Ashley Cain #2

[Lola123]

He’s on the go 24/7 he needs a serious rest , I can’t see all this exercise helping him

They should have a proper team handling the foundation & they should both have a break

I think he does it so he’s so exhausted so he doesn’t have trouble sleeping or feeling any emotion at all

 

[GOSS21]

Where’s her mates ffs? It’s so sad, she’s so isolated and alone. Her brother can’t be the only one looking out for her.
And her mum, surely you’d just get on the train Edinburgh and turn up. No matter how much you were rejected wouldn’t you keep trying for the sake of your daughter?

I doubt the mother could do that- id say ashley would cause murder if she did! I have a feeling hes behind this rift & he likes saf being alone & shes blinded by it & goes along with what he says

 

[Mardymermaid]

Let’s not forget the mum treated her badly to though there’s evidence of this even if we don’t have the full story I don’t think some of the things she did as they were deal

 

[Lillyloo]

Let’s not forget the mum treated her badly to though there’s evidence of this even if we don’t have the full story I don’t think some of the things she did as they were deal

I read a post her mother put up saying all they were bothered about was gaining more followers etc. Even if this was the case what sort of mother puts up a post like that about her own daughter who’s going through such an ordeal! The post was swiftly deleted after people started commenting saying it was uncalled for.

 

[Olgivy]

Honestly, it's getting a bit culty. The video of Ash descending into the sea accompanied by that pipe music, his messiah complex speech, the people desperate to see them both or to visit baby A's grave like it's some sort of tourist destination, the fan pages and strange montage pictures... I have family in Nuneaton and saw a woman in orange Azaylia tees outside Asda. I mean they could be a relative but even that would be a bit strange! What's the end destination for all of this? The charity could be great but I'd be worried about the people that have latched on to Azaylia and her memory. I saw a bit of Saff's live yesterday and that poor woman needs a cuddle and a rest. The whole situation is so sad and I can't see any of this ending well for Ash and Saff.

This! I’ve also seen people setting up IG fan accounts for Azaylia, and then tagging Ashley and Saf in the photos of Azaylia that they took off their IG pages and stories. Creepy as duck.

 

[LaurieLaurie]

We have no idea what her mother is like.. They were close at one point but you can’t always believe what you see or read on social media.

 

[GOSS21]

The fact they stayed there n separate hotel rooms. She stayed in a room with two single beds. One remained unoccupied the whole night. She was talking about Ashley and the boys having massages somewhere (I’m assuming in their separate rooms) and how she wanted one but had no idea what was going on. Bless her she stayed up drinking irn bru, Pepsi and tea cakes with us on Instagram live. One thing I will say though is that she’s GREAT at ignoring negative messages. She won’t even entertain the trolls or acknowledge them. Inside it must hurt though.


Exactly there’s no control over who says what. Someone did recommend she have a social media cleanse or break which would be great but maybe it’s her coping mechanism. But Regardless as you said it’s part and parcel of having your life out there open to millions to comment and criticise.. sad but true

I didnt see that live (i saw a bit of the 1 yesterday evening when she was in hotel goin on about lashes, but it was irritating me the noises & stuff she was doing & it just weirded me out a bit to be honest) but wow thats so sad to have to look for company on insta live when the others are all in the hotel . God love her. It sickens me that shes all alone in a room & ash & the team are there? Like wtf? Even the girl cousin could of stayed with saf?

It just doesn’t even make any sense. At least try to pretend to give a tit about her and book her into the same hotel. What was the point in her being there if she’s in a different hotel, up on her own at night whilst Ashley and the team eat together, Stay in the same hotel and get massages. He might as well just tell her to not come along at all the way he is acting isn’t far off that

No matter what they feel now they were BOTH her parents and they BOTH run the foundation, it’s just super odd to be staying in seperate hotels and not even having meals together as part of the foundation team even if it’s not as a couple

Thats so messed up i didnt know they were in seperate hotels? Wtf! It just gets worse each day!

 

[Olivemaks]

I didnt see that live (i saw a bit of the 1 yesterday evening when she was in hotel goin on about lashes, but it was irritating me the noises & stuff she was doing & it just weirded me out a bit to be honest) but wow thats so sad to have to look for company on insta live when the others are all in the hotel . God love her. It sickens me that shes all alone in a room & ash & the team are there? Like wtf? Even the girl cousin could of stayed with saf?

The girl cousin stayed In a room across the hall. She came to drop something off to her at like 1-2 AM. And yeah some of the lives I can’t bear to watch. And at the end of last nights live. She asked everyone to go and check if Sheraton spa and hotel was available if they had the spa open. She basically said can one of use go and check the website because I really want to go tomorrow, and if I come of live I won’t be able to talk so some of youse please go check and let me know. Mmmmmm

 

[Loveitme]

Are they actually separated because this is very odd behaviour regarding the hotel situation if not .Surely you’d go and eat and sleep with your partner ?

 

[Olgivy]

The girl cousin stayed In a room across the hall. She came to drop something off to her at like 1-2 AM. And yeah some of the lives I can’t bear to watch. And at the end of last nights live. She asked everyone to go and check if Sheraton spa and hotel was available if they had the spa open. She basically said can one of use go and check the website because I really want to go tomorrow, and if I come of live I won’t be able to talk so some of youse please go check and let me know. Mmmmmm

She clearly wants someone to buy her a night at the spa!

