Ashley Cain #2

[gigilouxx]

The one thing that has never sat right is the "my daughter" as though Safiyya was a vessel and just a womb.
His fucking cousins get more gratitude than his own baby mum. Yet everyday she gets up and carries on. My heart breaks for her, I don't even care if she wants free shit, she deserves free shit when even her own partner seems to do absolutely anything possible to avoid spending time with her. I wish I knew her personally, mum to mum she'd get the biggest hug going.

 

[Blue raspberry slush pupp]

I feel like a horrible bitch because I know he’s grieving. He’s lost his daughter of course and would rather have her here however he’s loving the attention he’s getting and it seems like it’s not the charity’s profile he’s trying to raise but his own. He wants to be seen,he wants to be known and he thrives off of being a public figure. Even looking at him makes my skin crawl there’s just something not right about him.

 

[Wild_she]

The more pictures I see of him the more I think he’s a cu*t. So egotistical. Poor saf seeing that he’s following loads of models etc while she’s pushed in a corner with no one there, going back to an empty home where her daughter died and should be in. He’s a dog. Yeah he’s been through something horrendous, but it doesn’t stop someone being a shitty person what I believe he’s always been

I’ve also had the same feeling he’s maybe a bit controlling with Saf, especially with him telling her she has to stay strong etc. I wish Saf would reconnect with her mum, everyone needs their mum going through something like this, yes she acted awfully, but was her heart in the wrong place? I think it wasn’t and she’s reacted out of hurt ofnot being able to be there for her daughter during that time. I bet her mum is broken seeing her little girl going through all this alone, I would be if it was my girls They seemed so close before and after A’s birth. It also makes me wonder why safs family seem to have so much beef with ash, I reckon he’s a right twat, but acts the nice guy on Instagram etc xx

 

[Goldfish]

He gives me wannabe Connor mcgregor vibes

 

[chocdip]

I’ve just come to say that beautiful boy looks exhausted why on earth is he out it’s been wet and windy he should be at home.

So he’s recovering from cancer it seems and his mom thought it would be a good idea to have him out late at night mixing with hundreds of people and no thought for his immune system disgusting behaviour. He should be snuggled up in bed with a hot chocolate and a movie

 

[Justlooking2020]

Am I the only one thinking about the covid-spreading risks of travelling city to city hugging young possibly unvaccinated females? (I know quote a few 20-30 year olds still have only had one vaccination) .

Sorry don’t agree. Restrictions are lifted and can go to festivals with 10,000s of people so hugging some doesn’t matter. Plus the vaccine isn’t going to stop you catching covid only getting bad symptoms so if he’s hugging other females my only issue is hopefully it’s not disrespectful to his grieving girlfriend

 

[GobShyte64]

Does Saff have any friends apart from Ashleys family? From the outside looking in, it looks like abuse

isolate her from her friends & family. Only allowing her to communicate with people he deems suitable. Cause a rift with the mum and cut her off. She won’t take meds - could be a personal choice, could also be ash saying you dont need pills, just exercise more. She’s gained weight & he follows all the models on insta which probably does nothing for her self esteem. He seems cold towards her. There’s no affection in his voice. His body language around Saff is closed. Its like, she just exists. I bet she was hoping the charity would give her a purpose but Ash seems to have taken over. Like someone else said, shes been doing a 25 mile bike rides at home, she could have easily have done smaller routes to join in & feel like she’s part of it. She is isolated, her own partner ices her out & when her brother is with his family - she’s got no one. You can see on the vids when she is with Ash, its like she desperately wants his attention, a bit of affection, half the time he can’t even look at her.

hopefully, one day soon she sees the light & gets the courage to leave Ash because this is not healthy. I think they would be better apart where they can both heal seperately as together, its a bit toxic.

 

[Njrog19]

She was pouring her heart out to actual strangers and 3000+ people watching while her partner was in the restaurant next door. I don’t think it’s for attention or anything like that, I just feel like she’s genuinely lost and has some kind of god complex when it comes to Ashley. I just feel so bad for her. How she could sit there on that live and say her and Ashley are stronger then ever just did not match up to the events of the evening and previous day.

