Ashley James #2 Parental warnings I pay no heed, did you know I exclusively breastfeed?

[Password4321]

Oh so much to say…….. however those posts have the ability to make formula feeding mums (who desperately want to breastfeed) feel like utter shit.

As she just demonstrated, babies who are breastfed still get ill. To all mums who make sure their babies have full tummies (bottle, breast,cup etc) you’re doing a wonderful job xxx

 

[Heyholetsgo]

Does anyone else find it strange that she has a picture of herself on the wall? It's just so me me me

 

[Password4321]

Also ‘I’ll be able to handle a toddler as I’ve read a book’. Toddlers are absolute savages… as an ‘empath’ she’ll be walked all over.

My toddler lost his shit the other day as his head wouldn’t come off his neck . I’m sure the magic book explains how best to deal with the illogical X

 

[Lala1231]

How long till she removes this. Their last comment hits the nail on the head

 

[Admiralbow]

I’m confused, she kept spouting off about how happy she was and how having a baby hasn’t changed her life and she didn’t mind the sleepless co-sleeping nights… and now her mental health is up and down, she has FOMO cos she has responsibilities now and can’t just go out whenever she pleases and is trying to get Alf to sleep on his own so when she made all new mums feel shit about struggling with their hormones and having mixed moods, struggling with the constant feeding or how much a baby changes your life, she decided to say how easy it was, but now she’s expecting sympathy. Should’ve been honest from the start, motherhood is hard, and nothing gets you ready for it - she could’ve really used her voice and said it’s ok to find it hard, not trying to do it 6 months later

 

[Gossipgurlll5]

She’s actually unreal.. she’s tested positive for Covid and her first thing to say is she thinks Alf had it last week and ‘I KNEW there was nothing that needed fixing about his sleep, so glad I cuddled him so much’.

she’s such an ‘I told you so’ kind of person, and also you didn’t cuddle him loads Ashley, you used him in several ads and reels, swinging him around the place and continuously use him for content.

 

[Carly95]

Oh dear. Tit Out On The Tube. Surely Tommy must get embarrassed by how she acts? It is possible to b/f and not to have to whack your whole tit out. Just wear appropriate clothing.

I've just sent her a message about it on her stories. She absolutely boils my pee! Calling people out now for averting their eyes. It's like she wants everyone to have a problem with her getting her tits out in public at every god given opportunity, then when they look the other way she finds it funny. She is an exhibitionist. Most mums I know breastfeed discreetly.....she just gets some kind of kick out of shoving her tits in everyone face.

 

[breeze7213]

This woman!! She has no understanding of what a real job is! I worked in a relatively high powered professional role before having my daughter where I would frequently leave the office at 10/11pm and when occasionally 1/3am. Now my daughter is a year old, I have been back at my work for 2 months and in a part time and slightly different role but still finding it bloody tough! This woman has no idea what it’s like to be answerable to bosses/clients pretty much 24/7 as well as care for a teething baby. Obviously my daughter now attends nursery 3 days a week but I have to wake with her during the night and so frequently have broken sleep. I can honestly say though that my daughter is the best thing that has ever happened to me and that maybe just maybe Ashley you should stop trying to shatter glass ceilings whilst you have a baby....

 

[Cariad]

‘Shatter glass ceilings’ doing what love... ads for Dorothy Perkins?
these influencers make out they’re doing such important work

My sister was first of our family to go to Uni in the late 60's to study Medicine...she then went on to become a GP in a 2 'man' practice in a very rural part of Scotland and had 4 children while continuing to work full time. (Although Eldest was born at 28weeks and spent 4 months in PICU )
however she managed to breastfeed all 4 of them - 1 son until he was 4 years old!
she even returned to do an on call weekend when youngest was 3 weeks old, as that what Drs had to do in the 80's!
she retired 3 years ago at the age of 70, having spent 46 years in the same practice, finally becoming Senior Partner and a very well respected member of the community....2 of her children followed her into Medicine...daughter is GP in her mum's old practice and son who was breastfed till 4 is a now Consultant in ITU in a city teaching hospital
what exactly is it that Ashley does?