 

[Grippy]

lol what I don’t understand is they’ve raised all this money and people at the beginning of this thread said just wait until the foundation is launched before making judgment! Ok the foundation is launched we are non the wiser where all this money has gone! There was a child needing 200k for her treatment shouldn’t she have got 200k from the foundation ?

The foundation’s financial accounts will be published every year on the charity commission website (or should be anyway) so everyone will find out where the money goes eventually. A lot of charities will publish an annual review as well with more detail about what they achieved that year so maybe they’ll do the same.

 

[Olivemaks]

Are they actually separated because this is very odd behaviour regarding the hotel situation if not .Surely you’d go and eat and sleep with your partner ?

We don’t know. No one knows. We’re all in the same boat. But all I know is from yesterday’s live at 2am. She and Ashley did not share a room

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

Not him saying he’s Hercules , he’s Thor

 

[LaurieLaurie]

Maybe this is why Saf was sad yesterday..
From personal experience when someone is going through a hard time their relationship is the last thing on their minds.

 

[KYLIE]

To be honest, when they started fundraising that million pounds to go to Singapore(?) for the treatment, I had a weird feeling that they were probably advised she wouldn't make it by doctors before. I don't think it was ever likely to happen, it just seemed a bit off that as soon as they reached their goal and had all that cash, they confirmed that doctors said she was going to pass soon. It felt a bit off to me. I might be totally wrong though, who knows.

It was clear she probably wouldn’t make it there from way before, and the entire thing was a very uncomfortable PR circus around a very sick little baby girl, may god rest her beautiful soul.

He made a huge show of her illness, more than just 'updates' about her and it made me very uncomfortable towards the end, all the photos of that poor beautiful baby looking so weak.

I agree with everything everyone has said about Saf - she needs support, she is clearly suffering and lonely too.

Most 'regular' people who suffer this kind of loss go back to work after a while, but she mopes around the house all day it seems, it can't be doing her any good. Most people start to move on and slowly each day feel a little more normal and distracted because they have work and maybe a hobby like the gym. When you sit there all day in the house, what good can it do? What did she do as a job before?

 

[noseynopinions]

Not him saying he’s Hercules , he’s Thor

Cringe cringe cringe.

If I was Saff I would interrupt his ass and say excuse me, she's my daughter too. I hate how he says MY daughter when Safiyya is standing right there. Must make her feel so insignificant

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

To be honest, when they started fundraising that million pounds to go to Singapore(?) for the treatment, I had a weird feeling that they were probably advised she wouldn't make it by doctors before. I don't think it was ever likely to happen, it just seemed a bit off that as soon as they reached their goal and had all that cash, they confirmed that doctors said she was going to pass soon. It felt a bit off to me. I might be totally wrong though, who knows.

It was clear she probably wouldn’t make it there from way before, and the entire thing was a very uncomfortable PR circus around a very sick little baby girl, may god rest her beautiful soul.

He made a huge show of her illness, more than just 'updates' about her and it made me very uncomfortable towards the end, all the photos of that poor beautiful baby looking so weak.

I agree with everything everyone has said about Saf - she needs support, she is clearly suffering and lonely too.

Most 'regular' people who suffer this kind of loss go back to work after a while, but she mopes around the house all day it seems, it can't be doing her any good. Most people start to move on and slowly each day feel a little more normal and distracted because they have work and maybe a hobby like the gym. When you sit there all day in the house, what good can it do? What did she do as a job before?

Omg Kylie Jenner on tattle life

Cringe cringe cringe.

If I was Saff I would interrupt his ass and say excuse me, she's my daughter too. I hate how he says MY daughter when Safiyya is standing right there. Must make her feel so insignificant

OUR is a key word he doesn’t know

 

[Loveitme]

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Maybe this is why Saf was sad yesterday..
From personal experience when someone is going through a hard time their relationship is the last thing on their minds.

Honestly I think they’re both really really struggling which is obviously understandable .I do think they’d be better being away from the media and public eye right now so they can heal in private .Just seems unhealthy how Ashley is handling things and I don’t think saffiyas needs are being met .

 

[honeybun67]

God iv just spent hours reading through this, wish I knew about it sooner

As everyone says you cannot imagine what either of them are going through and no one wants to take away from that but some things are odd and you can’t help but notice
The way they documented every private moment when A was alive it seems odd when you hear “me and ash spend a lot of time together but keep it private”

Also, I swear Saff says her and Ashley have been together for a really long time I’m sure he was only with Chloe khan not that long ago.

I wish we could all meet up and hug saff, as everyone says she seems so lost and passive. It’s heartbreaking.

I cried my heart through the fearne cotton podcast but again barely any mention of Saff.

Has anyone noticed on the lives loads of people ask Saffs nationality and she ignores it everytime.

 

[getmeoutofhere]

Last nights video when he arrived in Edinburgh
MY daughter
MY daughter
MY daughter

Shut up Ashley man, Saf is right in front of you have some respect. OUR daughter is what you mean