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ThirdWorldGlam

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Thanks for such a loving welcome to the forum 🥰

I will share with you a personal anecdote (God, I have so many!) that I believe fits this thread.

One of my bests friends is an Argentinian trust fund guy. His granfather moved to South America after the WWII and decided to invest all his money on different bonds and companies. This is a pretty common story all over the world, as it was the post-war mindset. Then a part of that goes to their sons/grandsons. Classic.

My friend has a pretty successful career, lovely guy. By chance, he met this woman that could be an Anna's student 🤓

She was all about elegance, going to expensive places, had a LV bag (this in South America is super over the top), always bragged about her travels to 5 star hotels, the pics for the gram with long shiny silk dresses. You get the picture. Her way of dressing up all over the top, all the freaking time, was kind of ...weird, but it could be that she was actually from a wealthy family! We just didn't know at that time.

They dated for a few months and eventually, he told me that this woman was not paying for anything at all and that he was basically "sugar daddying" her. The trigger situation (from which my friend was asking me advice 🤦‍♀️) was that she was spending money like crazy as it was an infinite resource and asking him all the time to buy her stuff and book the most expensive restaurants.
For my friend, it didn't make sense, because if she already had a LV bag and all the brag when they met... what was going on there?

He had the money, he just had a weird feeling about the situation.

I had to explain him that some girls may lie. Yes, lie 🤪 to pick up well established guys. As I had access to some personal sensitive information thanks to my job (some people here already been exposing Anna thanks to the same thing 😂 lovely detective work), I just told him: her numbers don't add up. RUN. She is not who she is telling the world she allegedly is. I showed him some actual proof about how fucked up the situation was and... that was it.

This girl was "elegant", had a fake LV, had the best manners in terms of etiquette. She had no job, she was not "old money".

They obviously broke up.

What's the moral of the story here: why would you want your future sugar daddy to think that you are already wealthy? (?) No, but seriously, Anna's logic doesn't make sense.

Being honest and don't trying to avoid ALL the expenses is the correct and most elegant thing to do.
Latest Ana's video saying to not pick up your wallet. I mean...

When I was single and I couldn't pay for anything, I was honest about it. No shame. If the guy is into you for whatever reason and he enjoys your company. He will pay.
But it's a conversation that (if you want something serious with him and not just being an Escort) you should have. The silence between the bill and him paying for it, is just weird. He will probably only smile at you if you go grab your purse and make a hand gesture.

Anna just keeps giving advice about how to be a prostitute. Nothing wrong with that, but that's different than "bagging" a husband material guy.

That's all my dear elegant ladieez. Good night x

 
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J.Tarac

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Welcome to the 22th thread about this ex-topless dancer biatchy who thinks she can teach elegance, femininity, fashion and how to bag a millionaire to women worldwide while faking a life of affluence with her knock-off designer accessories, complete lack of capital culture, who's unskilled at networking and doesn't have friends, convenently married to a thousandaire employee of a Geneve based bank and, most importanly, through a series of lies, trickery and acting has been scamming women since 2017/2018 with her School of Affluence and following projects.

Recently the allegedly thought leader and educator in an attempt to once more keep up with her elegant/affluent virtual charade posted a video on YouTube entitled "5 Status Symbols ALL Elegant Woman Must Have", having it renamed to "5 Status Symbols ALL Affluent Woman Must Have" then making it private after receiving an enourmous backlash from her own subscribers who overall took the video as both a distasteful and inelegant episode of someone boasting their luxury possessions while acting oblivious to a tragic worldwide moment (COVID pandemic) and also through questionable humour relying on insulting suggestions that have nothing to do with the universal concept of elegance/affluence, showcasing a clear misuse and confusion of both terms to justify a personal (imagetic) life standard that is not alligned with what reality presents. On the next day, trying to explain herself and the decision behind such uncommon attitude, Anna Bey posted the "apology" video "Why I've removed my video" on her channel. Following a sequence of grimaces, lips pursed and uneasy breathing, the almost 3 minute video presents a series of half excuses leaning on once again the misuse and confusion of the terms "elegance" and "affluence" and, most importantly, subliminarly implying her "apology" falls on her subscribers inability of understanding her approach and main message. Such episode catched the attention of YouTuber Dacob of the Super Dacob channel, who dedicated part of his live on diving through the reasons of the backlash Anna Bey received and, by relying on information gathered in more than 20 threads about Anna Bey on Tattle, made an exposé worth of a standing ovation.

We tattlers would like to thank Dacob for acknowledging our allegedly investigating skills and effort and for putting up such beautiful presentation that hopefully will serve as another opening eye tool for anyone out there and save them from being deceived by her.

