This is why "Bless your heart" pisses me off so much. If you want to say "go duck yourself", then say "go duck yourself". Choosing alternative words to convey the same ill will, doesn't lessen the intent. God isn't sitting somewhere saying "Well, she still wants that other woman to die a painful death, but she used pretty words, so I guess I'm good with it."He's "gosh danging" ( Momma says cursing is the devil)...
Hey Momma Woo, the devil is in your heart and mind, not your mouth. Plenty goes on before the words even get to your lips.