Their relationship baffles me because while you do have to make an effort in relationships she makes it seem like hard work as in a whole job to do or boxes to tick, it doesn’t seem natural between them at all. I always thought she was narcissistic but this holiday has just been about her. I think fair enough she does need the break so she should enjoy herself but when she’s at home she acts like Alf can’t survive 30 seconds without her yet over there we’ve barely seen him and she’s gone off to do loads of activities alone? At home she should be able to do the same but it’s like she enjoys having that to complain about. If she can go horse riding or go diving alone or go for a walk alone, there’s no reason she can’t do the same or go to work events at home alone. Alf is clearly eating plenty of solids and sleeping quite well apparently so it’ll be interesting to see what she’s like when she gets back