hermionegrangerrrr
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WHAT THE HELL JUST HAPPENED TO ME???
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scantysandwich
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Why is Alice wasting energy fighting us? It makes no sense. Her excuse is always that it’s about the kids and she will protect them at all costs but she hasn’t and isn’t protecting them.
So Alice, seeing as you like to shout from the rooftops about how far you will go to protect your kids (usually in an attempt to justify your abuses) how is any of this non-exhaustive list working to protect them? I would love to see you try to explain how.
- You have poisoned them against a loving father (he just doesn’t love you)
- You’ve isolated them from their loving family (they just don’t love you - I’m sensing a theme here)
- You have refused to put basic controls on your daughter’s social media activity
- You have parentified both children by sharing adult matters with them that they should never have been aware of
- You have enmeshed them and taught them that mother dearest’s histrionic fears and feelings always come first
- You have squandered all of the money that could have been used to set them up in college by ending the collaborative divorce process (remember that open letter from the psychologist Alice? Yes you were warned but reacted as badly to that advice as you do to anything that threatens to damage your victimhood)
- You have refused to get a job and support them financially
- You told them that they need to support you or fuck off
- You attempted to set-up an abusive and vexatious restraining order in your eldest’s name
Remember this message to Ioan?
In this one message you display the parentification and enmeshing mentioned above by involving the kids in an assessment of whether their father needs psychiatric help and aligning them with you by saying “it’s frightening for all of us”. You, as the supposed adult, should be protecting your children from fear, especially from adult fears! They should be blissfully unaware of those.
Oh and your next line screams of parental alienation “We just want you to go away and let us get on with our lives”.
In your last line we see why you have done all of this. Why you have poisoned those poor kids. You are TERRIFIED that if they spend time with their Dad they will see you for who you are and they will stop loving you, just like Ioan did, just like your Dad did. Wow, how insecure must you be? And how utterly, utterly selfish.
So Alice, seeing as you like to shout from the rooftops about how far you will go to protect your kids (usually in an attempt to justify your abuses) how is any of this non-exhaustive list working to protect them? I would love to see you try to explain how.
- You have poisoned them against a loving father (he just doesn’t love you)
- You’ve isolated them from their loving family (they just don’t love you - I’m sensing a theme here)
- You have refused to put basic controls on your daughter’s social media activity
- You have parentified both children by sharing adult matters with them that they should never have been aware of
- You have enmeshed them and taught them that mother dearest’s histrionic fears and feelings always come first
- You have squandered all of the money that could have been used to set them up in college by ending the collaborative divorce process (remember that open letter from the psychologist Alice? Yes you were warned but reacted as badly to that advice as you do to anything that threatens to damage your victimhood)
- You have refused to get a job and support them financially
- You told them that they need to support you or fuck off
- You attempted to set-up an abusive and vexatious restraining order in your eldest’s name
Remember this message to Ioan?
In this one message you display the parentification and enmeshing mentioned above by involving the kids in an assessment of whether their father needs psychiatric help and aligning them with you by saying “it’s frightening for all of us”. You, as the supposed adult, should be protecting your children from fear, especially from adult fears! They should be blissfully unaware of those.
Oh and your next line screams of parental alienation “We just want you to go away and let us get on with our lives”.
In your last line we see why you have done all of this. Why you have poisoned those poor kids. You are TERRIFIED that if they spend time with their Dad they will see you for who you are and they will stop loving you, just like Ioan did, just like your Dad did. Wow, how insecure must you be? And how utterly, utterly selfish.
