Ashley Cain

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what ethnicity is saf?
I think she’s perinese (is that even a word) my apologies if I’ve got that wrong (half)

Ash and his brother appear to have different moms and dads I’m not sure how that works but matty posted a pic with his mom and it wasn’t Vicky but he also has a different surname to ash and his sister

what ethnicity is saf?
Just checked and her surname is widely used in South Africa and Pakistan
 
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i think she’s mixed. I dont think shes white. Same with Ash and his brother, i think they have different dads as Matt has darker skin and looks nothing like Ash. Nothing wrong with it tho. Im mixed race, my kids have different dads. Me n my bro have different dads.
Ash is Caribbean and saf is Burmese and Indian my guess is she’s probably 1/4 mixed saf as she fake tans and her brother is basically white

They have the same dad
 

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I signed up to the DKMS years before Azaylia was born. While Azaylia was sick, I had a call from them saying that I matched someone who was sick & if I could go to London and donate my bone marrow. I was pooing my pants as I hate being operated on but if i was sick, or my kids were sick I’d be begging people to do it. They didn’t need me in the end as they found someone who was a much closer match. I definitely recommend people to sign up. And the Anthony Nolan one.
 
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I’ve just read (through another sick child) that south Asian individuals and people from other ethnicities are less likely to be on the bone marrow donor list so that’s the first problem
The second problem there are some diseases that particular ethnicities are more likely to develop but because of the government etc there isn’t a much research into why. I hope along side pushing for more awareness they all decide to publish helpful information and research into the disparities between particular children so they can really make a difference on a long term basis
 
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Why is this though?
I think its because a lack of people of colour signing up to these things. Black people especially do not trust medical people due to past history where they were used to be experimented on, etc. Thats why many aren’t vaccinated too. Their thoughts & opinions get past down generation to generation.
 
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I think that was for last nights tit show on her live, probably at least dozens of people asked if they were still together loads questioned the relationship so I think they now know what the general public think
Ah thank you, I didn’t watch it!
 
I think its because a lack of people of colour signing up to these things. Black people especially do not trust medical people due to past history where they were used to be experimented on, etc. Thats why many aren’t vaccinated too. Their thoughts & opinions get past down generation to generation.
Thank you.
 
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You HAD to go to work. Completely different to going off for BOTOX. Reading all of this they are obviously both lying as they know it wouldn’t go down well if the truth was said. If they do not think there’s anything wrong or guilty to feel about it then they wouldn’t need to lie. But yes the outcome would still have been the same. Sadly

And yet complete strangers are freely and endorsed by Ash and Saf to profit from their dead baby😡 I’m getting more vibes of them worried the mom was taking their limelight tbh
They have nothing to feel guilty about. They were having break- doesn't matter how they chose to spend their time.

'taking their limelight'?!! 😷 the limelight being their baby dying ffs
 
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They have nothing to feel guilty about. They were having break- doesn't matter how they chose to spend their time.

'taking their limelight'?!! 😷 the limelight being their baby dying ffs
No the followers gifts and attention limelight. Why else did they care that her mom was accepting gifts for baby. When they are disgustingly more than happy to have complete and utter nut job grief freak strangers profiting from their baby. 🤣Ashley is and always has been a fame chasing narcissist end of! Yes it’s very clear to see their devastation and loss. But doesn’t take away that fact!
 
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No the followers gifts and attention limelight. Why else did they care that her mom was accepting gifts for baby. When they are disgustingly more than happy to have complete and utter nut job grief freak strangers profiting from their baby. 🤣Ashley is and always has been a fame chasing narcissist end of! Yes it’s very clear to see their devastation and loss. But doesn’t take away that fact!
They wouldn't have had any of those things if they'd have had a healthy child. I won't ask what you think they'd rather as you clearly think the utter worst and it makes for unpleasant reading. Complete with laughing emoji.
What bothered them is the fact the mother had positioned herself in a role they were not comfortable with and did not endorse and it brought them extra stress and strife at the worst of times.
 
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They wouldn't have had any of those things if they'd have had a healthy child. I won't ask what you think they'd rather as you clearly think the utter worst and it makes for unpleasant reading. Complete with laughing emoji.
What bothered them is the fact the mother had positioned herself in a role they were not comfortable with and did not endorse and it brought them extra stress and strife at the worst of times.
I’ll say it again yet they are not shutting down the disgusting profiteering accounts selling their poor dead baby??? And actually are endorsing these accounts by liking their posts etc. Makes very very little sense to me. And I am just as disgusted at your opinion that you think it’s ok to leave a sick baby. That’s my opinion I Would never dream of doing so. And I am allowed an opinion that differs from yours no? 🤣
 
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I’ll say it again yet they are not shutting down the disgusting profiteering accounts selling their poor dead baby??? And actually are endorsing these accounts by liking their posts etc. Makes very very little sense to me. And I am just as disgusted at your opinion that you think it’s ok to leave a sick baby. That’s my opinion I Would never dream of doing so. And I am allowed an opinion that differs from yours no? 🤣
I 've given several reasons as to why. Who knows though as we are all different.
I don't care what your opinion is of me or these two bereaved parents because I don't think anyone respects or takes much notice of such judgemental people really 🤷
 
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I 've given several reasons as to why. Who knows though as we are all different.
I don't care what your opinion is of me or these two bereaved parents because I don't think anyone respects or takes much notice of such judgemental people really 🤷
It’s not just my opinion though is it if you read through. And so your reasons are more valid why??? No one actually knows facts on here it’s all opinions that’s what this site is about. If you put yourself out to the world In any capacity you will be judged and opinions will be made. Let’s agree to disagree on this one and leave it there 🤣😘
 
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I think we can all agree on one thing what Azaylia went through was heartbreaking for us all 💔 she deserved dignity and peace in her final resting days which she never received.

Regardless of what we all think of Ashley Saf or Andrea you can’t on one hand banish a support group set up by a family member but then actively encourage complete strangers to carry theirs on 💁🏼
 
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It’s not just my opinion though is it if you read through. And so your reasons are more valid why??? No one actually knows facts on here it’s all opinions that’s what this site is about. If you put yourself out to the world In any capacity you will be judged and opinions will be made. Let’s agree to disagree on this one and leave it there 🤣😘
if you're confident in your opinion you don't need me to explain why mine is 'more valid'. I'm not trying to sell you anything lol.
 
if you're confident in your opinion you don't need me to explain why mine is 'more valid'. I'm not trying to sell you anything lol.
So you think that it is ok for anyone let alone strangers to profit from a dead baby ? I am taking it you are a friend of the couple since you are adamant your opinion is right? Like I said let’s agree to disagree👍Moving on now, thanks for your input and for setting me on the right path😘
 
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I think they are devastated about their baby but both complete narcissists who thrive on social media attention. The two can coexist.
 
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I think they are devastated about their baby but both complete narcissists who thrive on social media attention. The two can coexist.
If you think Safiya had a very small following which grew massively in the most awful circumstances. Each day she was showing more and more gifted clothes toys etc being sent to the Hospital, she would show these daily, then started asking for recommendations on toys, was this a genuine question or had she started to play the influencer game as as by magic the next day more wipe clean toys appeared, now not a week goes by where she’s asking for recommendations even down to beauty when this is her forte she works in aesthetics she knows who’s good in her area. I take today’s spa was also a gift. Yes these people deserve a treat every now and again but you can’t go through life begging stuff just because of the circumstances.

** sorry my spellings atrocious I’m waiting for my new specs to arrive 😂😂😂***
 
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