I swear those earrings are the worst but she still force them on us since the beginning on her channel and in her photoshoots
I totally agree with you, the truth is you are either naturally elegant or you are not. Of course you can build it, build your femininity and nourish your energy, wear appropriate clothes etc. but some women are just born naturally elegant. Even with a trash bag on or very casual clothes they will still be elegant or at least give that energy around them. I meet many women naturally elegant and they truly mark your spirit in the best way. As you said Raty is none of that. Thats why everything looks forces and inelegant on her. She can polish herself as much as she wants, she will always be under someone who is naturally elegant. She will not light up a room when she enter it, people are not going to remember her as a soft, sweet, nice and elegant person. Majority of people will remember her as someone who tried to be elegant, stiff and "try hard" to look rich
I only had one discussion with her in DM a year ago to tell her about something she wasn't doing right (-I should have let her in her crap tbh) but it was a lesson for me, I unfollowed her after that. My message was very polite and nice but she was dry, stressed and upset. The way she speaks and the energy felt very cold, heavy and she sounded uncomfortable. You can tell she isn't a cultivated person nor elegant. The natural elegance we were talking about. She doesn't like constructive criticism. It is clear in her overall behaviour but also in the way she replies in comments section to people who dont agree with her. It shows her true personality, very bossy, masculine, not bright but must of all her lack of confidence and how uncomfortable she is with her own self.
You will always discover the true colour of someone in uncomfortable situation, not when they get compliment and everyone love them. When people point out something that isn't right you should be humble enough to think twice. It doesn't mean you should let rude people insult you but if you reply, you need to be smart about it and I dont believe being rude or mean is the answer, even more when you are suppose to give the exemple. When I have to deal with rude people I just block them and dont entertain them even if I know I can easily shut them off, I dont find any satisfaction in doing so. Not only she replies, she is rude, pin the comment and she share it in her story to show others "look what I answer to her" like she is waiting for other people to approve and back her up. She is the kind of person who will put someone else down publicly to feel good and powerful. If focusing on the negative and giving attention to the wrong thing was a person, it would be her. Lack of maturity and elegance...
Same thing for her "apology" video that was more of an explanation video. She reject the fault on others and thats usually what people like her do. They believe they know it all. The problem comes mostly from the outside world for them, thats why she will never succeed in a healthy way and on a longer term.
Spoiler alert : Her "inspiration" comes from her copying others people works.