That’s exactly it isn’t it, it’s all absolutely fine when both parents are single and things are running smoothly, you’re still fine with the exchange it’s not awkward, you may still go on days out and things.. the minute a new partner comes in a lot of the time it goes to tit, because you have to respect how comfortable your current partner is and how your ex behaves towards your new partner. So bare this in mind yaz, once Lee meets someone else - which he will because he’s working with the public and meeting new people probably every single day, you won’t be his priority anymore. It will be Wolf - the new partner - his mum - the dog - the fish and then maybe you