child freeā
IS SHE TAKING THE MOTHERFUCKING PISS?
IS SHE TAKING THE MOTHERFUCKING PISS?
BAFTURBATING!! Amazing.Ashleys bafturbating aside, I was listening to the Luanna podcast and they mentioned her, how people like her are probably only on a couple Ā£100 for TM and they wouldnāt get out of bed for that
That made me laugh out loud. Love it. Thank you
Splitting these so you can avoid the BAFTA or the birth trauma stuff (or both)
---
---
Claims birth trauma. Talks about her perfect birth with Ada and shows video of it with no TW.
Only started claiming trauma way down the line, the posts about Alfās birth are still there and forgets she shared the details of her debrief that she was āexcitedā to read.
Complains about postnatal care but didnāt actually access or research whatās available (not saying itās good but itās a sight better than she claims because she rejected the help available)
Demonises Alfās birth and romanticises Adaās by being loose with the truth about both.
Sheās a dangerous woman to be speaking on this subject.
Didnāt she tell a tattler she wasnāt interested in the discrepancies in maternity care and outcomes for white and BAME mothers? Voice for women indeed!
Only started claiming trauma way down the line, the posts about Alfās birth are still there and forgets she shared the details of her debrief that she was āexcitedā to read.
Complains about postnatal care but didnāt actually access or research whatās available (not saying itās good but itās a sight better than she claims because she rejected the help available)
Demonises Alfās birth and romanticises Adaās by being loose with the truth about both.
Sheās a dangerous woman to be speaking on this subject.
Didnāt she tell a tattler she wasnāt interested in the discrepancies in maternity care and outcomes for white and BAME mothers? Voice for women indeed!
I don't want to down play birth trauma but what birth isn't traumatic?! I am not trying to set women's rights back or anything lord knows I've had 2 kids myself but there comes a point where you have to process what happens and move on right?
I disagree as sometimes you canāt process and move on. Itās like PTSD, you can have treatment but you wonāt be ācuredā. You may never accept what you felt or what you lost. I canāt speak to other people but I just know itās not that easy.
However. Ashley has had multiple people explain to her the reality of her situation but refuses to accept it. Sheās not saying āI understand the reality but I canāt process it. My feelings donāt change by knowing I wasnāt actually going to die, I still felt like that in the moment and it traumatised meā. Instead she continues to believe her own version of events, rewriting history while, as far as we know, not getting any therapy. Itās always a blame game, always someoneās fault.
My personal thoughts are that her regret and resentment at Alf became ābirth traumaā in her mind so she had an excuse for her feelings. She couldnāt allow herself to accept that her feelings toward Alf were not caused by anyone else so she looked for something to blame and it became his birth. The reason I think this is because of the time line of when the birth trauma claims appeared.
Sorry, I just want to clarify, I mean I canāt speak to/of the experiences of other people. Not, I canāt speak to people about my own trauma.
I just wanted to clear that up as I donāt want to be falsely gaining sympathy or overblowing my own history, because, well, Iām not Ashley.
- Status