Absolutely. Very triggering. We’ve been trying for almost 2 years. With not even the hint of a maybe. Eilidh mentions how it took a whole six months bless her
were as ash and her SIL both found out by surprise.
Sorry you’re going through that. Wishing you all the luck for the future
That’s the thing about those 3 and countless others to be fair, I can’t just single them out. They paint themselves as mummy bloggers. Here to share their journey through motherhood. Just like the rest of us that’s what the say. Down to earth, relatable. However it’s not like that because they exist in their own bubble and always will. They just want to talk about their surprise pregnancies, their morning sickness, breastfeeding troubles, 2 under 2 etc. Particularly with Ash the biggest “public figure” of them I feel she’s got no
bleeping clue about any lifestyle that’s not similar to hers. If you’re going to do it do it right. Talk about those who are struggling to conceive. ASK those people if they want to contribute their stories, their happiness and their hurt. Talk about loss. Talk about worry. Talk about adoptive parents, foster parents, two mums, two dads, single mums, single dads. Talk about juggling work and parenthood. Talk about the cost of childcare. Talk about the impact on your career. Anything. Anything out with your privileged detached home, Zara kids wear, designer dog shite. Yeah that’s relatable to some. In parts maybe somewhat similar to bits of my life, in parts so far away from it it’s unbelievable. You can’t please everyone and you can’t reach everyone. You can’t raise every issue under the sun but get your blinkers off and look around you. Ask yourself if the average parent wants to see you driving in your fancy motor to buy loads of tat for the kids on a random Tuesday when the rest of us are at work, counting the pennies, worrying if their doing life right.