Ashley Cain #2

[Book]

Honestly I think they’re both really really struggling which is obviously understandable .I do think they’d be better being away from the media and public eye right now so they can heal in private .Just seems unhealthy how Ashley is handling things and I don’t think saffiyas needs are being met .

Ashley is fully living his best Ashley life. Not to see he isn’t broken he must be. But this is the Ashley show and this is what he lives for!

 

[GOSS21]

The girl cousin stayed In a room across the hall. She came to drop something off to her at like 1-2 AM. And yeah some of the lives I can’t bear to watch. And at the end of last nights live. She asked everyone to go and check if Sheraton spa and hotel was available if they had the spa open. She basically said can one of use go and check the website because I really want to go tomorrow, and if I come of live I won’t be able to talk so some of youse please go check and let me know. Mmmmmm

Thats crazy wtf! Behaviour is quite concering asking people to do that for her? Omg

 

[Olivemaks]

God iv just spent hours reading through this, wish I knew about it sooner

As everyone says you cannot imagine what either of them are going through and no one wants to take away from that but some things are odd and you can’t help but notice
The way they documented every private moment when A was alive it seems odd when you hear “me and ash spend a lot of time together but keep it private”

Also, I swear Saff says her and Ashley have been together for a really long time I’m sure he was only with Chloe khan not that long ago.

I wish we could all meet up and hug saff, as everyone says she seems so lost and passive. It’s heartbreaking.

I cried my heart through the fearne cotton podcast but again barely any mention of Saff.

Has anyone noticed on the lives loads of people ask Saffs nationality and she ignores it everytime.

Yeah yesterday she said she had been with him for 5 years and said ‘we’ve been together so long I don’t even remember! But he was with Chloe in 2017. After she said 5 years. She made a little face with her mouth like ‘oh tit’. And yes. She ignores questions about her nationality.. she looks mixed race. And her surname vorajee sounds somewhat Indian but it’s a South African name. But as you know there’s a very strong mixed Indian community in South Africa.. so I’m guessing that’s why she looks mixed and her her surname being vorajee makes sense

 

[Buggeroff]

She’s not done a live today wonder if she’s been told not to

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

SAF IS THE MOTHER OF YOUR CHILD !!!

feel like screaming that at him

 

[LaurieLaurie]

To be honest, when they started fundraising that million pounds to go to Singapore(?) for the treatment, I had a weird feeling that they were probably advised she wouldn't make it by doctors before. I don't think it was ever likely to happen, it just seemed a bit off that as soon as they reached their goal and had all that cash, they confirmed that doctors said she was going to pass soon. It felt a bit off to me. I might be totally wrong though, who knows.

It was clear she probably wouldn’t make it there from way before, and the entire thing was a very uncomfortable PR circus around a very sick little baby girl, may god rest her beautiful soul.

He made a huge show of her illness, more than just 'updates' about her and it made me very uncomfortable towards the end, all the photos of that poor beautiful baby looking so weak.

I agree with everything everyone has said about Saf - she needs support, she is clearly suffering and lonely too.

Most 'regular' people who suffer this kind of loss go back to work after a while, but she mopes around the house all day it seems, it can't be doing her any good. Most people start to move on and slowly each day feel a little more normal and distracted because they have work and maybe a hobby like the gym. When you sit there all day in the house, what good can it do? What did she do as a job before?

She does lips/filler but she was a dental nurse before that.

 

[its_all_the_drama_mick]

Lurker to this thread, but mostly because I worry for Saf and wondered if it was just me.
I really do hope that Ashley’s passiveness of Saf is just because he is so focused on the job in hand. To be honest I think once this bike ride is over and all the admirers go away Ashley will crash, and guess who will be there to love and support him? I sometimes wonder if his coldness is almost some type of PTSD? Like saf is the closest thing he will get to baby A and she went through it all with him.
I just hope he realises what a women he has by his side, she clearly adores him, she’s so beautiful inside and out. Saffiya really is an incredible mother. I can’t see what more a man could want.

 

[Polly_Chops]

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Maybe this is why Saf was sad yesterday..
From personal experience when someone is going through a hard time their relationship is the last thing on their minds.

