tbh what Alice says to her minions in private doesnt really matter for the DVRO, unless she plots things with them to harass/threaten I+B.
It does show what person she actually is, though. Not like this wasn't clear, though.
edit: though given that she allegedly mailed these things probably to someone that runs a Ioan fanclub you can argue otherwise
IMO, it shows how she worked to separate him from others, a form of abuse. She ingratiated herself into his fan club and then worked on the two women to turn them against IG. That's typically Narc behavior. It seems the woman in question has talked about this. That they were essentially groomed.
It also challenges her loving and kind persona. She proclaims to be a Fibro sufferer and wants support for it, yet ridicules and demeans another woman with a far more serious illness. That shows questionable character.
I will never understand that kind of cruelty. I'm still shocked by it.
MOO