Ashley Cain

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I’m glad I found this thread. I feel bad even writing this but I just wanted to see what others thought?
They raised the money required for her treatment but sadly it couldn’t go ahead. I was shocked when they then said they would use some for her funeral, and then how ‘big’ they made it. Tailored suits, bespoke dress, family party. This extravagance isn’t needed to honour her memory.
 
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I’m glad I found this thread. I feel bad even writing this but I just wanted to see what others thought?
They raised the money required for her treatment but sadly it couldn’t go ahead. I was shocked when they then said they would use some for her funeral, and then how ‘big’ they made it. Tailored suits, bespoke dress, family party. This extravagance isn’t needed to honour her memory.
I do agree unfortunately. Surely a lot of that money could have gone towards helping another child and family.
 
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Stunned at what the grandmother has shared.

I honestly wonder if she is going to post more....

Also, has anyone clicked on the link on her Instagram in her bio. Is there more to all this??
Petition for -

Provide more funding for stalking advocates for victims of stalking
 
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The mother is pot kettle black, She posts about narcissists, she looks like she is desperate for the attention. She wants a piece of it. You need to really ask yourself why her daughter wasn't quick in involving her when she passed.

I'm sorry but posting the door bell video of them taking the baby to the ambulance. It is going above and beyond whats the need, have some respect for Azaylia... She has turned her comments off on her latest post on insta so she must of had a backlash. My mum would never post all that without my consent, for attention lets make that clear I don't believe it's fully for the awareness, She comes off as there is always a underlying dig to everything.

I see a lot of this but this can help other families, This makes me feel uncomfortable, for Azaylia I cant see me ever acting like this.. I would want to protect every bit of my child's dignity, peace and little time they had on this earth. None of it sits right with me I feel the lines got blurred a long time ago which is very sad
 
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The mother is pot kettle black, She posts about narcissists, she looks like she is desperate for the attention. She wants a piece of it. You need to really ask yourself why her daughter wasn't quick in involving her when she passed.

I'm sorry but posting the door bell video of them taking the baby to the ambulance. It is going above and beyond whats the need, have some respect for the baby... She has turned her comments off on her latest post on insta so she must of had a backlash. My mum would never post all that without my consent, for attention lets make that clear I don't believe it's fully for the awareness, She comes off as there is always a underlying dig to everything.
It’s beginning to look fro what I have learned here about bloody bespoke suits and dresses for the funeral, that most of their agendas are not right. Who the hell wastes money that was said to save lives on bloody bespoke outfits whilst all the time bleating on about wanting to save children’s lives. I’m disgusted and outraged. Looking back through all their Instagrams I think they are all narcissistic and all want a piece of the limelight and of course money 😩😩😩
 
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The funeral and party definitely should have been paid for using their own money not the donations unless they were given consent.
 
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I’m glad I found this thread. I feel bad even writing this but I just wanted to see what others thought?
They raised the money required for her treatment but sadly it couldn’t go ahead. I was shocked when they then said they would use some for her funeral, and then how ‘big’ they made it. Tailored suits, bespoke dress, family party. This extravagance isn’t needed to honour her memory.
I didn’t know that and find it appalling they used the money that way
 
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It's all a bit of a mess isnt it?! Imagine as a mother, watching your daughter lose her daughter & because everything is all blasted on social media, it just looks messy. We (the audience) are just trying to make sense of a jigsaw puzzle using pictures they post, stories they post and hearsay of he said she said. Unless you're a fly on the wall in their front room, no one will really know what is going on between the family. I never watched ex on the beach and I didnt even know who Ashley & Saffiya were until Azaylia was in her final days so I can't really comment, however, I agree with other comments. Ashley looks like he is existing. He is using exercise to try and keep his mind focused but one day he's gonna break - and that's fine. It doesnt look like he has really grieved at all. Instead he's just buried it and exercises every single day hoping to push it down even more. Slaps a smile on his face that doesnt quite meet the eyes and posts a few pictures and "lets go champ" stories. Saffiya on the other hand, she's broken. Poor girl can't even go to Asda & do her food shop without being triggered. I really feel for her. She's riding the grief train and I wouldn't be surprised if she had PTSD as well. The trauma of watching your baby suffer like that, especially as she did in her final days.

I am all for raising awareness, however there is a time and place. No one needed to see Azaylia in her final moments. Who even thinks to get their phone out to record while your rushing your very poorly child to hospital?! It's wild to me, but I suppose it's the world we live in these days. Zero privacy and everything is for likes, follows and shares.
 
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I feel so sad for Saf .. she was pregnant for longer than her darling baby was alive. It honestly breaks my heart ... as it does for ANY parent who loses a child.
Just feel extra sorry for her as she doesn’t have her mums support and Ashley seems so dismissive of her 💔
Sorry if this is controversial I know they have both lost their baby but I just think for the mum it’s another level. SHE carried that baby for 9 months! Sorry that’s probably really mean.
Not sure what’s going on with her mum but posting those pics is unhinged.
 
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They haven’t cashed in the gofundme so technically as of yet they haven’t used it for anything (the funeral or anything for themselves)
 
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They haven’t cashed in the gofundme so technically as of yet they haven’t used it for anything (the funeral or anything for themselves)
Someone on here said they had said they were going to use the money for the funeral etc 🤷‍♀️
 
Someone on here said they had said they were going to use the money for the funeral etc 🤷‍♀️
Yeah, they did say that in something in writing but I’m just commenting that as of yet they haven’t so we can’t criticise it as an action only as a potential intention and maybe they’ve changed their mind. I’ve no doubt some companies probably gifted the services also.
 
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Yeah, they did say that in something in writing but I’m just commenting that as of yet they haven’t so we can’t criticise it as an action only as a potential intention and maybe they’ve changed their mind. I’ve no doubt some companies probably gifted the services also.
I can definitely criticise it as and intention and I definitely do as I said that money should be used to save babies and children bespoke outfits is just so bloody distasteful and absolutely not needed. But oh so very Ashley
 
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I can definitely criticise it as and intention and I definitely do as I said that money should be used to save babies and children bespoke outfits is just so bloody distasteful and absolutely not needed. But oh so very Ashley
And of course I understand that, but as of yet they haven’t actually used the money for anything - it appears people are still donating. 🤷‍♀️
 
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I can definitely criticise it as and intention and I definitely do as I said that money should be used to save babies and children bespoke outfits is just so bloody distasteful and absolutely not needed. But oh so very Ashley
we would like to use some to give Azaylia a magical and deserving send off - something that we believe you would all want to be a part of. Secondly, we will use the remaining money to help other children through a new charity we are setting up in Azaylia’s name
that is from the go fund me page, donations still flooding in lots of people gave as a “birthday gift “
 
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we would like to use some to give Azaylia a magical and deserving send off - something that we believe you would all want to be a part of. Secondly, we will use the remaining money to help other children through a new charity we are setting up in Azaylia’s name
that is from the go fund me page, donations still flooding in lots of people gave as a “birthday gift “
People really are very stupid
 
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I thought the social media carry on when that baby was dying was too much, but I can see how the attention would be addictive when everything else in the world must have been chaotic for them, and idiots like Hinch probably didn’t help with that addiction.
Someone close to them should have gently told them to put their phones away though and to stop posting. And they REALLY need to be told that now. I feel very very sorry for them, and the horror they must have gone through this last year. Saf’s mother seems like an utter lunatic which won’t help.

Honestly though, wouldn’t the go fund me money be better off being donated to an established charity for the same cause? Does Ashley Cain truly have the skills and experience to run a childhood cancer charity successfully? The mind literally boggles.
 
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