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BingoFlamingo
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This whole business with Sarah shows a tiny part of what Ioan lived with for 20 years. Imagine this in the home, being yelled at in your face, being contradicted, talked over, belittled for all those years.
she criticised his looks (he might not be your type but you can’t deny he’s always been a handsome chap).
she belittled his work (he might not be Oscar worthy but he’s a decent actor, been in Oscar nominated films and worked with the cream of the crop, and trained at RADA ffs)
she mocked his career when forever was cancelled. Yet hundreds of shows are cancelled every year and for no fault of the actor, it’s usually a ratings and cost decision.
she taunted him for his love for his country, his love for his children, his love for his national team
Nearly four years of internet chaos with warring factions and abuse of strangers, all because the abused man, Ioan, finally had the strength and wherewithal to leave his abuser with nothing but the clothes on his back knowing he would surely pay for it and boy, hasn’t he. Both literally and figuratively.
Alice Evans, holder of a Domestic Violence restraining order, will never stop. That’s the saddest part. She should try to move on, be happy, find new love, find joy in life. Life is too short. I’ve lost two friends in recent years of her age. Life is short. Go and enjoy it and let the man enjoy his.
she criticised his looks (he might not be your type but you can’t deny he’s always been a handsome chap).
she belittled his work (he might not be Oscar worthy but he’s a decent actor, been in Oscar nominated films and worked with the cream of the crop, and trained at RADA ffs)
she mocked his career when forever was cancelled. Yet hundreds of shows are cancelled every year and for no fault of the actor, it’s usually a ratings and cost decision.
she taunted him for his love for his country, his love for his children, his love for his national team
Nearly four years of internet chaos with warring factions and abuse of strangers, all because the abused man, Ioan, finally had the strength and wherewithal to leave his abuser with nothing but the clothes on his back knowing he would surely pay for it and boy, hasn’t he. Both literally and figuratively.
Alice Evans, holder of a Domestic Violence restraining order, will never stop. That’s the saddest part. She should try to move on, be happy, find new love, find joy in life. Life is too short. I’ve lost two friends in recent years of her age. Life is short. Go and enjoy it and let the man enjoy his.
Congratulations to @Ally Pally for the winning thread title!
@Old Soak has very kindly offered to the do the thread recap below (and a lot happened in the last thread), but I will just add this:
Alice has accused Tattle/me of posting pornographic pictures next to photos of her daughter.
No, all I did was provide evidence that Alice is a crap mother, who let a pornographic account with an erect penis follow a Twitter account she set up for her daughter, when her daughter was 7 or 8 years old, which violates Twitter's terms of service.
When Alice's bad behaviour is shown up, she tends to call people narcs, paedophiles and abusers.
Previous thread here.
Housekeeping:
- Please stick to the main players.
- Obscure any identifying information from screenshots from those who are not main players (and/or Alice's latest sock account), and those who do not have more than 10,000 social media followers.
- Keep it on Tattle.
@Old Soak has very kindly offered to the do the thread recap below (and a lot happened in the last thread), but I will just add this:
Alice has accused Tattle/me of posting pornographic pictures next to photos of her daughter.
No, all I did was provide evidence that Alice is a crap mother, who let a pornographic account with an erect penis follow a Twitter account she set up for her daughter, when her daughter was 7 or 8 years old, which violates Twitter's terms of service.
When Alice's bad behaviour is shown up, she tends to call people narcs, paedophiles and abusers.
Previous thread here.
Housekeeping:
- Please stick to the main players.
- Obscure any identifying information from screenshots from those who are not main players (and/or Alice's latest sock account), and those who do not have more than 10,000 social media followers.
- Keep it on Tattle.
It's just devastating isn't it, how the decision to marry the wrong person - in this case, a woman so evil, twisted, and a narcissist - can reverberate many years later and result in the destruction of everything you love, just because you wanted to leave.
Ioan has lost his relationship with his kids, his reputation, and it looks like, a lot of his career. All because of Alice. If he hadn't been cast in 102 Dalmatians, he never would have met her, and she would have found a different victim.
Thank goodness he found Bianca, and seems to have repaired the relationship with his family.
50degreesnorth
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“Many of the court documents were photoshopped” - dunno about you lot, but I’m not entirely convinced fudging your utility costs strictly falls under the umbrella of photoshop…
Anyway Malice - from one single mother to another - I’m off to work now. I work with kids. I can do that because I’m not a fruitloop with a DVRO so I actually passed the DBS checks.
