Ashley James #31 family of four; me, ADaline and my boobs

[loveanatter]

I have never heard of this!! although we are waiting for the paediatrician to refer us to the dietician so they might mention it then! thank you so much

Oh you’re so welcome! Diary free formula is horrific, and unlike Trash thinks, I’m not full of poison and so happily help where I can

 

[willowtree2]

This is honestly mental! I don’t know why a childminder would even agree to it! Every single baby and toddler I know did 1 if not 2 full weeks of staggered days to settle in and they were a lot older than 6 months! My 1 year old wouldn’t have been able to do 9-5 straight off the bat!

I used to be a nanny and know many childminders. Not one of those settings would accept a baby who rejects a bottle without short settling in periods to make sure milk intake is ok. It’s a huge red flag for Ada’s childminder. I would honestly think about reporting to Ofsted as they’re willing to risk it. At Ada’s age with the heat we’re having, give it a few days and she’ll be seriously poorly on just under 1 bottle in 8 hours

She has the NTA’s tomorrow. So no boob all day or all evening? She’ll squeeze in a bleeping Elvie pump Ad though won’t she?

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

Oh, the irony.

You are the only troll, Ashley James.

You are the one who found members of an online forum and contacted them on Instagram.

You messaged one and threatened to contact her husband (and workplace?)

You messaged one and called her a slut-shamer, when all she had done was show concern over creeps seeing your child breastfeed.

You messaged one and suggested you knew a home address, dog walking location, and would actually go to the house - where there were children.
That one got you reported to the police.

You are the one who claimed to hire a private investigator to find out people’s information.

You are the one who posted Instagram stories about karma and revenge.

So you go ahead, pretend to be on your moral high-ground. We know who the troll is. Every time you mention trolls, you just send more people over here and we just talk about it all again.

 

[ToolaRoola]

She has the NTA’s tomorrow. So no boob all day or all evening? She’ll squeeze in a bleeping Elvie pump Ad though won’t she?

Oh jeez, I just had flashbacks of all the selfies she took feeding Alf after the NTAs

 

[beanpole]

Oh, the irony.

You are the only troll, Ashley James.

You are the one who found members of an online forum and contacted them on Instagram.

You messaged one and threatened to contact her husband (and workplace?)

You messaged one and called her a slut-shamer, when all she had done was show concern over creeps seeing your child breastfeed.

You messaged one and suggested you knew a home address, dog walking location, and would actually go to the house - where there were children.
That one got you reported to the police.

You are the one who claimed to hire a private investigator to find out people’s information.

You are the one who posted Instagram stories about karma and revenge.

So you go ahead, pretend to be on your moral high-ground. We know who the troll is. Every time you mention trolls, you just send more people over here and we just talk about it all again.

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I see no trolling there anyway, just people commenting on things she’s chosen to put on the internet on a public page? If everyone that follows her stopped having the time and energy to look at her page and then unfollowed as she suggests she would no longer have an income. But if Instagram disappeared tomorrow it would have zero impact on our lives

 

[StaClarita]

Imagine having the time and energy to sit and screenshot those messages, then crop them and type out your little sermon. Imagine having the time to message people who had genuine concerns about your child’s safety and threaten to visit them, threaten their family life, to research their greatest fears and target them specifically.
Oh Ashley, life is too short to put out all this negativity. It’s free just to get a real job and care for your children properly. Surely you have better things to do like put Alf to bed tonight and wake him up with a cuddle in the morning, squeeze in as much time as possible with him before he’s off to the childminders You’d better get an early night before a hard day’s graft tomorrow.

 

[MillionDollarBaby]

Oh, the irony.

You are the only troll, Ashley James.

You are the one who found members of an online forum and contacted them on Instagram.

You messaged one and threatened to contact her husband (and workplace?)

You messaged one and called her a slut-shamer, when all she had done was show concern over creeps seeing your child breastfeed.

You messaged one and suggested you knew a home address, dog walking location, and would actually go to the house - where there were children.
That one got you reported to the police.

You are the one who claimed to hire a private investigator to find out people’s information.

You are the one who posted Instagram stories about karma and revenge.

So you go ahead, pretend to be on your moral high-ground. We know who the troll is. Every time you mention trolls, you just send more people over here and we just talk about it all again.

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I love you.

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

I see no trolling there anyway, just people commenting on things she’s chosen to put on the internet on a public page? If everyone that follows her stopped having the time and energy to look at her page and then unfollowed as she suggests she would no longer have an income. But if Instagram disappeared tomorrow it would have zero impact on our lives

Exactly.