 

[Allmyownopinion]

The one thing that has never sat right is the "my daughter" as though Safiyya was a vessel and just a womb.
His fucking cousins get more gratitude than his own baby mum. Yet everyday she gets up and carries on. My heart breaks for her, I don't even care if she wants free shit, she deserves free shit when even her own partner seems to do absolutely anything possible to avoid spending time with her. I wish I knew her personally, mum to mum she'd get the biggest hug going.

This is what has disturbed me from the start. Always writing “my Daughter” has never once referred to her as “our Daughter” leaving flowers for her from him, not from both of them! It’s starting to wind me up; how can we all see it yet no one is holding him to account that his behaviour towards Saf is cruel, selfish & unnecessary! Honestly, if my brother behaved like this I’d take him aside & tell him to stop, to not be so inconsiderate towards Saf, to think about how his words and actions affect her! It cannot have gone unnoticed it’s just bloody awful!!!

 

[Basicbasic]

I think he's keen to be a gatekeeper of A and her death. He can't share that with saf even though as a, mum her grief is double his (that's just my opinion, she's carried her for 9 months it's a different bond). He has to be the public face of the grief, he's suffering the most, he's doing the most, he's on the biggest journey, he needs the attention the accolade the cheering, the podcasts, the foundation...... also, from the £1m plus they raised the hospital should've been given more than £20k. They probably spent more than that at her funeral. Be generous and gracious, you've over a million quid sat there that could be making a monumental to families right now.

 

[ohnoanoh]

Cannot believe people were walking in front of Saf trying to greet and hug Ashley before she could, even if he isn’t affectionate with her still doesn’t give anyone else the right to walk ahead in-front of her!! Does nobody have any consideration for this poor lady. To the point she had to ask them to stop fgs

 

[Noonoosanne2]

No need for a recap. We all know about Ashley & Safs horrendous time. Majority of us on the previous thread are more concerned & worried about Safiya & the way Ashley is with her. Grief aside somethings just aren’t sitting right.

 

[Noonoosanne2]

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Fucking out of order. Don’t come on here probably posting shit about Ashley then do that that’s not what tattles about, it’s just going to draw more people here and then that’s when the trolling starts

 

[gigilouxx]

It's just her face, she breaks my heart. Why can't he put his arm round her, or even touch her, she's like a little lost soul.

 

[katty257]

Ashley’s mums comment on his post....not even a mention of Saf... how disrespectful saf said she’s doing behind the scenes work so there for she’s part of the team and not even a mention.This is not okay it’s being made into just Ashley’s foundation and Saf being pushed aside

 

[Romeo1]

Alot of women on this thread have lost a child themselves so heartbreaking . So much love to you all x u might not be doing crazy cycles around the u.k but the fact your just still up and breathing is amazing to me x

 

[noseynopinions]

Weirdos

 

[Lozzie212325]

You seen him on the ‘James O’Brien’ show right? Search on YT if not

He gives me fuck boy vibes. Typical mixed race lad, ripped to bits - probably on the steds and loves himself. I watched a video of him earlier where his mate was asking him how he gets loads of girls and hes like "its not cuz I'm mixed race and look like this"... sure hun, I bet he werent getting any girls with zero weight on him & no beard, especially with his height as well! If anything, Ashley is punching above his weight dating Saff. Girl has a heart of gold and is quite literally Ash's number 1 fan... & what does Saf get in return?

I think that’s abit much though. Typical
Mixed race lad? My son is mixed race and would never dream of being like Ashley cain .

 

[Njrog19]

The Newquay thing isn’t the first thing I’ve noticed…. Azaylias Day when he made that post thanking his family for their support and saying how amazing they are and not one single mention or photo that included Safiyya. That must of killed her. As much as it’s a loss for the whole family and heart wrenching She is Azaylia’s mother.

 

[LaurieLaurie]

What is said on here is supposed to stay on here as far as I’m concerned. She’s sad enough without people needing to run and tell her.