And surely moving out, buying nice things for your new home etc is a treat in itself? When we bought our home we splashed out on a nice cutlery set and a bottle of wine not tacky jewelleryShe probably only said she treated herself for her โachievementsโ () because of the backlash she thought sheโd receive without the excuses during the time of a pandemic. Renting an overpriced flat when you had it somewhat easy at home and could have saved for a mortgage hardly deserves a huge pat on the back