Ashley James #27 mum of two, Alf who?
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oh I mean Alice is convinced it's keeping Ash up at night 
Ohhhh her recent story 
Alf’s trying to hug Ada and says ‘big lump’ and Ash laughs and says ‘yes you are a big lump’!!
Alf’s trying to hug Ada and says ‘big lump’ and Ash laughs and says ‘yes you are a big lump’!! Clearly calls Alf a big lump a lot and it's now ingrained in his vocabulary. WTF is wrong with her? But she will continue to write insta essays lecturing people not to comment on bodies, no doubt.
Wow. Teaching your TODDLER that he's a big lump #bekind.
Just when you think she can't sink lower.
Also laughing hard at this. She loves the toddler age with creative games etc - the ones she's only discovered in the last 2 weeks having banned Uncle iPad. twit.
Just when you think she can't sink lower.
Also laughing hard at this. She loves the toddler age with creative games etc - the ones she's only discovered in the last 2 weeks having banned Uncle iPad. twit.
That made me double-take this morning 
they must say it so much for him to repeat it in that context. What a shame!
they must say it so much for him to repeat it in that context. What a shame!It’s the fact she has no idea that is a mean thing to say to a child. She was the thin pretty one in her family and has no idea how harmful that is. I don’t know why I am still getting surprised by her actions?
So she posted this this morning then the following story was her laughing saying to Alf ‘you are a big lump’ after he said it first
what the duck?! I’ve never seen anyone so bloody dense! That along with the stories posting about online safety saying how important it is to protect kids and not put any photos online showing nudity/open mouths then proceeds to show Ada close up breastfeeding with her whole boob out
she’s a joke
what the duck?! I’ve never seen anyone so bloody dense! That along with the stories posting about online safety saying how important it is to protect kids and not put any photos online showing nudity/open mouths then proceeds to show Ada close up breastfeeding with her whole boob out
she’s a joke
No I can’t believe the big lump chat, thats so damaging. Those things really stick with you no matter if said ‘affectionately’. I remember being called thunder thighs or barrel belly from a young age and it really gives you a complex so it even pisses me off if family say my three year old is too heavy to be carried.
Also is she not aware of boys how many boys struggle with mental health later in life. I just think it’s so sad, he’s definitely not going to feel like he can open up to her
Also is she not aware of boys how many boys struggle with mental health later in life. I just think it’s so sad, he’s definitely not going to feel like he can open up to her
I’ve just seen the big lump story. What the actual duck?
I’m seeing first hand what damage those comments can make to toddlers with my first born. He was a Michelin baby and a chunky toddler. We’ve had so many comments from family/friends to him about how big he was, chunky etc and now he’s 9 he’s started saying he’s worried about his ‘chunky arms’ and ‘big cheeks’ (he’s a bleeping bean pole!) but it 100% affects them as it’s ingrained and they can’t disassociate between baby and childhood
I always say he was just gorgeous but I wish I had stepped in much earlier on as I didn’t realise 
You can tell Alf gets pulled away from Ada and called a big lump if he tries to hug her. I just can’t
I’m seeing first hand what damage those comments can make to toddlers with my first born. He was a Michelin baby and a chunky toddler. We’ve had so many comments from family/friends to him about how big he was, chunky etc and now he’s 9 he’s started saying he’s worried about his ‘chunky arms’ and ‘big cheeks’ (he’s a bleeping bean pole!) but it 100% affects them as it’s ingrained and they can’t disassociate between baby and childhood
I always say he was just gorgeous but I wish I had stepped in much earlier on as I didn’t realise You can tell Alf gets pulled away from Ada and called a big lump if he tries to hug her. I just can’t
It would break my heart if I heard my toddler say that about himself. It makes you wonder what she says to him off camera when these are the stories she chooses to share! I’m shocked she’s even left it up this long!
Why is Alfie calling himself a big lump? Where oh where has he heard that from I wonder 
Could it be the boy child has been called that by his lovely mother? That’s what I think.
Ironic she posts this in the story before:
Could it be the boy child has been called that by his lovely mother? That’s what I think.Ironic she posts this in the story before:
This hurts my heart, for him to call himself that is so heartbreaking And bleeping No Balls in the background there.
Could you imagine if someone called the body positivebut still gets botox and does everything she can to get rid of her c-section scar empowerment coach but not actually trained a 'big lump' and the IG Story rants that would follow!
And bleeping No Balls in the background there.Could you imagine if someone called the body positive
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Calls poor Alf harmful names. Is parenting just a game?
Calls poor Alf harmful names. Is parenting just a game?
Oh Ashley's got her tit out, there's a change.
I swear she’s done it again for engagement. Talking about kindness and children listening and then posting him calling himself a big lump and her agreeing. Disgusting. I’m so tempted to message her but don’t want to fall for her bait.
“I’m really good with Alf when it comes to reading books and organisation”
She’s great at organising his childcare schedule, then.
Just what every 2 year old needs.
She’s great at organising his childcare schedule, then.
Just what every 2 year old needs.
I agree. I messaged her out of anger this morning but deleted it about 10 seconds later as she will probably just use it for engagement and I will get nutters messaging me!
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