Eggsandbeans
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What annoys me, and I’m probably going to get shot for this, is this idea that a child free persons spare time is not as valuable as someone who has chosen to have children.
I replied with a photo of my trashed planters and the cost of replacing the plants … they deleted their review an hour laterHope you did one of them replies saying your kids were vandalising and that's why you where asked to leave. Or just ignore it that would make them more pissed and reply to the good ones x
Not to be a weirdo but I was curious that someone child free would say this. So I had a look at your other posts and it seems you have a child.I think to choose a child free life and live it successfully really does require interests to occupy your time, particularly as you get older. They don’t have to be wild and exciting interests, but as your more and more of your circle of friends have families of their own you need something in place beyond coming home and chilling on the sofa with the same person every night which feels very different in your late 40s than it does in your late 20s.
If you have children, then maybe this thread isn’t for you? This is a place for child free people to openly discuss the reasons why they don’t want children.If one doesn’t like to be judged for not having kids, why so many judgey comments about people that do have kids We should just let everyone make their own choices without the judging. I used to wonder how people could even think about not having children (until I had my own And realised what a sacrifice it was) and I never saw it as rude to ask, but I’ve educated myself and would now never ask someone those questions anymore
This reminds me of a situation my partner and I found ourselves in on a plane journey a few years ago. We were going to Spain and had booked the aisle and middle seat, the window seat had already been purchased.No, sorry but I spent my childhood giving up seats for older people and it's my turn now. Especially if I've paid for and reserved my seat. Mummy should've reserved them all seats.
I've seen mothers on buses refuse to fold up their buggies or create a massive entitled eyerolling fuss when someone in a wheelchair needs to get on and use that space. Fuck off with that shit. Yeah, it's a hassle for you but wheelchair trumps that every time.
It's lovely that hearing their child say 'i love you' makes it all worth it. It's just a shame it's not real isn't it? Because their children don't know what love is as they haven't got their own children.Saw this posted on Instagram. These kind of posts annoy me
I can think of many things that feel incredible to me.. a massage, riding a roller coaster, a long uninterrupted sleep, etc etc. Apparently nothing compares to this though!
But no one will ever question you about why you don't want cats or suggest you're weird for not wanting them. Childfree people get this all the time and a thread like this is a space where we can vent and share our experiences.I don’t get why people would have a ‘child free’ thread. You don’t have kids, you don’t maybe like or want them so why do you feel the need to discuss it with others? I don’t like cats, And don’t plan on ever having any but I wouldn’t join an online forum to discuss why I don’t want any every day? No hate, just a bit curious about why the need for this forum. The same with the child free Reddit forum.