She needs to stop analysing everything like how does she have the energy to dissect every little thought, feeling, word that she hears, sees and thinks? She goes on about being so busy with Alf but she has time to overthink everything, it doesn’t make sense to me. So far she’s gone on about normalising breastfeeding and normalising napping. Two things that in most people’s opinions are already normal, or people just don’t care. I don’t have kids and I love a nap?? What’s the issue like who is saying you can’t have a nap? I would expect most mothers of young kids to need a nap if I do and I don’t have kids 
I think she gives herself this role of ‘normalising’ things to make herself feel important because in terms of show bizz etc she’s quite irrelevant now, which I thought with a new baby would be the least of her worries and nearly a good thing. But it’s easy for her to get engagement with all these claims of hers. And then she feels like she has a ‘cause’.
So weird that someone posted about her and Tommy because I noticed she said something in a q&a about ‘enjoying being in love’ and it hit me that I’ve never picked up on any sort of emotion between them? You know the way you see a pic of a couple, not even ‘celebs’ even just people you know and you know they adore each other? I’ve never gotten that with Ashley and Tommy. It makes sense that maybe the relationship started off as something more casual because the whole ‘I didn’t want a man’ yet joined a dating site, not even a hook up site makes no sense, and they seem very platonic with one another. He seems so laid back with all of her ups and downs he’s nearly like a friend because if my partner was that erratic it would get to me as well? Obviously it would with a friend too but it’s not the same, emotionally. I couldn’t imagine being in a relationship with her at all and when asked about marriage she said ‘neither Tommy or I know what the future holds’ ??? I understand that’s technically true but would you really want someone you’re apparently in love with to be basically saying yeah sure we won’t get married because we might break up? We might not, but we might? And she’d surely follow it up with ‘I’d be fine if we did break up’
maybe I have it all wrong but he comes across like he just wants an easy life and adores Alf and she comes across so hard done by, and just not a nice person at all.
I think she gives herself this role of ‘normalising’ things to make herself feel important because in terms of show bizz etc she’s quite irrelevant now, which I thought with a new baby would be the least of her worries and nearly a good thing. But it’s easy for her to get engagement with all these claims of hers. And then she feels like she has a ‘cause’.So weird that someone posted about her and Tommy because I noticed she said something in a q&a about ‘enjoying being in love’ and it hit me that I’ve never picked up on any sort of emotion between them? You know the way you see a pic of a couple, not even ‘celebs’ even just people you know and you know they adore each other? I’ve never gotten that with Ashley and Tommy. It makes sense that maybe the relationship started off as something more casual because the whole ‘I didn’t want a man’ yet joined a dating site, not even a hook up site makes no sense, and they seem very platonic with one another. He seems so laid back with all of her ups and downs he’s nearly like a friend because if my partner was that erratic it would get to me as well? Obviously it would with a friend too but it’s not the same, emotionally. I couldn’t imagine being in a relationship with her at all and when asked about marriage she said ‘neither Tommy or I know what the future holds’ ??? I understand that’s technically true but would you really want someone you’re apparently in love with to be basically saying yeah sure we won’t get married because we might break up? We might not, but we might? And she’d surely follow it up with ‘I’d be fine if we did break up’
maybe I have it all wrong but he comes across like he just wants an easy life and adores Alf and she comes across so hard done by, and just not a nice person at all.
didn’t leave much to imagination there did she