 

[sparklepony]

‘Shatter glass ceilings’ doing what love... ads for Dorothy Perkins?
these influencers make out they’re doing such important work

 

[Tiredbones]

On Dorothy Perkins Facebook page

 

[DaisyDaisy87]

Oh God, it’s National breastfeeding week from tomorrow, brace yourselves

 

[JustMetotoday]

Routine aside, what bars would allow a 9 month old baby in a bar on a Saturday night?! I find it weird she’s speaking as it was a option she could go but decided against it

That will be her next crusade, no one allows babies in bars and she feels victimised

 

[Paulaj]

Attention seeking or not I do think it’s good to see breastfeeding normalised. The other people in the studio kept on chatting like it was so normal (which it is), I do think it’s a positive message to spread considering how low our breastfeeding rates are.
He was definitely hungry too, you can see him searching for food.

Still doesn’t take away how annoying she is though

I’m sorry but there’s ‘normalising breastfeeding’ and then there’s Ashley whacking her boob out every minute

 

[AnvilGone]

I find it quite odd that apparently they've gone from only leaving him for an hour at his parent's house to leaving him in a creche abroad for several hours?

 

[LycheeForTea]

So I was browsing through Tommy’s Instagram posts and I couldn’t believe all of her comments on them. How does she not hear herself in both her comments and her posts

Jesus fucking Christ, i have just thrown up in my mouth at how nauseating she is. She’s like one of those sarky cling on gf’s that drive men away with their neediness then complain and wonder why they’re single, but lets not forget she worked hard on herself when she was single for 6 whole years. Yeah doesn't look like it love!

 

[Dicky Tum]

The woman could have probably phrased it a bit better but Ashley has missed the point of her message completely. Messages like that aren't the reason people don't breastfeed - the woman has said nothing about breastfeeding at all! She is rightly judging her for using her breasts and baby to get attention and ignoring what effect that could have on her baby in future.
I hate it that these "breastfeeding warrior mamas" never think long term - it is all about the likes they can get right now. But what about in 10-15 years when all their child's mates can google photos of his mum with her boobs out and his face in clear view? Teenagers don't care that it is a natural process, they will just see it as ammo, even if Ashley is a "cool mum"

 

[sparklepony]

I wouldn’t call breastfeeding a ‘sacrifice’. I bf both my children into toddlerhood, but I’m sure formula feeding would have been just as hard if not harder as you have the added making, washing and sterilising of bottles, whereas with bf you can just latch baby on and away you go. Well formula feeding always seemed harder to me anyway.
Let’s be honest, theres no proof that bf children are better off than ff.

 

[aggytha]

She is a fucking bellend.

It’s been totally clear that poor Alf could’ve had Covid last week. As soon as she said he had a temperature, why didn’t she get him a test as per the guidelines? Instead she continued swanning about, had her parents over, ended up taking him into A&E where he could’ve infected other people. I appreciate that he needed to have been seen by the hospital due to his age and on the request of 111, but why did she not even question if he could’ve been Covid after all of the people she is in contact with?

Months ago, my baby had a rash on her face and a slightly raised temperature and wasn’t eating for days. I had to take her to a different doctors surgery than usual as her temp was enough for them to have to treat it as Covid when I knew for a fact it was not. (I still haven’t been in a supermarket since last March and we only socialise outdoors and distanced) so for her to have contracted it would’ve been almost impossible as we are still being very cautious.

The doctor said it was a viral infection but she told me that due to her slightly raised temp I had to either do a PCR test on her, or isolate for 10 days if I didn’t want to. It was my responsibility. And I appreciate that regardless of my certainty that it was near-impossible to be Covid, those were the rules. Simple as that.

But of course, Ashley knows best. She is above the rules. Her motherly instinct picks up on everything. I do agree, as annoying as it may be that the hospital didn’t consider to test Alf, SHE should’ve considered that it would be perfectly plausible for him to have it with everywhere she has taken him. (Including Boardmasters who had an associated 5000 cases afterwards!)

sure, there’s nothing wrong with the fact she took him to Boardmasters. She was entitled to, but as his mother she needs to take responsibility for the fact that if he has contracted Covid then it’s due to where she has taken him.

Honestly cannot STAND HER.

 

[Dailychat]

I have never seen someone so obviously scream - I regret having a child - quite so loudly.
Most people at least try to mask it if they are going to post everything on Social media but WOW she reallllllllly has major regret and is shows.