I despair with this woman. Why take a photo instead of actually comforting the crying child?!
also STOP POSTING YOUR UNSAFE SLEEP PRACTICE
Awww thank you! You really are so kind. Have you ever thought of a career in counselling? You'd be fab.
Over all I am ok, I just can't seem to get passed something a doctor said to me before I had my baby (was given a whole variety of possible illnesses and issues she could have when born). Baby is absolutely fine and has been checked over but I'm so worried something has been missed that i've got a bit obsessive over her health. It feels so horrible because I do know she is ok, but I just can't shake this feeling.
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I despair with this woman. Why take a photo instead of actually comforting the crying child?!
also STOP POSTING YOUR UNSAFE SLEEP PRACTICE
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I despair with this woman. Why take a photo instead of actually comforting the crying child?!
also STOP POSTING YOUR UNSAFE SLEEP PRACTICE
Well in the real world people don’t have the time or care to listen to every minute detail of someone else’s birthJust asking because I don’t have kids… is it normal for people to make their birth stories their entire personality?!
Good luck todayT/W: NICU.
She just needs to man the fuck up with life. Some of us have had to watch our newborns go through NICU. Have had to watch them have lumbar punctures, canulars inserted and other medical procedures. We’re lucky to have vaccinations and no they aren’t nice for 2 seconds. They trigger me. My baby has them today but my partner works and I’m her mum. I’m also taking a 2 year old WITH me. God she’s pathetic.
I feel you on this. I remember a Doctor coming to the ward to tell me that my daughter needed a lumbar puncture and bursting into tears. We were still in the first lockdown and no visitors were allowed (not even my husband!) so a kind healthcare assistant came over, closed the curtain then broke the rules and gave me a hug, as I had no one with meT/W: NICU.
She just needs to man the fuck up with life. Some of us have had to watch our newborns go through NICU. Have had to watch them have lumbar punctures, canulars inserted and other medical procedures. We’re lucky to have vaccinations and no they aren’t nice for 2 seconds. They trigger me. My baby has them today but my partner works and I’m her mum. I’m also taking a 2 year old WITH me. God she’s pathetic.
Bless you. We had our LP in the 2nd lockdown with zero support. So many triggers after real medical trauma isn’t there? Temperatures are terrifying. Thank you @InTheDollsHouseI feel you on this. I remember a Doctor coming to the ward to tell me that my daughter needed a lumbar puncture and bursting into tears. We were still in the first lockdown and no visitors were allowed (not even my husband!) so a kind healthcare assistant came over, closed the curtain then broke the rules and gave me a hug, as I had no one with meI find things like vaccinations and being poorly (even as simple as a temperature or cold) so triggering as it takes me back to the cannulas and wires and feeding tubes etc.
Thinking of you. I hope you find time for a cup of tea and a sit down later x
Oh I hear you!Bless you. We had our LP in the 2nd lockdown with zero support. So many triggers after real medical trauma isn’t there? Temperatures are terrifying. Thank you @InTheDollsHouseI’m coming home to a Tesco delivery and a fuck load of chocolate to chow down on. That’s as far as my self care goes these days
Oh bless you. I know what you mean, although I can’t pretend to have anywhere near the same level of anxiety, but we had so many scares, and scans and just never seemed to be away from the maternity dept that now the thought of hospital wards makes me feel ill so I totally sympathise. Thankfully my little one is absolutely fine, and the care we received was awesome - which pisses me off even more when I see privileged people like Ashley besmirching them and putting on patronising voices to impersonate people who work harder in one half shift than she’s done in her pampered lifeIt’s the same after birth trauma. Medical settings are extremely triggering. Almost impossible. I can go for my children - because they need me to, and because I wouldn’t ever send them with someone else (also there is no one else!) but I cannot go for myself. My wonderful GP left and I had to see the new one, she touched me with no warning (just a hand on me) and it sent me immediately into a full panic attack.
Ash will no doubt try and spin this as content for herself if anyone asks why TNB was there, which would work if she hadn’t shown the professional photos in the hospital when Ad was born and talked about how great it all was.
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