Ashley Cain

[Noonoosanne2]

I had to leave the group. I commented once and people literally attacked me. Visited my profile and got really personal. Shocking behaviour from supposedly caring people.

And some of these were grown women with children, the attachment and obsession of people was off the scale. Yes I followed this journey yes it broke my heart when she passed away & I can’t imagine what the families are going through, but would I make a group, steal images, buy the merchandise or get a tattoo no I bloody well wouldn’t, there’s following and supporting and there’s getting to involved in hope of being recognised by Ashley and Saf

 

[thedogatemysandal]

And some of these were grown women with children, the attachment and obsession of people was off the scale. Yes I followed this journey yes it broke my heart when she passed away & I can’t imagine what the families are going through, but would I make a group, steal images, buy the merchandise or get a tattoo no I bloody well wouldn’t, there’s following and supporting and there’s getting to involved in hope of being recognised by Ashley and Saf

Honestly, they were vile. Name-calling, threats, etc. All on a group to show support and love for a sick baby.

 

[QueenT93]

Putting my 2 pence in because I remember the exact same thing happening with Alfie in Alder Hey Hospital a few years ago. #AlfiesArmy. They had fun days outside the hospital where tonnes of other sick children were trying to rest etc. It’s all fine and well to raise awareness and support - I totally agree but the hoards of people going too far makes it harder for the families to cope with.

Honestly, they were vile. Name-calling, threats, etc. All on a group to show support and love for a sick baby.

 

[chocdip]

Putting my 2 pence in because I remember the exact same thing happening with Alfie in Alder Hey Hospital a few years ago. #AlfiesArmy. They had fun days outside the hospital where tonnes of other sick children were trying to rest etc. It’s all fine and well to raise awareness and support - I totally agree but the hoards of people going too far makes it harder for the families to cope with.

See this is what annoys me, no child is more special or more deserving because of who their parents are! Rich poor black white all children should be given the same opportunity and chance

 

[Book]

Sorry the comments about how they could leave their child when she was so ‘obviously sick’ are not sitting right with me. Doctors looked at her and said she’s fine. There comes a point where you just try and get on with life if the doctors give the all clear. Saying they shouldn’t of gone to Manchester, they were leaving her with someone who was responsible and trusted at the time clearly.

I’m saying this from experience of a diagnosis with my daughter. She had bronchilitis and was in and out of hospital for over 2 weeks (4 months old). Doctors checked her several times and said her obs were fine so not to worry. She seemed like she was over the worst and I left her with my dad and step mother to watch her for the day as I had to attend a work course. I had to leave midway as her breathing deteriorated and travelled straight back to take her back to hospital for answers which is when they did a chest X-ray and found something wrong with her heart.

most importantly, I look back now (nearly 2 years later) and can see all the signs that she was in heart failure and I can tell that she doesn’t look well. But at the time, I was knackered and just listened to what I was told. When you are told several times that things are fine you have no reason to doubt the doctors?

Sorry, bit of a ramble but I beat myself up a lot for not spotting the signs sooner and I imagine Ash and Saff do too about Azaylia. So seeing people blame them for going to Manchester the day she was diagnosed has touched a nerve.

You HAD to go to work. Completely different to going off for BOTOX. Reading all of this they are obviously both lying as they know it wouldn’t go down well if the truth was said. If they do not think there’s anything wrong or guilty to feel about it then they wouldn’t need to lie. But yes the outcome would still have been the same. Sadly

It wasn't her place. It is the parents' place and theirs only.
she wasn't accused of stealing, she was accumulating a load of old tat which as well intentioned by people as it was, was also thoughtless and in some instances, arrogant. What does a dying child in the late stages of cancer want drawings and presents for? And why should the parents spend hours sorting through it all and finding storage for it all, taking precious time away from their girl? The woman piled heaps of bin bags on their doorstep to make a point and they were too good hearted and appreciative of people's good intentions to outright say: please stop sending us this extra stress!

And yet complete strangers are freely and endorsed by Ash and Saf to profit from their dead baby I’m getting more vibes of them worried the mom was taking their limelight tbh

 

[catspyjamas_Hensteeth]

The gran even posted the ring footage from the ambulance arriving. God. I’m sorry but I hate it. This can’t be healthy for anyone

 

[Book]

I don’t think we can guess the reason for the fall out I’m sure there’s a lot to it that we don’t know

I agree with others so sad how Ash is so cold to Saff and seems to be making the foundation all about him even now! It would be nice to see more about the kids they’re going to help, what they plan to do I know Saff said ‘magic moments’ for the kids and families

instead it seems like Ash has set up this bike ride as a personal appearance tour like come see me at the car park last night for example, all the filming seems to be just of him, at least Saff could be involved to stand next to him and have an arm round her - she is A’s mother after all!