On this new chapter we continue to expose Anna Bey, her new attempt to rebrand herself, her lies and tricks behind whatever project she "hard working" comes up with.

EDIT: Below goes some of @nomod's notes regarding the segment of Dacob's livestream that covered Anna Bey:

Who is Anna Bey?
  • Shout out to tattle.life and the Anna Bey's threads. When you Google Anna's name, tattle.life is the 5th result.
  • Dacob reads the tattle wiki.
  • Dacob was intrigued by the Zara clothes video, when she also made a video on how to be elegant with Zara clothes.
  • She's throwing shade at Zara, but she would marry the owner [Amancio Ortega] in a heartbeat, as he is one of the richest people in Europe.

The deleted video
  • She renamed the video from "five items every elegant woman must own" to "five items every affluent woman must own".
  • She changed the video title, but in the video she kept repeating the word elegant.
  • The five items she mentioned are: bag, car, jewellery, smartphone and luggage.
  • Dacob reflects about fashion. Haute couture doesn't have logos. When you're rich, you don't have anything to prove to anyone, you don't care about logos. A logo doesn't save you from anything, it doesn't guarantee elegance or affluence.
  • Quoting Coco Chanel: "Some people think luxury is the opposite of poverty. It is not. It is the opposite of vulgarity."

The apology video
  • It wasn't an apology video.
  • She made the video in response to the backlash and she back pedalled in it.
  • She never says she's sorry, she just apologised for confusing people.
  • But she didn't confused people. She had enough time to rectify the use of the word elegant, so the only person confused here is Anna, not the viewers.

The problems with Anna Bey behaviour
  • She doesn't feel the need to apologise.
  • She even promoted her new venture in the apology video [Elite Upgrade].
  • She is misguiding a lot of people who are following her.
  • She contributes to the FOMO of the people who are following her.
  • People fall for the deceit of this status symbols.
  • She doesn't protect her most fragile followers.
  • As a public figure with a big following, she has the responsibility to elevate and educate people.

Your turn, @white_cat, to another chapter of Geneva Shore. ;)
 
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RatRaty

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Title: Aija's choice

Anna Bey #23: TheAList, Waitlist, SOTEW 3.0, Reviews, Husband, Holidays, FakeHandbags, NetWorth, Backlash, New Video
 
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LoremIpsum

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That creepypasta smile…

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What’s up with the Russian sub?

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And while you’re at it, please show us your affluent house, garden, cars, your fine china and crystals…😁
 
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Cykelkorg

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Hello Tattle!

I'm a new member that is trying to catch up with all the Anna Bey threads.

I discovered Anna about 1 year ago and was hooked! I love everything that has with etiquette, and love historical romance books :D And roleplaying. So I enjoyed watching her videos and daydreamed of living her kind of life. At first, I couldn't believe that she was from Sweden. Because... I am from Sweden. And her way of speaking was so different from other accents I have heard.

But, her being Swedish just made my interests bigger. And guess what? We are born the exact same year! So I really had one person to compare my life against hers with.

When she first started to do letters and videos about the first reboot of her course last year, was I soo hooked! Yes, I was going to buy it. How much could it be? 100 euros? Hmm.. I can buy it even if it is 200 euros, I thought. Just for fun.
I'm from a typical Swedish lower-middle-class family that is continuing to live just that. I have a little house, a husband, one kid, cats, a university degree in social work, I can splurge this course upon myself.

But when I saw the price? Good lord. That couldn't be, right? But it was. And, yes, I have the money for it. But I would NEVER pay that amount! Just think of how many computer games I could buy instead, that would give me more pleasure if you go by time.

It was never about trying to elevate my life for me, just to have something to do. Watch some videos, perhaps get tips. And this price was outrageous. Still, I got the Fear of missing out by all her e-mails. And still do. Even after been reading here. She knows how psychology works.

I still compare my life to hers, easy when you come from the same country and are the same age. But I'm more fascinated now, than envious. My life is just lower middle class... but hell... that much more stable than hers... And without bearing my breasts...


I will continue to read here. And watch this train-wreck to its end.

Thank you everyone for all of what you do here, spreading this knowledge.
 
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pinks123

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This is in response to a certain female on the 53rd page of the previous thread who said that she agrees with Anna on men paying for everything bcz of gender pay-parity 9I wasn't allowed to post there bcz the tread is closed: Yes unfortunately there is a huge gender pay gap in various sectors and that is wrong.

Let me give you a brief about my backgroud- I used to work as a model around 6 years ago and would earn around 4000-5000 USD every month. I met my boyfriend (now husband) who was working as a salaried employee at a multinational company back then and his salary was around 5k monthly too. We would go out on dates and holidays and being the gentleman he has always been, he never let me pay for anything even when I insisted to. But he would always take me to only those places that he could afford that time. Three years later, he started his own business and he now earns in 7 figures annually. We're married now and he treats me like a queen bcz I chose to be with him during his struggle days.

