Inforapenny
Chatty Member
Get your partner to be the spokesman. I did this with my boyfriend. I couldn't face it.I think I’ve buried my head in the sand with regards to a lot and made excuses about waiting until after Christmas, waiting until they contact us etc. People have tried to give advice but it’s not always that easy when you’re the person that’s poured hours and hours of time into planning. I think I need a spokesperson to speak on my behalf
I know my other half would take the role and I’ve always said no before because I didn’t want any bad feelings between us and the venue, but now we’re leaning more towards just cancelling and making alternative plans, I don’t mind as much!
I really do think I’d feel happier just us and the kids doing a very small thing.
@Barbie2020 we had California booked too and things over there do not look great at all do they?!
He asked me for a list of people and things he needed to do to postpone our wedding and off he went and did it. It made everything slightly easier.
He is also very easy going whereas I would panic and get stressed.