Tell me if I’m wrong and I understand not wanting to be with the father of your child/ren but when you have a baby, everything you do, is then for them, and I wouldn’t want to mess up a cohesive co-parenting relationship for a bit of dick, or a friendship, but most importantly I wouldn’t want to mess up the happiness of my children. I stay single and working despite progressive spina bifida because it’s about my children, I put myself through hell physically and hurt myself because I want to give them every memory and bit of happiness I can. What a sensible person would do, is make it clear, the marriage is over, and move on either single or with someone else, but not other peoples men or friends of your husbands and at this point I’m going to state, husbands family too because you never know! Not blur lines on social media and in private but do shitty snakey things behind closed doors, she acts innocent but really she’s selfish, incredibly selfish.