Now a women like Anna or her students would have broken up with him when he was a salaried employee bcz he would be an 'average Joe' as per them. But I didn't even think about the money aspect bcz I was not a millionaire either. I never say that men should not pay. My only problem is when women who travel in public transport judge a man by his car. Girl, atleast he has a car, you don't have one at all so stop being so entitled! All I'm saying is fall in love organically and not by doing these calculations on how to bag a billionaire when you are just a thousandaire. Bcz trust me that billionaire is not a fool. He would know that you're just after his money and nobody wants to fall in love with such women. Such women just end up being prostitutes.
 
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laurensanchez

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Can some of you explain to such an uneducated human being as I am what she means in human words? Especially the first part of the second sentence...
Translation in plain English:

Listen up you broke worthless b*tches.. I am still fighting a 19 year old to give her back her money, so don't think you will ever get a refund out of me. I worked too hard on my back to buy these Hermesa bags. Once you pay me, you will never see me again and I'll never delete your email from my database. Welcome to the cult, dummy!
 
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sashabunny

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Lainey Molnar is an illustrator from Budapest and she is using her creative expression mission to empower women. Her illustrators show how normal things are about the female human body and our natural looks and how we shouldn't be shamed for things that are normal.

I like her drawings and so do 650,000 others and counting. Lainey's drawings are inspiring women to be more comfortable in our own skin after dealing with sexism, discrimination, violence against women. The opposite of what Anna and the likes teach and judge other innocent women by... as if women don't already face enough unjust and disgusting judgement from unfortunately a lot of toxic males. I don't even want to call them "men".

Lainey posted this on her Instagram stories less than 24 hours ago 👏👏👏👏

There is a major difference between elegant etiquette vs. being unfairly condescending, rude and judgemental. All of Anna's Tik Tok and Instagram short clips are condescending and "holier than thou". It shows more about her (and people who are in no position to judge in the first place, who still judge others with no context) than it does about the people they're judging.

I could not care less how someone chooses to eat a banana, their croissant or their pasta. If they aren't hurting anyone or making a scene, who cares?! Seriously... leave innocent bystanders alone.

I HIGHLY doubt Anna even follows any of her at times ridiculous 'rules' when she is at home, relaxing sitting on her couch eating a snack. 😂

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As someone that doesn't come from a priviliged background, I fell into Anna's trap at first (just watched her videos, that's all). However, when I slowly got to know more and more about the real jetset-world and people, I quickly realised Anna's "teachings" aren't the ones you would want to be associated with at all.

This isn't meant to shame anyone, but it's just a fact that if you follow her "School of Affluence" teachings, you won't end up being a part of the inner circle, high society, jetset or elite (whatever you want to call it at all). I was so disillusioned when it clicked for me.

Anna's not teaching you to become a part of high society. She's teaching you how to become one of the thousands girls in Mykonos/Ibiza/Dubai that has a price for the night. It's safe to say that once you've been labelled as that kind of woman, there's no escaping it. Once again, not shaming anyone or their choices, I was just shocked to find out the real deal after being a little naive at first.

Selling this as a 'leveling up journey' is the biggest lie ever. And luring women into this dangerous part of the jetsetworld and making them think otherwise should tell you enough about Ann's knowledge, views and advice. That's why I'm thankful for this forum and all the threads you've made to warn others before it's too late. ❤
 
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hi girls! long time tattle lurker here 🙃 I'm happy there's a thread on my favourite "elegant lady" 😜
so I discovered Anna a few years ago and was watching here videos now and then. I could agree with her on some issues (e.g. Louis Vuitton monogram is hideous, big fake lashes look cheap), but gradually her obsession with being, or rather appearing, rich and elegant became really tiresome.
What really did it for me was this latest deleted video. Yes, I was one of the few who had a pleasure of watching it before it disappeared. I meeaaan... here sit's a former yacht girl, authoratively stating that a phone older than 3 years looks ridiculous, Cartier is the only jewelry that counts, and you need to drive a Ferrari if you want to be elegant. She mentioned Porsche and BMW as one of the "more accesible options" (I forgot the exact wording), and I was listening to it like "WTF?!" these are expensive cars!!! This is the moment I knew Anna Bey left planet Earth.
Well, BMW and Porsch are "more affordable" options, but obviously she can't even afford a Ford Fiesta. And if her Birkin is fake, I bet her Cartier bracelet came from Ebay. When I was 18, I was crazy about that bracelet. I stopped eyeing it when I realised that everyone who could afford it, supposedly, was buying a counterfeit of remarkable quality on Ebay. We should add "Anna Ebay" to the list of her endless nicknames.
 