Most of the comments she gets are obviously tattlers lately, her engagement would be awful if that stopped.

 

[willowtree2]

Exactly.

Most of the comments she gets are obviously tattlers lately, her engagement would be awful if that stopped.

Even more reason to keep it on Tattle! She’d hate the lack of engagement

 

[InTheDollsHouse]

Imagine having the time and energy to sit and screenshot those messages, then crop them and type out your little sermon. Imagine having the time to message people who had genuine concerns about your child’s safety and threaten to visit them, threaten their family life, to research their greatest fears and target them specifically.
Oh Ashley, life is too short to put out all this negativity. It’s free just to get a real job and care for your children properly. Surely you have better things to do like put Alf to bed tonight and wake him up with a cuddle in the morning, squeeze in as much time as possible with him before he’s off to the childminders You’d better get an early night before a hard day’s graft tomorrow.

She probably sent them to herself after she had a read here!

 

[Mightbeasharpscratch]

She probably sent them to herself after she had a read here!

This is highly likely. Let’s just hope the latest shite-parenting bollocks, and now calling out fake ‘trolls’ might send more people here.

 

[JarvisCockerSpaniel]

Lol at Ada managing to consume all the milk in that bottle from biting it

 

[cahil]

still can't believe she kept her 6 month old in childcare all afternoon.... because she was waiting for a phone call. ONE PHONE CALL. I'm truly gobsmacked it's a new low even for her.

obviously hideous that Alf was there for 10 hours, but we already know she hates him.

 

[Flossie2]

She’s clearly rattled (again), the fact she posted pictures of Alf ‘looking happy’ shows she’s on the defensive.
What does she actually expect? On camera saying it was a relief to take Alf to the childminder & crying because she took Ada.
And poor Alf taken to the childminder at 0730?!! just because she can’t be arsed with him and it’s easier for TBN to take him ( that guy is an enabler).
Here’s an idea bloody Ashley ( not for the male gaze) James, if you don’t like people questioning you & your parenting skills ( or, in your case,lack of them)-don’t splash your children all over SM.

 

[ItsRebekahVardysAccount]

On what planet is Tommy going to build any kind of profile? He’s got a private account right? He might be friends with RT but to me he’s always seemed a bit awkward and shy around the camera. Can’t imagine him shilling AllPlants!?

 

[Mightbeasharpscratch]

Hope the childminder knows about paced bottle feeding.

 

[littlepup]

still can't believe she kept her 6 month old in childcare all afternoon.... because she was waiting for a phone call. ONE PHONE CALL. I'm truly gobsmacked it's a new low even for her.

obviously hideous that Alf was there for 10 hours, but we already know she hates him.

Tbf I read it as she was waiting for a call all day from the childminder to go and pick up Ada/she was unsettled (and was surprised it didn’t come).


To clarify my earlier comment about the sun in Ada’s eyes, it’s not like I’ve never forgotten to drop a shade or what have you it’s just that she chooses to post these things. Why not retake it? Her job is content.
Plus, it’s like she really subtly baits criticism. She always manages to leave vids a bit too long in the edit so you see Alf start to trip or get the hump, say ‘no’. Posts pics of him looking miserable, unsafe sleep spaces, terrible baby carrying etc. As though she wants the messages for engagement and to make something out of for content. I’m sure the only reason she started facing the kids backwards in the car was under threat from the sponsors.

 

[Ray_of_Sunshine]

In May. Alf actually looked happy for once

Ashley James #24 She’s an absolute car crash. It’s ok though, her dad was a fireman

Pick a lane!

tattle.life

What in the holy hell I really don’t know why I am as shocked as I am here. But wtf were they thinking? (Rhetorical q). I’ve never seen anything like this in my life.

 

[willowtree2]

She’s delirious if she thinks chucking a couple holiday photos of Alf will make her look like a model parent. She’s literally put up a picture of him miserable as sin on her lap. You may love him loosely, but he couldn’t give a tit about you love. Tommy and Rara are his ‘home’ now.

She’s on mission damage limitation after realising she’ll direct people here. Carry on Trash, please

 

[shovemytitsinyourface]

Is it cheaper to get a childminder than an au pair/live in nanny? Her behavior is so bizarre to me she really can't do parenting. Yes they will grow eventually but you really have to cultivate a relationship from early on. Being a mum is more than just breastfeeding. I don't think she's right in the head.