There’ll be three sides to the story of what happened that day. Grandma’s, Parents and the truth
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Agree, there’s no way I could have left my 8 week old baby with someone else, even close family, for a whole day while I went off to another city, when she was 8 weeks old she was grumpy and colicky and it was hard leaving her with my mum for just an hour while I went the dentist to get excruciating tooth ache seen to, and that’s without having serious worries over her health!
It’s seems the mum just wants her share of the ‘glory’ though for spotting how ill azaylea actually was and isn’t concerned about hurting the grieving parents through her actions and the things she posts which is just wrong, I wish them all some level of healing in time, wouldn’t be surprised if ash and Saff announce a split soon enough
I wish them all hea
I do actually believe her moms version of events, ok she hasn’t always gone about things the right way but she was watching her grandchild die from cancer and not being aloud contact in her final weeks must have been heartbreaking
I do feel that Ash and Saf turning their back on the grandma was to do with guilt, guilt that the nan took her to hospital guilt that they were away getting Botox whilst their daughter was ill
I find all of these Azaylia ‘fan’ accounts that have sprung up rather bizarre & disturbing. I wouldn’t be comfortable with it at all if I was the parents, but then I wouldn’t have Instagram storied my child’s last few days on earth for a million people to watch either.
I’d have asked someone to report them all, have them taken down by Instagram but they won’t do that because it’s the attention they want
why would they feel guilty for that? I honestly think any bad feeling is because of the appalling way the grandmother has handled absolutely everything. She is an attention seeker and glory hunter and it is truly repulsive.I do actually believe her moms version of events, ok she hasn’t always gone about things the right way but she was watching her grandchild die from cancer and not being aloud contact in her final weeks must have been heartbreaking
I do feel that Ash and Saf turning their back on the grandma was to do with guilt, guilt that the nan took her to hospital guilt that they were away getting Botox whilst their daughter was ill
Much like them then…..
You can’t feel quilty for leaving your baby with a grandparent, they obviously thought it was ok at the time and if she had colic they probably needed a break.
So you wouldn’t feel guilty that you were getting Botox in a different city and had left your already sick daughter (not knowing it was cancer at this point) but still she was sick and 8 weeks old
You can quite clearly see in them photos as well how sick she looked
These photos were taken after not long being in Andreas care too she never had Azaylia for days it was less than a few hours.
She does look very sick she was struggling to breath
Sorry to keep quoting you
but the grandma set up a page and received gifts all of which she did (wrongly) put on their doorstep after being accused of stealing them, she had been stopped from seeing Azaylia though at this point. Saf and Ashley are quite happy to set up pages and allow random strangers to set up pages and take gifts but not the grandma seems the problem lies deeper than the gifts
Seeing all this, I do think they lied, because it doesn’t make them look great that the day she got admitted to hospital, they were in Manchester having Botox, they wasn’t at work or something important and they knew that, I’d say especially Ashley knew that as he has been in the public eye for a while and knew that people didn’t particularly like him. That’s probably why they also cut Safs mum out as then no one would believe her because she just looks bitter and like she’s lying for attention. It’s heartbreaking what they went through, I won’t discredit that and I’m not going to discredit how much pain they just be feeling at the loss, because it’s quite clear to see they’re both broken, and Saf seems to especially be struggling to navigate life after the loss.
Sorry the comments about how they could leave their child when she was so ‘obviously sick’ are not sitting right with me. Doctors looked at her and said she’s fine. There comes a point where you just try and get on with life if the doctors give the all clear. Saying they shouldn’t of gone to Manchester, they were leaving her with someone who was responsible and trusted at the time clearly.
I’m saying this from experience of a diagnosis with my daughter. She had bronchilitis and was in and out of hospital for over 2 weeks (4 months old). Doctors checked her several times and said her obs were fine so not to worry. She seemed like she was over the worst and I left her with my dad and step mother to watch her for the day as I had to attend a work course. I had to leave midway as her breathing deteriorated and travelled straight back to take her back to hospital for answers which is when they did a chest X-ray and found something wrong with her heart.
most importantly, I look back now (nearly 2 years later) and can see all the signs that she was in heart failure and I can tell that she doesn’t look well. But at the time, I was knackered and just listened to what I was told. When you are told several times that things are fine you have no reason to doubt the doctors?
Sorry, bit of a ramble but I beat myself up a lot for not spotting the signs sooner and I imagine Ash and Saff do too about Azaylia. So seeing people blame them for going to Manchester the day she was diagnosed has touched a nerve.
I’m saying this from experience of a diagnosis with my daughter. She had bronchilitis and was in and out of hospital for over 2 weeks (4 months old). Doctors checked her several times and said her obs were fine so not to worry. She seemed like she was over the worst and I left her with my dad and step mother to watch her for the day as I had to attend a work course. I had to leave midway as her breathing deteriorated and travelled straight back to take her back to hospital for answers which is when they did a chest X-ray and found something wrong with her heart.
most importantly, I look back now (nearly 2 years later) and can see all the signs that she was in heart failure and I can tell that she doesn’t look well. But at the time, I was knackered and just listened to what I was told. When you are told several times that things are fine you have no reason to doubt the doctors?
Sorry, bit of a ramble but I beat myself up a lot for not spotting the signs sooner and I imagine Ash and Saff do too about Azaylia. So seeing people blame them for going to Manchester the day she was diagnosed has touched a nerve.
No not at all unless it was misplaced guilt but if I did I would hope that grief counselling would help me see that I'd done nothing to feel guilty about as I had done nothing wrong at all.
Completely different, you went for a work course, they literally went for Botox?
I missed an important hospital appointment as I could see my son wasn’t well and have then gone on to have to reschedule multiple times, but they couldn’t miss a Botox appointment, you can see in them photos she’s unwell
Not blaming them for going away we all know doctors get it wrong and did probably say she was fine, but she was clearly very unwell judging by them photos and the grandma who had just had her noticed what her parents didn’t, I said I think their guilt and hate towards Andrea is from the fact that she noticed what they didn’t because I’d feel guilty if my mom saw my child was so sick but I never
Isn’t posting all over social media exactly what they have done? Yes it’s raised awareness of childhood cancer, but maybe that’s what the mother was trying to do also.
Everyone saying they can grieve how they please, but then slagging off the grandmother who will be grieving also, not to mention she seems to have lost her daughter now too...
No one knows why there has been a fall out and she’s probably just upset now she’s been completely pushed away from her daughter at a time they should all be rallying round each other.
I’m not fully up to date with the grandmother story but if she’d been accused of stealing donations what was she supposed to do with them? If she threw them away it would be ungrateful. Yes she probably shouldn’t have accepted them in the first place but everyone else had pages for a child they’d never even met so maybe just got caught up in it all.
Ashley seems hell bent on it being about him and everyone else is a background piece to what he’s doing
The grandma had lost her sister to cancer the year previously I think who she was extremely close too and had spent the year before fundraising for cancer charities I think what she done come from the heart
I don’t think it should matter what reason, at the end of the day the doctors gave them the all clear when they took her in. When you see your child everyday, it can be hard to notice changes such as them being pale. If doctors missed it initially then of course the parents will.
We will just have to agree to disagree on that
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