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Bastine de Beaumanoir

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It's Monday Ladies !
And Monday is the day when we open our mind to other subjects, thus enriching our general culture. Someone called us « unintelligent », we must accept to work a little bit our weak intelligence.
What interesting topic could we cover ? How about Swiss criminal Law explained ? Use Google Translate. Every word is relevant, but I think it's very juicy in French.

Art. 146 du code pénal suisse

Aux termes de l’art. 146 du code pénal, se rend coupable d’escroquerie, celui qui, dans le dessein de se procurer ou de procurer à un tiers un enrichissement illégitime, aura astucieusement induit en erreur une personne, la déterminant à des actes préjudiciables à ses intérêts pécuniaires ou à ceux d’un tiers. De quelle manière ? Par des affirmations fallacieuses ou par la dissimulation de faits vrais. Ou encore en confortant astucieusement la victime dans son erreur. En d’autres termes: sans astuce, pas d’escroquerie.
Selon la jurisprudence, il y a astuce lorsque l’auteur recourt à un édifice de mensonges, à des manœuvres frauduleuses ou à une mise en scène. Un comportement peut également être qualifié d’astucieux en présence de fausses informations, si leur vérification n’est pas possible, ne l’est que difficilement ou ne peut raisonnablement être exigée.


For girls reading us and who bought things online : it is possible to get your money back, I shall indicate you soon on which platform you can safely file a complaint, in all languages.
 
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Lijian

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I just wanted to share that I signed up to the last Anna Bey course, 'Secrets of the Elite Woman' i think it was, I'd even paid, and then I found this forum after one of the comments somewhere said to search 'Anja ....' (can't remember the name exactly...). After some research involving this forum and a realisation that there was no way i would follow the course, I applied for a refund. Thanks a lot for saving me a load of money.
 
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Verona

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Anyone seen Justine Leconte's latest video? She displays two different handbags of different price points (fast fashion Vs designer) and tells us exactly what we should see and seek regarding quality as well giving tips for our next handbag hunt. Justine's approach and knowledge put that garbage Anna created out of her own mind and then deleted to utter shame. Funny thing is that that's exactly the kind of content some of her followers ask: How to know something is of good quality? How to see if it's worth the money? It's easy to blabber a woman should get only designer handbags, the thing is justify it with solid reasons while wisely communicating it in a way it doesn't result in insulting someone else's perception/intelligence. Justine made it effortlessly in my opinion. Zero superficiality and zero showing-off. Maybe it's even insulting comparing Justine to Anna. One is a hard-worker, the other is a leech. But it's quite an agression seeing the leech succeeding daily in numbers instead of the hard-worker. Just my two cents.
 
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rosebud07

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hi girls! long time tattle lurker here 🙃 I'm happy there's a thread on my favourite "elegant lady" 😜
so I discovered Anna a few years ago and was watching here videos now and then. I could agree with her on some issues (e.g. Louis Vuitton monogram is hideous, big fake lashes look cheap), but gradually her obsession with being, or rather appearing, rich and elegant became really tiresome.
What really did it for me was this latest deleted video. Yes, I was one of the few who had a pleasure of watching it before it disappeared. I meeaaan... here sit's a former yacht girl, authoratively stating that a phone older than 3 years looks ridiculous, Cartier is the only jewelry that counts, and you need to drive a Ferrari if you want to be elegant. She mentioned Porsche and BMW as one of the "more accesible options" (I forgot the exact wording), and I was listening to it like "WTF?!" these are expensive cars!!! This is the moment I knew Anna Bey left planet Earth.
 
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Bastine de Beaumanoir

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I don’t know how to spot a fake diamond from a real diamond in a picture so I will take Bastine’s word for it❤)
the evidence is in the "culasse" (the lower part of the stone, I don't know the equivalent in english) ; please forgive me to not give more details, I think you understand why...

Since I am in the gemology and jewelry chapter, I need to re-open Bastine's free alternative online finishing school for another 5 min., just to point out, once again, that her passage in IVP was useless. She did something wrong with her rings from the étiquette point of view. There is a slight mistake many women do nowadays : putting the wedding ring first and then the engagement ring. It's the opposite that must be done because the wedding come to confirm and strenghten the social bond of the engagement. As most of the young jewelry sellers are not trained in protocol issues, they practically ignore the rule and so the clients who should have been advised by them. It doesn't matter in reality to be honest, it's only one of those crazy rules of étiquette that virtually nobody follows in the real life. But if one claims to be IVP certified, one must put on the table the proof of her knowledge....
 
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