Ashley Cain

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She’s looking for a (free?) spa today. All she seems to do is pamper.

When you’re asking people to donate to your charity and then wanting to go to a spa it’s a bit.. hmmm 🤔
I think if anyone deserves a day at a Spa it’s Saf!
 
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She’s looking for a (free?) spa today. All she seems to do is pamper.

When you’re asking people to donate to your charity and then wanting to go to a spa it’s a bit.. hmmm 🤔
See this is what I mean. I feel sorry and then she does this…purely on the beg it seems
 
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I think if anyone deserves a day at a Spa it’s Saf!
Oh yes I agree but she can Google or trip advisor it or even ask the hotel she’s staying at The way she’s asked is classic please give me a freebie it’s happening more and more, I have a lot of time for Safiya and I really like her and feel for her what I don’t have time for is blatant begging.
 
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I feel awful for Saf. I know I shouldn't compare but I have to say I think a mother's pain over losing a child is probably so much more intense than a man's. Saf carried her baby, delivered her and then shortly after was thrown into all this, but Ashley doesn't seem to be supporting her at all.

It seems to be the Ashley Cain show... give credit to Saf, she carried A, gave birth to her, nursed her and then lost her to a devastating illness. I know Ashley is A's dad and its devastating for him to loose a baby, but its going to be even harder for Saf. She will have an overwhelming ache and pain in her body for her baby.
I feel more for Saf than i do for Ashley

Completely agree x
 
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Yeah, it's easier to push people away instead of waiting for them to leave.

Also, Do you find that Saf posts loads when she's not with her brother? Like, she desperately wants some attention and someone to notice her so she does it through insta? Whereas when she is with her bro, she's just enjoying his company, pops on to chat and says shes with her bro, then shes off again. Ash didn't even give her the time of day earlier when she was saying how proud she was and showing everyone the van. It's not just him that lost a child. I dont know man, I just find him very cold towards her and if he really feels how he comes across on camera, then he needs to leave her because honestly, there is nothing worse than staying with someone for the sake of it. Poor saf just wants to please him & he just pushes her away even more.
If Ashley isn't giving her support I am sure Saf feels very alone. Maybe she has so much to say but no one to talk to. Maybe she doesn't want to "burden" friends by always talking to them. I wonder if Ashley resents Saf for some reason? Obviously it is not her fault A was sick but he is so cold to her on screen.
 
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I’ve noticed over the months Her brother doesn’t like being filmed for millions to see. It’s very obvious. seems very quiet and humble and sweet…
 
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I’ve noticed over the months Her brother doesn’t like being filmed for millions to see. It’s very obvious. seems very quiet and humble and sweet…
I don't blame him. She records everything - maybe as a coping mechanism but I'm not a fan of her recording her nephew to her million+ followers. But then i've always been really funny about having kids on social media. We've all seen how weird people are (hinchers for example), imagine one of her crazed fans seen him in the street and started talking to them all like they know em. It's just weird. Children have no place on social media.
 
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I don't blame him. She records everything - maybe as a coping mechanism but I'm not a fan of her recording her nephew to her million+ followers. But then i've always been really funny about having kids on social media. We've all seen how weird people are (hinchers for example), imagine one of her crazed fans seen him in the street and started talking to them all like they know em. It's just weird. Children have no place on social media.
Exactly! She needs to stop filming her bro he’s clearly uncomfortable. Especially other kids
 
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I think they would almost be better just taking pictures about the foundation and posting them on their separate ig accounts but not filming- neither come across great on film. Saf just says lets go champ each time. Then on the foundation account get someone who knows what they’re doing to film and update etc. It would also stop people linking the foundation with beggy posts…. ‘Please give to our charity’….. next breath…. ‘Does anyone know of a good spa/where I can get a 4x4 from?’
 
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She did all the driving yesterday while Ash sat in the back looking at himself in the camera posting stories on insta.


I think after driving Ash round all day yesterday, she deserves a bit of me time. Poor girl cant catch a break.
It was just her and her brother driving down.
 
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From safs mums Facebook.
Seems her mums sisters are angry saf and ash
Hmm... Obviously we do not know why they fell out. I do wonder if it was over Ash and Saf oversharing on social media and they said something and Saf cut them off.
If they got cut off then I am sure that hurts them and they are venting to make them feel better but it isn't a good look.
 
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From safs mums Facebook.
Seems her mums sisters are angry saf and ash
I know many do not agree with me but I feel so sad for Saffs mom it does seem she was the one who found the bruise and took Azaylia to hospital despite what Ashley and saff say, she was then cut out of her dying grandchild’s life. Not only has she lost a grand baby she’s lot a daughter and has most of the general public vilifying her 💔
 
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I know many do not agree with me but I feel so sad for Saffs mom it does seem she was the one who found the bruise and took Azaylia to hospital despite what Ashley and saff say, she was then cut out of her dying grandchild’s life. Not only has she lost a grand baby she’s lot a daughter and has most of the general public vilifying her 💔
Did her mum get to see AZ at all when she was sick? Was she allowed at the funeral? I wonder if it was granny that took AZ to the hospital with the bruising etc, did social services get involved? Not sure if it's the same in the UK but here if a child is taken to hospital with an injury (bruise, cut, etc) they will question the parents, even if things seem innocent... So all bases are covered.
 
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Thank you to the poster who linked the podcast earlier, just sat and watched the whole thing. Bless Ashley and Safiyya ❤
 
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It looks like safs mum was quite involved initially, but then I don't think she ever really mentioned her mum whilst was poorly. Maybe things went sour after the diagnosis.

I don't think her mum will have objected to them over sharing. She shared her own granddaughter being taken away by an ambulance and basically being resuscitated.

Her mum strikes me as having a bit of a saviour complex and a need for adoration to be honest.
 
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Did her mum get to see AZ at all when she was sick? Was she allowed at the funeral? I wonder if it was granny that took AZ to the hospital with the bruising etc, did social services get involved? Not sure if it's the same in the UK but here if a child is taken to hospital with an injury (bruise, cut, etc) they will question the parents, even if things seem innocent... So all bases are covered.
From what I can gather she did see Azaylia during treatment it was more so towards the end she was shut out, and yes same here in the UK unexplained bruising on babies results in social services but I think in Azaylias case her blood test would have shown up the cancer so no need for social services to make enquiries
 
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