I really hope it’s true what Saff says that they do spend quality time off camera, but given we see so much of everything else they do, I’m not hopeful

Absolutely he is getting now what he has wanted forever, fame, attention, celebrity status and adoration gross IMO

 

[LMG]

I mean it’s all hear say but I seen this the other day and if it’s true their priorities were all wrong.

Why the hell has her mum put photos on like that? And even of the ambulance! She sounds like a strange woman and I’d be pissed off if my mum was putting tit like that on FB for everyone to see. Making out that they are bad parents because they didn’t ring the ambulance. Bet she was loving all the attention!

They shouldn’t be made to feel guilty, however if they were that concerned they wouldn’t of gone away for Botox of all things and also if they have the money for Botox, they could of found a private doctor and paid for her if they were so convinced it was more than just colic.. as a mother I wouldn’t leave my baby, even with my own mother no matter how minor the illness is

They obviously didn’t realise how serious it was.

 

[Noonoosanne2]

Absolutely he is getting now what he has wanted forever, fame, attention, celebrity status and adoration gross IMO

The stop offs for the bike rides are going to turn into meet and greets & photo opportunities that’s why Saf got a photo with him this morning , all good for the publicity

 

[lockdown sux]

Ultimately it doesht matter who called the ambulance luckily someone did. End of. It’s so petty all them saying who did what.

 

[chocdip]

Why the hell has her mum put photos on like that? And even of the ambulance! She sounds like a strange woman and I’d be pissed off if my mum was putting tit like that on FB for everyone to see. Making out that they are bad parents because they didn’t ring the ambulance. Bet she was loving all the attention!


They obviously didn’t realise how serious it was.

So the nan can’t put pics on FB but the parents don’t mind posting a dead baby or bleeding from the nose:eyes in her final days Neither is ok with me just because they are parents doesn’t give them the right to not respects Azaylia as a person and give her some privacy and dignity

 

[LMG]

So the nan can’t put pics on FB but the parents don’t mind posting a dead baby or bleeding from the nose:eyes in her final days Neither is ok with me just because they are parents doesn’t give them the right to not respects Azaylia as a person and give her some privacy and dignity

I mean the pics of the ambulance arriving.
All just to prove that she rang the ambulance.
Pathetic!

 

[Book]

The stop offs for the bike rides are going to turn into meet and greets & photo opportunities that’s why Saf got a photo with him this morning , all good for the publicity

Oh definitely he will be lourding it up and feeding his already massive ego. Vile completely baffles me as to how you can become famous/ celebrity status. No talent no hard work no years of training or education. Little wonder people aspirations are no longer to work hard to get what you want

 

[username123!]

Him posting a boomerang with him and saf - I really hope he doesn’t read

 

[chocdip]

Him posting a boomerang with him and saf - I really hope he doesn’t read

I think that was for last nights tit show on her live, probably at least dozens of people asked if they were still together loads questioned the relationship so I think they now know what the general public think

 

[Book]

I mean the pics of the ambulance arriving.
All just to prove that she rang the ambulance.
Pathetic!

Well she was getting slaughtered by complete and utter strangers. Maybe she just wanted to clear her name. It right but then neither is what Ash and Saf did publicly putting her mom as some kind of thief. They all just need to lay off social media. But that won’t happen because they are particularly Ash loving and loving for the limelight

Him posting a boomerang with him and saf - I really hope he doesn’t read

Oh he absolutely does

 

[getmeoutofhere]

Honestly, they were vile. Name-calling, threats, etc. All on a group to show support and love for a sick baby.

This is the problem. Some of the people who donated (not all) seen to think they had bought into her life then, and are the same people who will now think they have a say in where the money goes, what people should and shouldn’t be doing.

the publicity was a blessing and a curse really

 

[justheretoread99]

agree and what about all the other beautiful innocent babies dying from cancer there’s no support for them at all unless your a z lister with a big following then they don’t matter which must have been awful for the children suffering at the same time as Azaylia they all deserve recognition

Here’s hoping that the Azaylia foundation can do just this- helping and supporting all babies, children and their families going through similar illnesses.

 

[sephylily]

what ethnicity is saf?

 

[GobShyte64]

what ethnicity is saf?

i think she’s mixed. I dont think shes white. Same with Ash and his brother, i think they have different dads as Matt has darker skin and looks nothing like Ash. Nothing wrong with it tho. Im mixed race, my kids have different dads. Me n my bro have different dads.