Ashley Cain

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Kids should not be online anywhere... I can imagine family instagram accounts are a paedophile's dream! Look at that PTWM, she pimps her kids out on insta all the time & I'm sure there are loads of other insta families that do the same! Even the unhinged fans, can track them down, follow kids home from school or whatever else. It's just not safe.
From a safeguarding perspective, the explosion Of family vloggers has made it harder to convict pedophiles because all they do now is share a picture or a time stamp from a video that is out in the public so therefore that isn’t what they’re doing wrong, it’s disgusting how many people think it’s okay to share pictures of other people’s children or even share them in the first place
 
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From a safeguarding perspective, the explosion Of family vloggers has made it harder to convict pedophiles because all they do now is share a picture or a time stamp from a video that is out in the public so therefore that isn’t what they’re doing wrong, it’s disgusting how many people think it’s okay to share pictures of other people’s children or even share them in the first place
Yes as parents we do everything in our power to keep our children safe. A decent parent would do whatever it takes to protect their child. And yet these morons parading their child for money online are subjecting their child to utter monsters. I watched a prison documentary once where prison guards said they had to scrutinise pedophiles magazines etc. This was because they would take images of babies/children and doctor them into hideous images for their own perverse pleasure. Absolutely abhorrent that children are still allowed to be exploited by the very people that should be protecting them the most. Hinch is a classic along with SS and too many more to mention. And yet they laud themselves as great parents laughable.
 
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I wonder if Saffiya doesn’t mind the Azaylia accounts as it’s a comfort and support to her which from outward appearances other than her brother seems to be lacking at home. She doesn’t post as much with Ashley’s sister anymore either . I think the accounts are awful and grief tourism at its finest but maybe for her it’s a source of support as it’s lacking elsewhere.
 
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From a safeguarding perspective, the explosion Of family vloggers has made it harder to convict pedophiles because all they do now is share a picture or a time stamp from a video that is out in the public so therefore that isn’t what they’re doing wrong, it’s disgusting how many people think it’s okay to share pictures of other people’s children or even share them in the first place
I find it even more bizarre when people tag their location. What the hell is wrong with people?!
 
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I find it even more bizarre when people tag their location. What the hell is wrong with people?!
I have found people don’t actually realise the full extent of what could happen, they assume everyone is like them and is a good person…..
 
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Completely different, you went for a work course, they literally went for Botox?

I missed an important hospital appointment as I could see my son wasn’t well and have then gone on to have to reschedule multiple times, but they couldn’t miss a Botox appointment, you can see in them photos she’s unwell
Given what saf does for work it’s not impossible that the Botox was a work thing. She may not have been having it done herself it could have been a work thing? The mums friends and sisters seem to have it in for her so wouldn’t be surprised if they were saying they went away for Botox when that’s not 100% accurate. No one knows what went on between them and her mum
 
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This is what gets me. Money making 😡 the edits are awful especially the birthday one, & having a shrine for someone’s child you didn’t know. I’m lost for words
 

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This is what gets me. Money making 😡 the edits are awful especially the birthday one, & having a shrine for someone’s child you didn’t know. I’m lost for words
Garish tacky tit, in incredibly bad taste if you ask me. I completely understand the outpouring of sympathy they got for such a heartbreakingly awful situation, but this goes beyond that. I don’t think it’s normal to be this invested in a strangers baby, people engaging in this behaviour are nothing but grief tourists & ghouls to my mind.
 
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Garish tacky tit, in incredibly bad taste if you ask me. I completely understand the outpouring of sympathy they got for such a heartbreakingly awful situation, but this goes beyond that. I don’t think it’s normal to be this invested in a strangers baby, people engaging in this behaviour are nothing but grief tourists & ghouls to my mind.
They should be ashamed of themselves
 
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Garish tacky tit, in incredibly bad taste if you ask me. I completely understand the outpouring of sympathy they got for such a heartbreakingly awful situation, but this goes beyond that. I don’t think it’s normal to be this invested in a strangers baby, people engaging in this behaviour are nothing but grief tourists & ghouls to my mind.
itd be better if the individuals had originally done it to fundraise for her treatment or put some money towards the foundation….. but no, they’re all out for themselves much like everything else surrounding all this
 
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itd be better if the individuals had originally done it to fundraise for her treatment or put some money towards the foundation….. but no, they’re all out for themselves much like everything else surrounding all this
I’ve just saw some stories on insta shared by Ashley’s Mum that there’s a wristband group as they are making official wristbands through the foundation, on one of the Facebook groups someone’s selling them for £4, im not sure how much the official ones will be but £4 is a lot I think
 
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I think they turn a blind eye to the ‘fan accounts’ because it keeps Azaylia in people’s minds.
 
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I mean the pics of the ambulance arriving.
All just to prove that she rang the ambulance.
Pathetic!
There is 100% more this story because why did she feel the need to take photos of the ambulance arriving in the first place? When my daughter fell poorly and stopped breathing the air ambulance flew out to us, 2 ambulance and 2 rapid response vehicles. Not once did myself or her father or family take pictures of them all arriving. I’m so thankful she’s ok now and made a good recovery, We took many pictures of her in hospital but never posted them anywhere because it was a painful time in our lives thinking our baby might not make it but we tried to cherish the moments we had (we were absolutely blessed she made a full recovery). For her own dignity we’d never post the photos and it’s triggering for other parents.
 
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This is what gets me. Money making 😡 the edits are awful especially the birthday one, & having a shrine for someone’s child you didn’t know. I’m lost for words
so disturbing but I assume those people making them have learning difficulties and don't see the harm in what they're doing. Highly doubt anyone places orders
 
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I just lurk on this thread, as I don’t want to judge 2 parents grief but Ashley is so cold to Saf it’s hard to watch. I don’t think she feels worthy of him, she treats him like a god by trying to constantly fish for his attention, his time and for any affection. That should be given naturally, not by doing 25 mile bike rides and shouting ‘let’s go champ’. He seems like he thinks his grief is more worthy and more painful than Safs. I don’t dislike him, but I dislike how he seems towards Saf. I say seems as I see a snapshot on Instagram ect. She looks so consumed by her grief, and it looks like all she wants is a hug from him! I think he forgets she grew A for 9 months, gave birth and spent time with and now she’s gone.
From a safeguarding perspective, the explosion Of family vloggers has made it harder to convict pedophiles because all they do now is share a picture or a time stamp from a video that is out in the public so therefore that isn’t what they’re doing wrong, it’s disgusting how many people think it’s okay to share pictures of other people’s children or even share them in the first place
Totally this! I don’t have Facebook or a “personal” Instagram and it pisses me off the amount of people including family that post pictures of my kids without even asking me! I’ve pulled people a few times about this. It’s just bleeping manners!
 
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Just seen Safs post about getting in at 3am and being at home. Got a strange feeling about that she isn't right, I hope her brother is keeping an eye on her he seems a good support for her. I assumed Saf would be meeting Ashley at every check point on this journey and rallying donations. I hope she's ok.
 
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Yeah I assumed she was in the support Vehicle. Yet again it seems it has to all be about him. He could have included her and got her to do the last leg or last few miles with him even if it meant him going a bit slower at the end.

I get he’s grieving but from what I see he’s not changed from his arrogant self centred previous self
 
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