Well today for example i went to the zoo with friend and her daughter who’s 3 months older than my 2 year 4 month old.What is it specifically if any ?
All kids are different and yours will be able to do things theirs can’t as well it works both ways! Don’t be so hard on yourself. It sounds like you want what’s best for your child.
Her daughter engaged the whole time looking and pointing saying which animals she loved and wanted to see next, said when she wanted a drink or a snack and generally walked round nicely keeping close to her mum.
My daughter is pretty much the opposite currently, but I know that she will grow and learn in her own time it’s just hard seeing other children do things so easily that your child struggles to.