If she slates Tommy for not being expected to tend to Alf when he’s poorly she’s a dick. It was his birthday - if it was her birthday she’d expect a lay in, brunch, a full nights sleep and flowers in bed.
I’m currently pregnant and if we go to a ‘do’ I tell my OH I’ll be driving and he’ll be drinking. As a mother, if the toddler wakes in the night it’ll be me getting up and also likely getting up with the kids in the morning. Because he would do the same for me!
Her relationship with him is based on Tommy owing her everything because he’s male. It’s so fucked up
He’ll soon get sick of it!