... I am beast. I am a selfish hole more like

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

Saf is live now , she’s going to a castle ?

Shocker she went to the spa

Some woman was just so rude to Saf no need in front of others

 

[Hiyaguys]

Can’t believe saf called the person who worked at the castle a twit because she didn’t want to be on her live video! What’s happening to her? So entitled

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

Can’t believe saf called the person who worked at the castle a twit because she didn’t want to be on her live video! What’s happening to her? So entitled

The woman was rude to her !!!

Can’t believe saf called the person who worked at the castle a twit because she didn’t want to be on her live video! What’s happening to her? So entitled

Go back to the hinch thread hun

 

[Milfordcubicle]

Even Sat sounds bored of repeating “let’s go champ” on her latest story

 

[Olgivy]

Who what and Saf castle worker? Have I missed something?

 

[Hiyaguys]

The woman was rude to her !!!



Go back to the hinch thread hun

It sounded to me like she was saying she didn’t want to be on her video and that she had to buy tickets online! Didn’t hear anything rude

 

[its_all_the_drama_mick]

Can’t believe saf called the person who worked at the castle a twit because she didn’t want to be on her live video! What’s happening to her? So entitled

to be fair the woman was quiet rude, her tone was very off. Not saying saf was right calling her a twit but it’s only what we all say or think after encountering bad customer service. Just a great example of not being rude to people as you never know what that person is going through. Although I am glad you couldn’t see her face or she would be found and hounded onInstagram for it

 

[xxexposethemallxx]

I have debilitating anxiety , it’s so difficult & Saf is on her own & being anxious. Out of order that woman

 

[Book]

to be fair the woman was quiet rude, her tone was very off. Not saying saf was right calling her a twit but it’s only what we all say or think after encountering bad customer service. Just a great example of not being rude to people as you never know what that person is going through. Although I am glad you couldn’t see her face or she would be found and hounded onInstagram for it

Didn’t see it myself but Saf needs to check herself. She is wanting to be the face of a big foundation as well as begging to be in things like dancing on ice. Not very professional and not ok !

 

[its_all_the_drama_mick]

Didn’t see it myself but Saf needs to check herself. She is wanting to be the face of a big foundation as well as begging to be in things like dancing on ice. Not very professional and not ok !

regardless of any of the background story on who saf is or what has happened, it was bad customer service and the woman shouldn’t be in the job if she can’t deal with the public in a friendly manner. She also is not acting very professional in her job. But like I said, Saf called her a twit which may have been uncalled for, but who hasn’t walked away from a bad customer service experience turned to their partner and said what a gob? I know I have on plenty of occasions

god love saf she is really pushing herself getting out by herself in a city she doesn’t know and her anxiety must be sky high, she’s obviously on her live to have some company

 

[Book]

regardless of any of the background story on who saf is or what has happened, it was bad customer service and the woman shouldn’t be in the job if she can’t deal with the public in a friendly manner. She also is not acting very professional in her job. But like I said, Saf called her a twit which may have been uncalled for, but who hasn’t walked away from a bad customer service experience turned to their partner and said what a gob? I know I have on plenty of occasions

god love saf she is really pushing herself getting out by herself in a city she doesn’t know and her anxiety must be sky high, she’s obviously on her live to have some company

It’s not ok to talk to anyone like that ever! Let in front of thousands on her live. Plus she is most likely getting yet another freebie! We may all think and say things under our breath but we are not all putting our selves out there as ambassadors of things or begging for to be on huge shows. She needs to think about what she is doing and maybe keep herself off the lives until she is able to do that.I like Saf and feel for her but some things she says are very off the begging being the most irritating

 

[Loveitme]

Even Sat sounds bored of repeating “let’s go champ” on her latest story

Don’t blame her ,I bet she just wants some support from people in her actual real life but she’s not getting it so she has to go along with the Ashley show and is left talking to random and looking for comfort from social media .
I know I said I felt for Ashley in my last post and I do ,I think he needs someone to intervene becuase as someone else mentioned ,he will crash eventually .
Still comes across as the Ashley show atm though