Anyway Malice - from one single mother to another - I’m off to work now. I work with kids. I can do that because I’m not a fruitloop with a DVRO so I actually passed the DBS checks.
MarkC1387
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So basically Ioan left her after some rocky years, with plenty of advance warning, including nearly half a year between telling her he didn't love her anymore and actually moving out and filing for divorce. This is supposed to excuse thousands of abusive messages across multiple platforms, bombarding his family, his employers, his new girlfriend, her family and friends.. An actual court of law determined a restraining order was appropriate, even offered one for longer than Ioan requested. Hmmm no I don't think that gets a free pass because she was sad and angry.
sevenyearbiatch
Chatty Member
I think I like this Sarah character…
M33L4
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Bianca
Diamonds60
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The real Alice is back
welp
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with very very very very striking similarities to Alice. The messages and the relentless nature of it are pretty much a copy of what Alice send to and posted about Ioan. This is why she is very strongly insisting to claim that she is being a victim of Marthas, rather than her being a Martha. She deep down will have seen herself in her.
Seriously, the success of Baby Reindeer has convinced me now that Ioan pitching his story would be a success.
Diamonds60
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This is all about money. It’s past payday and Alice is going to go insane until Ioan pays up.
None of this is about tattle.
None of this is about tattle.
Pixie’s Mam
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MarmiteMonster
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Of all the things that annoy me about Alice (and the list is long) the perpetual victim mode is the worst.
Alice:
You did not grow up in poverty
You were not orphaned or abandoned as a child
You were not raped by HW
Ioan did not leave you destitute
You have never faced homelessness or starvation
You have not been hounded or bullied by Bianca and Ioan
Nobody is threatening you or your children
You do not have a life threatening illness
You have led a very comfortable and privileged life (autocorrect went for productive life LOL).
A few people bitching on a gossip site is not very nice but it’s not a threat to you or your children’s safety or security.
If you got a job, stopped living your life on SM and behaved like a decent human this thread would die very quickly.
You are not a victim!
Alice:
You did not grow up in poverty
You were not orphaned or abandoned as a child
You were not raped by HW
Ioan did not leave you destitute
You have never faced homelessness or starvation
You have not been hounded or bullied by Bianca and Ioan
Nobody is threatening you or your children
You do not have a life threatening illness
You have led a very comfortable and privileged life (autocorrect went for productive life LOL).
A few people bitching on a gossip site is not very nice but it’s not a threat to you or your children’s safety or security.
If you got a job, stopped living your life on SM and behaved like a decent human this thread would die very quickly.
You are not a victim!
I'm not actually here
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I cannot think of a single parent I know IRL who wouldn't be straight on to their children's devices IMMEDIATELY if somebody signposted there was a dodgy af account following their child on SM.
Yet, what does Malice do? Get on insta and start blaming those people signposting this major safeguarding issue. Mind boggling.
Now, could she just shut up for a few hours as I have only just caught up.
Yet, what does Malice do? Get on insta and start blaming those people signposting this major safeguarding issue. Mind boggling.
Now, could she just shut up for a few hours as I have only just caught up.
Hiraeth
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Hey all. The zoom conference was supposed to have happened an hour ago. There is nothing up on the attorney portal yet (which I can of course access with my imaginary credentials 
), but I'll keep checking. It may be that, since the court is closed, the minute orders won't be uploaded till tomorrow morning.
), but I'll keep checking. It may be that, since the court is closed, the minute orders won't be uploaded till tomorrow morning.
NarcRage
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Most of Alice's Instagram followers wouldn't be able to pick Alice out of a police line up because her filtered photos look nothing like the real Alice.I still can’t believe she got away with perjuring herself in her response to the TRO/DVRO!! She claimed she wouldn’t be able to pick Bianca out in a line up!!!